All Men Cheat

[Texas Joker 52]

Hi.

I'm Daystar Clarion.

You may know me from such social statuses as 'I've been with the same girl since I was 15', and 'Love is playing Borderlands coop with your significant other, then having sex with her'.

And I didn't cheat in any of them

The Daystar is right. REAL men form lasting relationships, or at the very least, don't cheat. Cheating is a pretty damn weak, and regardless of the reason behind it, its wrong. If you form any kind of commitment in an intimate relationship like that, cheating is a betrayal.

... Of course, I feel pretty strongly about it since I've been cheated on, so forgive the vitriol I have over the subject.

 

[someonehairy-ish]

I've never cheated on anyone. Granted, most of my 'relationships' are more just short hook-ups with people, but even when I've been a full-blown years-long thing I still didn't. Surely if you aren't happy with who you're with, it's a better idea to just move on or sort things out than fill that hole with uh... holes.
[sub]Does that count as a pun? I think it does.[/sub]

Also yeah, that girl sounds kind of bitchy to me.#
Seeing as this seems to be well established now, I propose a new question:

If your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/sex robot/other offered you a 'hall pass' IE; a chance to go sleep with someone else without her/him/it having a problem with it - would you take that chance or would you prefer not to?

 

[ChildishLegacy]

That reminds me that I have to catch up on Episodes after watching that.....

You watch Episodes? I should hunt you and put you on display because you seem to be the rarest creature in the world!

(I've not found anybody else that's ever seen any of it, + 1 internets for knowing about it, and another internets for making me aware of a season 2, I thought it got axed)

 

[Fiz_The_Toaster]

That reminds me that I have to catch up on Episodes after watching that.....

You watch Episodes? I should hunt you and put you on display because you seem to be the rarest creature in the world!

(I've not found anybody else that's ever seen any of it, + 1 internets for knowing about it, and another internets for making me aware of a season 2, I thought it got axed)

I WIN ALL THE INTERNETS!

I only found out about it like 3 months ago, and I fucking love that show.

 

[Britex]

This woman think she's ahead of the game, huh? Quite the contrary, in fact, I guess you could

say... she lost the game .

 

[BOOM headshot65]

As a guy, no, I dont cheat. I have been with the same girl for 1 1/2 years now, we plan on getting married when I am done with college, and not having sex until then (thats more personal). Hell, the fact I am faithful to her is one of the things she always brags about and says that that is the reaons she loves me so much. How could I say no to that :3

 

[neonsword13-ops]

Every guy cheats? That's some valuable information right there.

The girl seems a bit crazy though, only choosing men who are taken. Can't say I've heard of that one before.
...

Why does everyone have such a Fillion hard on? Sure, the man is sexy but these gifs are-

Never mind. I just found my new favorite. Keep at it, gais.

 

[Daystar Clarion]

Every guy cheats? That's some valuable information right there.

The girl seems a bit crazy though, only choosing men who are taken. Can't say I've heard of that one before.
...

Why does everyone have such a Fillion hard on? Sure, the man is sexy but these gifs are-

Never mind. I just found my new favorite. Keep at it, gais.

Nobody can get their fill of Fillion.

It's been proven by scientific science.

 

[Paradoxrifts]

Having enough empathy to recognise when two people are in an unhappy relationship, but not having enough empathy not to exploit that situation for your own selfish benefit isn't some sort of mysterious superpower.

But people might just hold you up as a terrible example of a human being, not that I'm one to be judgmental or anything, I generally leave that up to other people.

 

[Sexy Devil]

Well for every man that cheats there's a girl like the OP knows that's willing to break-up a relationship.

I promis that if I ever got mad at you, I'd only slap you on the bum.

Or I might just do that whenever!
http://img175.imageshack.us/img175/1976/heyoo.jpg

That's not Nathan Fillion...

Anyway, I've cheated before, loads of times. Don't even regret it. Righty was boring and just wasn't offering what lefty could.

 

[Olas]

And how exactly does all men being cheaters make what she does okay? It's not true of course, but even if it were it doesn't really justify being a slut and facilitating it. If she's defending anyone it's the men she sleeps with, not herself.

It's like if the CEO of McDonalds tried to justify selling unhealthy food by saying that all Americans are Obese and unhealthy from fast food.
The problem is widespread, therefore it's okay to encourage more of it?

 

[ChildishLegacy]

That reminds me that I have to catch up on Episodes after watching that.....

