I get this feeling a lot. In fact, my favorite game RPG ever, Planescape: Torment. I found the combat so atrocious that I turned it onto easy and blew my way through any fights that came up. Granted, there wasn't a lot since the game let you bypass so many. I did the same thing in Mass Effect and Dragon Age: Origins. Of course, I was the opposite in Dragon Age 2 and Mass Effect 2, when the combat was more approachable and TOO easy and I had to crank it to hard to not be put to sleep.