Hi so last Sept I was at my cousins house playing kickball at the park by his house, and there was a few girls over by the swings. The ball ended up hitting one of them in the head and she got really mad and told us "she will kick our ass" if it happens again. So we laughed and threw the ball at her but not hitting her. She got really pissed and came running and threw me down and then it was a full on fight, and I ended up getting pretty beat up bad by her. After about 4 or 5 min her friends and my cousin convinced her to stop, that I couldn't. Take anymore. I. Was so scared and dejected on my way back to my cousins house because I didn't want my dad to find out what happend. So we told him I crashed my bike and hit a tree, (which I dont Think he bought 100%) because I had cuts and bruises on both sides of my face and ended up with 2 black eyes.
now this is my problem, I'm in the 8th grade and on my schools basketball team and we are gonna be playing the school my cousin goes to which is sort of a ways from my school, and I. Found out that girl is a cheerleader for that school. I'm. So nervous that once she sees me she's gonna tell everybody that she beat me up and all my teammates and my dad will find out because he goes to all the games! I don't know what everyone will think of me if they find out. Another thing that has me worried is that a few weeks after she beat me up she told my cousin that she would beat me up again if she saw me at the park again because shes pissed that her jeans got ruined and wrecked from the fight! So now I'm. Worried that she will want to fight again after the game or something just to prove to everyone that she can beat me up. That's something I don't want to go through again, my lower back still hurts a little from the first fight. If everyone finds out about it they will realize that's why my face was messed a few months ago!
I know people will never let me live it down if they know I was beaten up and now scared out of my wits of a girl.. I'm. Thinking about skipping the game but we play them 2 more times as well? Stressing big time over this!
now this is my problem, I'm in the 8th grade and on my schools basketball team and we are gonna be playing the school my cousin goes to which is sort of a ways from my school, and I. Found out that girl is a cheerleader for that school. I'm. So nervous that once she sees me she's gonna tell everybody that she beat me up and all my teammates and my dad will find out because he goes to all the games! I don't know what everyone will think of me if they find out. Another thing that has me worried is that a few weeks after she beat me up she told my cousin that she would beat me up again if she saw me at the park again because shes pissed that her jeans got ruined and wrecked from the fight! So now I'm. Worried that she will want to fight again after the game or something just to prove to everyone that she can beat me up. That's something I don't want to go through again, my lower back still hurts a little from the first fight. If everyone finds out about it they will realize that's why my face was messed a few months ago!
I know people will never let me live it down if they know I was beaten up and now scared out of my wits of a girl.. I'm. Thinking about skipping the game but we play them 2 more times as well? Stressing big time over this!