All Men Cheat
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Actually I've been in a committed relationship for over two years but thanks for making assumptions!nexus said:
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I have no idea. I was just kind of shocked at her opinion so I thought I'd see how common it was or what people thought of it but I obviously phrased the OP badly. People were so quick to jump on the "fuck you" band-wagon I decided to let the thread run it's course and go away.Glass Joe said:
I thought that would happen after a couple of posts though.
What do you think of her opinion? Do you agree with it? Are you insulted by it or are you a living example of it?
Her conclusion upon men's behavior is ridiculous. It makes as much sense as someone running around robbing stores, and then proclaiming that all people will commit crimes.
As a bonus question, have you ever cheated/been cheated on?
Kind of. My wife kissed someone when we were dating. Talked about it, and we broke up for roughly eight months.
My father seemed to have cheated on my mother, and I've decided that is not for me. If I desperately desired the physical comfort of another person, I'd tell me wife before acting.
Overall: The biggest reason why many people suck at relationships is because they are poor communicators. Solid communication = great relationships, whether they work out or not.
Her conclusion upon men's behavior is ridiculous. It makes as much sense as someone running around robbing stores, and then proclaiming that all people will commit crimes.
As a bonus question, have you ever cheated/been cheated on?
Kind of. My wife kissed someone when we were dating. Talked about it, and we broke up for roughly eight months.
My father seemed to have cheated on my mother, and I've decided that is not for me. If I desperately desired the physical comfort of another person, I'd tell me wife before acting.
Overall: The biggest reason why many people suck at relationships is because they are poor communicators. Solid communication = great relationships, whether they work out or not.
I obviously don't think all men cheat, otherwise I wouldn't waste my time dating anyone. To be honest if she's acting like that, it's probably because she got hurt really bad by someone. And a part of me can relate to that, being hurt can make you angry at the whole world. But that doesn't mean that all men are like that.
I have never cheated, and have been cheated on. I am a man. Take that, internet person's friend!
EDIT: I decided to rack my brain, and of the 3 people I know who have cheated, all of them were women. Although I'm sure there are a couple of cheaters I know that I can't remember....
EDIT: I decided to rack my brain, and of the 3 people I know who have cheated, all of them were women. Although I'm sure there are a couple of cheaters I know that I can't remember....
Never cheated but I did have an awfully tempting opportunity with an extremely hot girl who was already naked and in my bed. I threw her out because I was faithful. And then I got cheated on... Eh. Still wouldn't cheat in a relationship but that's certainly a good reason to stay out of one.
She is a relationship wrecking slut and has came up with some weak sauce argument to justify it to herself.I "would" feel bad because she isn't going to be able to delude herself forever.Then she will she herself for who she really is but she's a relationship wrecking slut so i don't feel bad at all.
For the whole all men cheat argument if you go looking for assholes your going to find them.
For the whole all men cheat argument if you go looking for assholes your going to find them.
Of course everyone cheats. Don't tell me that if you're stuck with a girl like this [http://i454.photobucket.com/albums/qq262/rustybindings/37CuteGirl.jpg]and a girl looking like Megan Fox comes along looking for a one night stand you wouldn't go for it. Same thing for the girls. If you're going out with an average looking guy and on your "girls night out" mr. Perfect tries to get into your pants you wouldn't let him?
We've all had crappy partners and unless you're married with children there is really no point in being loyal when a better opportunity presents itself.
We've all had crappy partners and unless you're married with children there is really no point in being loyal when a better opportunity presents itself.
I've never cheated and I never will.
Yea I am a guy, that ***** deserves to get a slap upside the head. Would I hit a lady? No. I would only "physically re-enforce sanity" upon her if I heard her say that to my face. Besides, shes not a lady if she thinks that's ok, she falls into the "*****" category.
Yea I am a guy, that ***** deserves to get a slap upside the head. Would I hit a lady? No. I would only "physically re-enforce sanity" upon her if I heard her say that to my face. Besides, shes not a lady if she thinks that's ok, she falls into the "*****" category.
^ ThisFleischer said:
My last girlfriend and I were terrible at communicating with each other but when it all came down to the wire and the relationship ended we told each other honestly what went wrong and were still friends. Like, actual friends. We just realized that we were both too different for a real relationship beyond that.
Honesty is always the best policy.
When you guys do get into one. (I have confidence in you two) if you find yourself in the position to cheat, I suggest you don't. That shit follows you around. I've seen it come back in the weirdest places. I haven't cheated, and I never will because I had the opportunity to observe and learn what happens.God said:same boat as you man... same boaterttheking said:"Looks up" Sigh, at least Daystar isn't forever alone.Daystar Clarion said:Hi.
I'm Daystar Clarion. You may know me from such social statuses as 'I've been with the same girl since I was 15', and 'Love is playing Borderlands coop with your significant other, then having sex with her'.
And I didn't cheat in any of them.
OT: No, not all men cheat, I am a man and I haven't cheaten on anyone, because I can't get into a relationship to cheat on anyone.
I don't think a crappy partner is the same as a bad looking partner.faranar said:
And I imagine someone who only cares about their partners looks would cheat in the situations you are imagining. However if one is emotionally invested in a relationship and has the willpower to say no when presented with a tempting, but morally wrong offer. I imagine one would.
