Oddly enough, Lynn and I were having this exact same discussion... This was after watching Blade Trinity again. Sure, I am aware that a number of you hate it but fuck you, I actually liked it and here is one of the reasons.
Abby Whistler. She is a chic (obviously), a tasty, tasty chic, able to fight as hard as the boys and yet... You honestly feel like if you were pals, you could get a hug without an eardrum of feminazi ear stabbing. She has warmth, emotion, and is generally likable. She has a growing chemistry with Hannibal Kain and looks to Blade as a surrogate father but doesn't judge herself based off of them. She has nothing to prove and a job to do. So she does it and hangs with the guys. She shows a strength without insecurity, which I always find delightful in any character.
So she is tough, approachable as a human, and hot. And damn was she fit in that film. I envied her arms.
Yahtzee hit it on the head. Women can be just as badass as any guy but we still hold them to the expectations of any male character. Be human or you're just a joke.