Recent content by MasochisticAvenger

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    Yet another girl issues thread

    You asked her out, and she turned you down. What she chooses to do isn't really any of your business, since you are pretty much just a dildo for her to use. Friends with Benefits is almost always a bad idea for this very reason: one person starts to get too attached and sees the relationship as...
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    My daughter is named Tali'Zorah. I suppose I'm crazy : )

    I feel that anything I could say has already been said better here. Just remember, you're not the one who has to live with the name, and it is very unlikely the name is going to mean anything by the time the child is old enough for it to matter. So all you're going to do is make it a lot harder...
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    problem, beat up by a girl and stressing over it.

    Hmm, good point, I hadn't considered that. I would hope no one would be stupid enough to go at someone with a baseball bat just because their pride got a little damaged. It is very easy to kill someone with a baseball bat, and you have to live with that guilt for the rest of your life.
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    problem, beat up by a girl and stressing over it.

    I don't know if you've noticed, but doesn't it seem like SimpleThunda is talking about fights where both parties were on equal ground? One of them started the fight, the other fought back, both sides got some good punches in, but neither side really won. I don't know if I'm reading it wrong, but...
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    problem, beat up by a girl and stressing over it.

    Don't worry, I'm not calling you a bully. I'm saying in that situation you were being a bully. I'm glad you're not taking the revenge route, it would only make things worse. I hope it all works out for you, but make sure you do go to the game. You'll regret it later if you don't. If you don't go...
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    problem, beat up by a girl and stressing over it.

    Of course revenge was on my mind. I wanted to get back at the people who bullied me so badly, it almost consumed my life. You want to know something, though? Nothing those bullies ever did to me made my life as hard as it would have been if I had tried to get revenge on them. If I had given into...
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    problem, beat up by a girl and stressing over it.

    Revenge is pointless. All it will do is make this situation go on longer than it needs to, and ensure she retaliates worse than she did in the first place. What she did was over the top; I don't think anyone here is denying that. Though you cannot say it wasn't his fault. He intentionally...
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    problem, beat up by a girl and stressing over it.

    Actually it's MasochisticAvenger. Muckracker is a title Escapist gives anyone who has a certain number of posts I believe. What's her nickname being Hannah got to do with anything? Honestly, it's starting to sound like you're desperately trying to make this situation worse than it really is...
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    problem, beat up by a girl and stressing over it.

    Alright, kid, I'm going to let you in on a secret: all the stuff that goes on in high school becomes completely meaningless as soon as high school ends. You may become known as the kid who got beat up by a girl for a while, but trust me it will blow over as soon as someone else does something...
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    Avoidant personality disorder

    I'm not saying you definitely don't have it, but I would recommend getting an official diagnosis before going any further. It's really easy with self-diagnosis to come up with all sorts of diseases/disorders you may not have. It's best you know exactly what you're dealing with, so you can work...
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    problem, beat up by a girl and stressing over it.

    I'm sorry but it's kind of hard to feel a lot of sympathy since it sounds like you were trying to intentionally provoke her. In all honestly, I would apologise to her for being a bit of a douche. As for any embarrassment, it will be a lot easier if you just get it over and done with. People will...
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    Getting back into dating: where to begin?

    Just remember, whatever you do, you need to make sure you are doing it for yourself. If you want to broaden your horizons and/or get fitter that is wonderful, but if you?re only doing those things because you think it will increase your chances of getting a girlfriend you are in for a world of...
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    Getting back into dating: where to begin?

    It sounds to me what you're actually wanting is the vague notion of a girlfriend, rather than an actual physical person. Too often I see people saying things like "I want a girlfriend", and personally I find that to be a very misguided thought. If you want a partner just for the sake of having a...
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    Oh boy, I can't believe I'm asking people on the internet about these sort of problems.

    Be honest! I have to say more than that since otherwise I'd get a low-content warning, but that's pretty much all that needs to be said. I seriously do not get how this confuses so many people. Talk to her, and tell her how you are feeling. There is a very good chance you are going to come...
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    So...I think she just asked me to move in with her?

    I can't help but think you're overthinking this a little bit. All you two have done is discuss the possibility of living in the same place. You haven't agreed to start dating or anything real serious; this could be nothing more than a roommate situation. However, like most things to do with...