All men cheat? I don't and nor do many others. Maybe she just attracts and dates douche bags? Some girls are attracted to douche bags and then wonder when they act douchey (is that a word?)Or maybe she has loose morals and uses the "men cheat" as a way to act like a whore? Only problem is, she will now get a reputation as being a cheater and no good guy will go near her.
I resent the implication. Although truthfully I've never really been put in that situation. I would like to think that if I were ever in that situation I'd have the self-control to refuse, but truthfully I don't know.
Never the less, you friend is a royal *****, if you don't mind me saying so, she's intentionally destroying relationships and seems to take pleasure in it. There is no excusing that.
Never the less, you friend is a royal *****, if you don't mind me saying so, she's intentionally destroying relationships and seems to take pleasure in it. There is no excusing that.
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No. I wouldn't. And you know why? Because if I'm going out with a guy, he's not gonna be considered "average looking" to me. He'll be hot. He'll be sexy. He'll be my "Mr. Perfect."
I'm not gonna argue that your comment is shallow because choosing someone to be with has an element of shallowness to it. Because if I'm gonna start a relationship with someone, he'll damn well be incredibly attractive to me. If I'll be kissing this guy and seeing him naked in the future, I damn well better like what I see.
And that's why I believe your logic is flawed. Beauty= eye of the beholder may be a cliche but it's a cliche because it's tried and true. Personally, I don't consider the glasses girl you showed unpretty. I doubt other guys do either and I bet one or even more out there would choose to be with her as opposed to being "stuck" with her.
So if a person is pretty much incredibly attracted to their lover to the point where they can barely keep their hands off each other, having someone who is either equally or a bit more aesthetically pleasing is hardly gonna make a person cheat.
Okay... so trying to answer this without succumbing to the baser urge of rage here...faranar said:
No. I wouldn't. And you know why? Because if I'm going out with a guy, he's not gonna be considered "average looking" to me. He'll be hot. He'll be sexy. He'll be my "Mr. Perfect."
I'm not gonna argue that your comment is shallow because choosing someone to be with has an element of shallowness to it. Because if I'm gonna start a relationship with someone, he'll damn well be incredibly attractive to me. If I'll be kissing this guy and seeing him naked in the future, I damn well better like what I see.
And that's why I believe your logic is flawed. Beauty= eye of the beholder may be a cliche but it's a cliche because it's tried and true. Personally, I don't consider the glasses girl you showed unpretty. I doubt other guys do either and I bet one or even more out there would choose to be with her as opposed to being "stuck" with her.
So if a person is pretty much incredibly attracted to their lover to the point where they can barely keep their hands off each other, having someone who is either equally or a bit more aesthetically pleasing is hardly gonna make a person cheat.
Finally someone gets it! Man, men are shit. They are so shallow and only think about sex. No wonder, they seem to be dicks with legs most of the time.
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To be blunt. Your friend is A)a slut B)a ***** C) self-justifying D) just not very nice and E) pretty fucking stupid. I recommend you stop being friends with this future train wreck.
To expand... she is A because you said she does this frequently. She is B because she deliberately seeks out people in relationships with the express purpose of fucking around with them. She is C because she uses the BS excuse "all men cheat" an a shitty rational instead of being honest and saying "I'm a slut". She is D because of C and she is E because if she expects people to believe her she's an idiot and she's an idiot if she thinks that she'll get away with it forever.
For the PC crowd: I use the term slut not as a slam against women, but as a slam against women like this. The ones who sleep with as many people as they can, especially when they doing it because they get some pleasure out of proving something. Being "all men cheat" or "other women are too stupid to relaize what I know".
To expand... she is A because you said she does this frequently. She is B because she deliberately seeks out people in relationships with the express purpose of fucking around with them. She is C because she uses the BS excuse "all men cheat" an a shitty rational instead of being honest and saying "I'm a slut". She is D because of C and she is E because if she expects people to believe her she's an idiot and she's an idiot if she thinks that she'll get away with it forever.
For the PC crowd: I use the term slut not as a slam against women, but as a slam against women like this. The ones who sleep with as many people as they can, especially when they doing it because they get some pleasure out of proving something. Being "all men cheat" or "other women are too stupid to relaize what I know".
JWAN said:When you guys do get into one. (I have confidence in you two) if you find yourself in the position to cheat, I suggest you don't. That shit follows you around. I've seen it come back in the weirdest places. I haven't cheated, and I never will because I had the opportunity to observe and learn what happens.God said:same boat as you man... same boaterttheking said:"Looks up" Sigh, at least Daystar isn't forever alone.Daystar Clarion said:Hi.
I'm Daystar Clarion. You may know me from such social statuses as 'I've been with the same girl since I was 15', and 'Love is playing Borderlands coop with your significant other, then having sex with her'.
And I didn't cheat in any of them.
OT: No, not all men cheat, I am a man and I haven't cheaten on anyone, because I can't get into a relationship to cheat on anyone.
trust me when I say I never ever want to cheat, I mean if I want be with somebody I will let either current or otherwise know.
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