The_root_of_all_evil said:
*looks at 522 friends on here*
Probably not. Still don't trust any of them enough to give them my log-in details.
Radelaide said:
Clearly, the people you hang out with are self-serving idiots. I'm a friend of Root's and wouldn't do that to him. Nor would any of my friends or my boyfriend. Your friends suck.
Raidelaide: Clearly, the point passed way over your head.
I got plenty of friends who i would trust enough with my login details. However, as i said, i only have one friend who i trust absolutely 100% in everything he does that affects me. He is the guy i can call at any time without him getting pissed. This morning, for example, i called him at 5 AM (actually 6 AM since we moved away from DST in Denmark tonight) and asked him to come pick me up from clubbing. Can you honestly say that most of your friends wouldn't get pissed if you woke them up at the middle of the night with a phone call to ask them to come pick your lazy ass up (i could have just taken the train if i liked)?
Almost none of the people i hang out with "suck". That still doesn't mean that they deserve unconditional trust, and all I'm doing is advising
CAUTION. Do you trust all of your friends enough to, say, borrow them $1000 if they suddenly came and asked you out of the blue? If your answer to that is yes, then i would say you are a fool, because i can guarantee you that at least some of them is going to screw you over on that one. There doesn't pass along a single month where i don't have a talk with at least one or more girls i know, where either someone they thought they could trust disappointed them in some way, or some guy they had fallen for turned out to be an asshole, and i tell them the same thing EVERY - SINGLE - TIME: Be careful! Because every single time, it's because they failed to gauge the motivations of the other person, and it especially pains me every time it's a guy that does it to them, because guys are in fact so easy to gauge once you know what to look for.
Bottom line is that i have probably more friends than my best friend who i CAN trust in
most (not all!) aspects. That doesn't necessarily mean it's a good idea to take the gamble if it's about something important. If we go back to the train example, he is probably the only guy I'd trust not to get mad at me for calling at that time at night where he is sleeping. Does that mean my other friends suck? Of course not, it's just that few people would put up with being woken at that time. On the other hand, i would trust very few of my friends (maybe only 3-5 of the ~900 people i know) with a $1000 loan out of the blue.
See the difference?
It's worth remembering that it was ROOT who argued that true friends you can trust 100% doesn't exist, not me. You might say that you would never "betray" him, and that may be true, but apparently he doesn't trust you completely