I'm sorry but this is the biggest heap of shit I have ever seen in my entire life. This woman doesn't want a man, she wants a fucking doormat. I've got a fifty on the fact that this woman will die a spinster. Any takers?
I mean christ, any guy who does all of those is a spineless goon and they'd get sick of him pretty quickly for being a smothering nancy. The fact is women do not want a guy like this, they just aren't attracted to them. Guy's like this are pushovers, they're not alpha males. Attraction is not something people can control, it's all on sub-concious level, and spinless tits like this are not attractive in that way.
It still works on a very primitive basis, and most of it revolves around these alpha qualities. Assertiveness, confidence, physical size. If a guy shows a lack of interest in a girl that always turns heads, it makes the girl question her own value because someone, for once, has chosen not to give her attention. She then seeks to gain acknowledgement from an apparently superior individual.
I don't want to sound like a dick but when it comes to nice guys, women get in their own way of finding them, because they dismiss a guy who fails the very first shit test; which is to pay them attention on the first encounter.
I'm not saying this is universally how it works, and it's certainly not this black and white, but for the alarming majority of cases, this is how primary attractions evolve.
Sad, but true. One of our more debilitating primal characteristics frankly.
