I shut off my facebook about a year ago and I honestly haven't been missing much. I regularly pruned my friends list and never had more than 60 at any point. Today my girlfriend showed me something called the butter dance. Again, I am not missing much.
Do you know what blew my mind about facebook? These kids that have like 1,000+ friends, like just added everyone in their highschool. I just don't get it. I graduated in 2000, and when I read through the names from my classs- I can't remember about 75% of those people.
Also, my kid does not get to use facebook or any social media until they are 16, and they are old enough to understand what goes on the web can be made widely public, is mostly permament, and you're responsible. My kid is going to hate me, but there is no god damn reason for a 12 year old to have a facebook, or a cell phone for that matter. If I want to know where you are, I will yell your name across the neighborhood, and if you can't hear me- than you are somewhere you shouldn't be.
People are just ridiculous with this stuff today.
P.S.
I don't have any real close friends any more. People get married, have children, move away, or all three. Sometimes they marry your ex girlfriend and stop talking to you. There's no one on facebook for me anyway, friend or family wise. My father was born on a farm in Italy back in 1944. He has the equivalent of an 8th grade education. The only time he ever touched a computer was when a friend gave him porno CD ROM to try. He woke me up one morning and asked me to fix the computer. There was a piece of masking tape on the monitor. I turned it on and the desktop background had been changed to a naked woman. The tape was over her vagina. He was panicked. I think that was the first and last time he ever touched a computer.
I have one friend I see about once a week, we don't really hang out much outside of a diner we like to visit. Whenever I call him he always rags on me for not having facebook anymore and not seeing whatever thing he posted... and I always just tell him that's why we invented the telephone, and why I picked it up and called his ass.