Study Reveals Why "Nerds" Get Bullied

Tom Goldman

Crying on the inside.
Aug 17, 2009
14,499
0
0
Study Reveals Why "Nerds" Get Bullied



The playground can be a dangerous place, and there's a reason for that according to a recent study.

Clark McKown of the Rush Neurobehavioral Center in Chicago has discovered why certain kids may become less social and therefore targets of bullying while growing up. He found that very specific factors during social interaction, including the inability to pick up on nonverbal social cues, can lead to rejection, which could explain why some kids become "nerds."

According to a LiveScience report [http://www.livescience.com/culture/children-social-rejection-100202.html], McKown ran two studies that involved 284 children, ages 4 to 16. These youths were tasked to judge the emotions, tones of voice, and body postures of actors in movie clips and photos. These judgments were then compared to accounts of the kids' social behavior. Kids with social problems in their real lives also had trouble reading and understanding the meaning of nonverbal cues, such as scowling or foot tapping.

This misunderstanding of cues early on can reduce a child's ability to practice social skills, putting development on a downward slope. Still, even just having a few friends can help children to improve at social interaction, as can explaining to kids what they are doing wrong rather than scolding them for mistakes. McKown says: "It is important to try to pinpoint the area or areas in a child's deficits and then build those up."

At least 10% of school-age kids will experience some form of bullying during their lifetime, which can lead to isolation, bad grades, substance abuse problems, or awesome videogaming habits. After all, Mass Effect 2 won't beat you up if you don't understand a character's facial animation. Joking aside, McKown believes social rejection "really is an under-addressed public health issue," but understanding why it occurs could solve the problem for many kids out there. I don't want any child to be bullied, but all these new cool kids better keep playing videogames too.

(Via: Slashdot [http://science.slashdot.org/story/10/02/02/2124203/Studies-Reveal-Why-Kids-Get-Bullied-and-Rejected])


Permalink
 

Kajin

This Title Will Be Gone Soon
Apr 13, 2008
1,016
0
0
Well duh, I could have told you crap like that. I've always had problems misjudging non verbal cues and it makes things incredibly difficult let me tell you.
 

Eri

The Light of Dawn
Feb 21, 2009
3,626
0
0
I'd say people get bullied because people are mostly stupid as well as assholes. I kinda feel like news at 11 on this article. There isn't a justification for bullying.
 

oppp7

New member
Aug 29, 2009
7,045
0
0
It's underaddressed because no one wants to report it. If they do they're considered a wuss. The need some way of finding out without the kids telling teachers.
Edit: I fail at all communicating, not just nonverbal cues. And I got bullied because I'm skinny, simple as that.
 

AvsJoe

Elite Member
May 28, 2009
9,055
0
41
At least 10% of school-age kids will experience some form of bullying during their lifetime
Bullplop! That number is a lot higher! I'm sorry but I know that number was either made up on the spot or the data got fudged.
 

Da Joz

New member
May 19, 2009
938
0
0
Hmmm, I thought it was just because I had some kind of special nerd pheromone others didn't like.
 

thatstheguy

New member
Dec 27, 2008
1,158
0
0
Pfft. Everyone knows kids don't have feelings.

I think bullying has more to do with the aggressor than the victim. If someone's an asshole, they're likely to be a bully. You don't need a statistic to know that.
 

Flying Dagger

New member
Apr 14, 2009
1,344
0
0
because picking on the strong kids gets you hurt

AvsJoe said:
At least 10% of school-age kids will experience some form of bullying during their lifetime
Bullplop! That number is a lot higher! I'm sorry but I know that number was either made up on the spot or the data got fudged.
Thats probably the correct number for serious bullying, think back to your class of 30, how many of those kids were bullied? unless you mean experience bullying as by being bullies. in which case you are probably right.
 

sgtshock

New member
Feb 11, 2009
1,103
0
0
So if everyone could just read nonverbal cues, then everyone would get along great and we'd have no more violence or bullying, right?
 

JRCB

New member
Jan 11, 2009
4,387
0
0
I can pick up on many non-verbal cues, yet I am still bullied. Maybe it's because I have a natural tendency to hate people who are jerks to other people or who are righteous bastards.
 

Ancientgamer

New member
Jan 16, 2009
1,346
0
0
My problem isn't my inability to pick up on social cues. I just can't think on my feet. Proactive conversations require the ability to interject, devise fluid sentences on the snap of a finger, and the ability to instantly organize and prioritize your thoughts. None of which I can do with split-second timing.
 

Death on Trapezoids

New member
Nov 19, 2009
588
0
0
It doesn't matter if every person is BORN with the ability to read cues perfectly, someone will always be seperated out by the pack for some difference, no matter how miniscule. It is the nature of such things.
 

tkioz

Fussy Fiddler
May 7, 2009
2,301
0
0
I always put it down to the strong (i.e sports players) trying to cement their places in the social hierarchy at the expense of the weaker members of the pack, to ensure better breeding and feeding prospects, see the Alpha male and Omega position in other pack animals.

And that's all humans are, pack animals, and most human interaction can be traced back to our instinctual behaviours because of that, what these so-called Alphas have failed to realise, physical strength is no longer what it once was when you had to hunt your own dinner, now it's more important to have something between your ears to provide for a mate, thus ensuring genetic continuation.
 

Tears of Blood

New member
Jul 7, 2009
946
0
0
Umm...

Nope. I disagree. I've never had this problem as far as I've known. Never had friends. Got picked on a lot.
 

Kuchinawa212

New member
Apr 23, 2009
5,408
0
0
I never stand up for myself that's why people picked on me. When I did....well they stopped.
 

Mcupobob

New member
Jun 29, 2009
3,449
0
0
So thats why, never been bullied but could never pick up on those little things. Thats why I make friends with other nerds there straight foward with everthing.
 

Dorian6

New member
Apr 3, 2009
711
0
0
hm i always thought it was because kids like to torment everyone smaller than them, giving them some semblance of control over something in their lives.
 

General Vagueness

New member
Feb 24, 2009
677
0
0
First of all, you shouldn't put it in quotes like that, it's a real and accepted word, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. Secondly,

Tom Goldman said:
He found that very specific factors during social interaction, including the inability to pick up on nonverbal social cues, can lead to rejection, which could explain why some kids become "nerds."
I thought they called that Asperger's disorder. Also,

Jakesnake said:
It doesn't matter if every person is BORN with the ability to read cues perfectly, someone will always be seperated out by the pack for some difference, no matter how miniscule. It is the nature of such things.
and

JRCB said:
I can pick up on many non-verbal cues, yet I am still bullied. Maybe it's because I have a natural tendency to hate people who are jerks to other people or who are righteous bastards.
and I don't think you realize how hard it is not to click your avatar.