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[Plurralbles]

Sounds like she's messing with you or, more likely, she's really coy. Is she the shy type? If so that's probably the case.
I have a more fucked up "wtf, woman?!" story, which goes thus...
My ex-gf and I were having massive arguments and generally weren't getting along well for about 2 weeks, this being about 7 months into the relationship, so she suggests we go on a week-long break while she's on holiday in Newquay. During that week I tried calling and texting her and she just kept hanging up or texting back harsh/rude comments so I was fairly sure she now hated me and we were breaking up. When she got back, however, she revealed to me 2 presents she had bought me, one being a t-shirt and the other a small coin thing engraved with "I love you" as if she was just trying to throw me off to make the gifts a big surprise. I, to this day, ask myself "WHAT. THE. FUCK?!"

Hmm, even better is when she is all, "love you" in the texts and calls but when back breaks up with you and burns your favorite gift you gave her.

Did you tell her what you were planning on doing once you go together? Make it something really cool and tantalizing so she comes just because it'd be fun and not necessarily becasue she wants you in or around her pants.

When the rare occasion comes up that a girl is inviting me somewhre and I know she's into me, I'll go just for the experience and not necessarily her. Take advantage of people.


Advantage is probably the wsrong word...

 

[Snowalker]

Sounds like she's messing with you or, more likely, she's really coy. Is she the shy type? If so that's probably the case.
I have a more fucked up "wtf, woman?!" story, which goes thus...
My ex-gf and I were having massive arguments and generally weren't getting along well for about 2 weeks, this being about 7 months into the relationship, so she suggests we go on a week-long break while she's on holiday in Newquay. During that week I tried calling and texting her and she just kept hanging up or texting back harsh/rude comments so I was fairly sure she now hated me and we were breaking up. When she got back, however, she revealed to me 2 presents she had bought me, one being a t-shirt and the other a small coin thing engraved with "I love you" as if she was just trying to throw me off to make the gifts a big surprise. I, to this day, ask myself "WHAT. THE. FUCK?!"

Yeah, thats pretty fucked up. My friend had a similar experience, except instead of a coin, it was sex, but I digress.

 

[Azure-Supernova]

I had something. Back in high school I was pretty good friends with a girl, we'll call her Alice for the sake of this story incase my current girlfriend reads it.

Well Alice and me used to talk almost everyday, sometimes it got a bit flirty but that's just my nature, I seem to do it without noticing and I don't noticed when I'm being flirted with at the time. So anyways, she asks me out eventually and I was kinda shocked... not knowing what to say I asked her if I could sleep on it and to my surprise I was not greeted with a slap.

The next day she was waiting outside my house and she asked me if I had an answer yet... I said I thought about it and that we probably shouldn't go out (I just didn't want a girlfriend at the time, I was 15). She took it better than I expected and walked to school with me. Later that day, walking home from school she asked me to reconsider. I said no. This carried on for a good two weeks or so. Eventually I just said yes to shut her up.

OT: As for your situatuon, just confront her on it man. Best advice I can give.

 

[Amondren]

I'm sorry bro but shes like doesnt like you like that but doesn't want to hurt you i think thats whats happening

 

[Snowalker]

Define "fucking with"...
Although I'd say she likes you and is just shy about it

OT: I can't say I've been in a similar situation...

Making me think she likes me, just for her entertainment.

 

[Snowalker]

Well, just felt the need to add this to my story.

Today I was going to ask the girl to be my girlfriend, but I felt the need to ask if she had a boyfriend. Thats when things got weird, at first she said, "No I don't... well, not really" I responded with, "Well, what does that mean" she said, "Well, see I'm with this guy, but we're not together, understand?" I said, "Yeah.. no." she said, "Well, I'm just with this guy, but we're not together ok?" I said, "Ok, so who is this guy?" and she said, "I can't tell you, thats part of it." So I just walked away scratching my head, any of you understand any of that?

 

[BonsaiK]

I asked this girl out a few days ago, she said yes. I was like "awesome" but then she said she had to work that weekend, and I couldn't call or text her cause she's grounded from her phone. And since the class we were in had just ended we were short on time, she said we could try and work something out. Ok, so I didn't think too much about it till today, I had class with her again, as class ended, I tried talking to her and she still seemed interested, and explained the situation, however when I talked about actually going on a date, you know, like when for starters, she got real short. So, at the moment, I have no clue whether she actually likes me, or if shes just fucking with me. I know most people here will say the latter, but I have hope.

So, I'd like to hear your tales.

P.S. This can also function as a Advice theard, I know we have one, but no seems to be using it anymore, so I figured I would try starting a fresh one.

I've addressed your problem and also the latest update in the Relationship Problem Thread, here: ---> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread?page=23#4906103