You watch Episodes? I should hunt you and put you on display because you seem to be the rarest creature in the world!

(I've not found anybody else that's ever seen any of it, + 1 internets for knowing about it, and another internets for making me aware of a season 2, I thought it got axed)

I WIN ALL THE INTERNETS!

I only found out about it like 3 months ago, and I fucking love that show.

I loved the first series, especially the ending of it. I know what I'm watching for the next few days.

I remember laughing at it a lot, which is a rare thing for me with the "awkward" style of comedy that it has. Stephen Mangan needs to do/make more stuff, and Matt Leblanc needs to do more stuff as a sad, divorced Matt Leblanc, I actually thought he was amazing in it xD.

 

[MortisLegio]

I would have to have a girlfriend to cheat...

OT: That is a terrible generalization. I think her reasoning is to say "Others are doing worse than me, so you shouldn't tell me I'm doing bad." so she doesn't have to feel bad about it.

 

[MasochisticAvenger]

The fact that you felt that statement might hold some truth is one of the most depressing things I've seen in a while.

 

[BarbaricGoose]

I don't see anything wrong with her attitude. I mean, if she wants to try to have sex with married guys--go for it. More power to her, in fact. If she can seduce a man into cheating, well, that relationship was doomed from the start, right? A guy who's going to cheat is going to cheat eventually. The person who is in a relationship should be the responsible one; they should be the one to say "No." How is it her fault if the married men CHOOSE to have sex with her?

TL;DR: She's doing nothing wrong. It's those in the committed relationship that are in the wrong.

 

[DudeistBelieve]

Every human being is capable of every degree of action, of this I am certain, under the right circumstances, every human being could and can be made to perform every action.

Only two type of human beings cheats, those that are callous dickholes and those that are so beaten and downtrodded by their relationship/responsibility they'd do anything to be alive.

You friend simply hasn't met a man that is absolutely in love with his significant other, is all. And she won't, because she's learning to prey of weak relationships.

Also if she's knowing being a homewrecker, towards men that are married, she a ****. If they're not married, then I merely don't care for her actions.

 

[DudeistBelieve]

I don't see anything wrong with her attitude. I mean, if she wants to try to have sex with married guys--go for it. More power to her, in fact. If she can seduce a man into cheating, well, that relationship was doomed from the start, right? A guy who's going to cheat is going to cheat eventually. The person who is in a relationship should be the responsible one; they should be the one to say "No." How is it her fault if the married men CHOOSE to have sex with her?

TL;DR: She's doing nothing wrong. It's those in the committed relationship that are in the wrong.

Pronouns aside, this guys right.

It's not like shes holding guys at gun point forcing them to diddle her pooter.

Granted, it's not an admirable trait in the least bit, because she's royally fucking another woman's life/heart, but... *shrug*

 

[Fiz_The_Toaster]

That reminds me that I have to catch up on Episodes after watching that.....

You watch Episodes? I should hunt you and put you on display because you seem to be the rarest creature in the world!

(I've not found anybody else that's ever seen any of it, + 1 internets for knowing about it, and another internets for making me aware of a season 2, I thought it got axed)

I WIN ALL THE INTERNETS!

I only found out about it like 3 months ago, and I fucking love that show.

I loved the first series, especially the ending of it. I know what I'm watching for the next few days.

I remember laughing at it a lot, which is a rare thing for me with the "awkward" style of comedy that it has. Stephen Mangan needs to do/make more stuff, and Matt Leblanc needs to do more stuff as a sad, divorced Matt Leblanc, I actually thought he was amazing in it xD.

I came late to the party with this series and I completely dismissed it because of Matt Leblanc. I was watching it at a friend's house and I laughed hysterically the entire time! XD

I agree about the ending, it was amazing. Stephen Mangan is great in it, and, really, everyone is great in that show, even the hair lady (or make-up, I don't remember) with her eye rolling!

 

[DudeistBelieve]

I would have to have a girlfriend to cheat...

OT: That is a terrible generalization. I think her reasoning is to say "Others are doing worse than me, so you shouldn't tell me I'm doing bad." so she doesn't have to feel bad about it.

Trust me, from experince, you never EVER want to be in a relationship where you feel you want to cheat.

If you ever feel you want to cheat, and your not a complete asshole, it's because the relationship is so far gone but for some reason refuses to just break off and die. It's the worst possible place to be in, relationship wise.

 

[Palademon]

Sadly I have no credentials in which to base my answer, so I'll just assume your friend must be correct.