Robert Marrs said:
Ultimately its just another failed tactic of the politically correct, social justice warrior crowd, trying to change things (in some ways for the better I must admit) by lying, shaming and shutting down conversation with accusations of misogyny anytime someone challenges it.
WHAAAAT??!!!
Where the heck is this even COMING from?
When has ANYBODY ever made an accusation like that?
It's a damn survey guys. It's not the militant feminist's movement to spoil videogames, if there ever was such a thing, which there probably wasn't, because with the amount of young white male petulance I'm seeing in this thread, who the hell would WANT to be associated with you? Right now I don't.
"Ultimately its just another failed tactic of the politically correct, social justice warrior crowd, trying to change things (in some ways for the better I must admit) by lying, shaming and shutting down conversation with accusations of misogyny anytime someone challenges it."
Look, from most of the rest of your comment you seem like a pretty reasonable guy (I'm assuming you are a guy here). So just... read back over what you just wrote in that last paragraph. And read that again, will you, and tell me how it comes off as anything other than the paranoid ramblings of a spoilt, entitled personality? As do many of the comments in this thread. Sorry to pick on you, but as an example of the kind of casual delusional thinking that goes on here... well, that's it, isn't it?
Holy crap guys, it's like we live in a parallel universe or something.
I've been playing games for twenty years and have yet to see a single instance of "accusations of misogyny shutting down conversation", except those mentioned on web forums apparently dominated by men / boys with some severe cases of persecution mania that, as far as I can tell, aren't based on anything that's actually happened in real life, or even in the mass media.
"Shutting down conversation"? We should be so damn lucky. There is a very real subset of misogynist gamers out there, and unfortunately - going on what's happened to certain female journalists and developers - they aren't shutting up any time soon.
I mean, just read some of the comments in this thread and try and justify to me how any conversation is being "shut down". Seems to me it's carrying on just fine!
And while we're on the subject: "The politically correct social justice warrior crowd"? Holy crap. There are actually people who take it for granted that that's a "thing"?
The worst part is that we DO have problems to deal with. While some publishers apparently think so little of us that they market "mature" games with the label: "Your mom's going to hate this!" there are entire sub-sections of media that will call for sensationalist outcry every time it's revealed that a murderer played "Call of Duty" when he wasn't, well, murdering people.
What's needed to tackle these problems is a sensible, rational, empathetic response that recognises what the other side's thinking / feeling, realises WHY they're thinking / feeling it, and is able to find a solution that works to everyone's advantage. Instead we have this.
I posted that even though I played games, I didn't want to call myself a "gamer". I didn't want to be labelled that way. This is why.
Sorry for the rant, but the amount of empty-headed rage here that seems to be accepted as "the norm" just depresses me.
It's a damn survey. It's not "Mein Kampf".