It was largely a kneejerk reaction to the game getting furiously recommended and meme'd to death, plus the sneaky suspicion that it was just Demon's Souls by any other name. I was a big fan of that and I never understood why it was such a miss where Dark Souls triumphed.Never played Dark Souls? I'm really surprised.
So to anyone interested, I'm just past the dragon and into the Undead Parish. Died an embarrassing amount to Taurus Demon and ended up cheesing it with four downward stabs. I just got the first good weapon upgrade in the game so far, the Drake Sword. I'm paranoid about using any items so I'm hoarding everything just in case. I'm assuming fast travel between bonfires comes later.
I'm not clear about what humanities and kindling are for, and how do they work, and what's the point of unhollowing other than getting invaded.