I really loved your article. I guess it's because you kind of descibed the very crisis I am passing thought right now, as I picture myself maybe a couple of years before you: I?m in the middle of my post-graduation course, working in the spare time, and married since last year, so I?m just missing the kids the full-time job to match you (if I sum up my course and my work it?s over 60 hours a week tough).
So my dilemma, having the same background as everybody else here, is: Will I ever be able to play again? Right now, I play just as little as the neurosurgeon of the other article (and I also deal with brains but from the other way around: I?m a Psychiatrist), and I don?t see it getting any better after I have children. Or if I decide to go for a master?s degree, wich I certainly will. Sometimes I even prayed that there were videogames in heaven, so that I could finally 'play in peace'!
But with your article, and the comments from everybody, I realized that I?m not alone. And, there are ways to work around it ? and not only the sublimation of reading about games, there?s real gaming involved! I may even sound weird by writing this, but this gave me a lot of hope, you know.
Maybe some day the industry might recognize us, the 'casuals' who weren?t always 'casuals' but were forced to do so because they grew up. The 'casuals' who take it seriously, who care about what they play. And maybe, from that day one, they will start making shorter, but deep, playing experiences for our complete enjoyment. At least, that?s what I dream.
So my dilemma, having the same background as everybody else here, is: Will I ever be able to play again? Right now, I play just as little as the neurosurgeon of the other article (and I also deal with brains but from the other way around: I?m a Psychiatrist), and I don?t see it getting any better after I have children. Or if I decide to go for a master?s degree, wich I certainly will. Sometimes I even prayed that there were videogames in heaven, so that I could finally 'play in peace'!
But with your article, and the comments from everybody, I realized that I?m not alone. And, there are ways to work around it ? and not only the sublimation of reading about games, there?s real gaming involved! I may even sound weird by writing this, but this gave me a lot of hope, you know.
Maybe some day the industry might recognize us, the 'casuals' who weren?t always 'casuals' but were forced to do so because they grew up. The 'casuals' who take it seriously, who care about what they play. And maybe, from that day one, they will start making shorter, but deep, playing experiences for our complete enjoyment. At least, that?s what I dream.