Am I easy?

[Socius]

Easy question:
One month ago my girlfriend dumped me.
We had been together for a year and a half and I loved her deeply.
Now however I have met a new girl. Whom I not have a relationship with.. yet.
I am however madly in love with her, we have more in common than anyone else I know.
She is beutiful, smart, funny and so on. But I feel like a douche for liking someone so short time after comming out from a relationship, even though I was dumped.
Am I just easy? or did I just meet a wonderful girl just after being dumped?

 

[hyperhammy]

You sir, have perfect timing.

 

[L3m0n_L1m3]

Sometimes you just get lucky. These things happen occasionally, believe it or not.

[sub] Except to me. [/sub]

 

[guardian001]

I agree with Hyper. You just have impeccable timing and I hate you for it. There's no right amount of time to wait after a breakup. If you like the person, go for it. No reason to feel guilty about it.

 

[Amethyst Wind]

Depends how much being on the rebound has affected your emotions.

Otherwise, if it's nice to be with this new girl then don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

 

[maddawg IAJI]

I would think that you've just moved on.

 

[Eliam_Dar]

no, you are not easy, you are human and you have a heart. You liked someone, forget about the past, life is telling you to move on

 

[quiet_samurai]

It depends, is she the first girl to look at you since you've been dumped?

 

[Hollock]

a month seems like plenty of time, good luck!

 

[clzark]

Dumped a month ago? I wouldn't say that's too douche-y, if you really are crazy for her. I've heard worse. Go ahead and go for her, just don't flaunt her around like "Oh look, I don't care we broke up I've already found someone new."

 

[bigsby]

Dont feel like a douche mate Now if you had met her WHILE you were still in a relationship, then yeah, you should feel like a douche^^ you should still go for it though. Point being, you have no control over when you are gonna meet someone you like, so dont care about it. You like her, go for it!!!

 

[arcticphoenix95]

it doesn't really matter. (need to figure out what love is).

 

[Curious Georgie]

Instead of gettig 1, 2, 3 rebounds with extremely ugly girls, you went right out and found yourself a new love. This should be congratulated if anything.

And which whiny emo douche ever made up the rule of having to wait at least half a year before ATTEMPTING a new relationship?

You're not easy, you're just better equipped to deal with issues mentally. That's a plus.

 

[Marter]

If you have a lot in common with the girl, tell her how you feel. I hope that it goes well for you, and that she is single. Don't tell her if she isn't, as it'll make you feel disappointed telling her and not being able to have her do anything about it.

 

[SnootyEnglishman]

YOu have awesome timing and an extreme amount of luck

 

[Zackary Yakumo]

Sometimes you just get lucky. These things happen occasionally, believe it or not.

[sub] Except to me. [/sub]

I am in the same boat. no love~

 

[Socius]

It depends, is she the first girl to look at you since you've been dumped?

Not really

 

[DefunctTheory]

You're madly in love with someone you just met...

No, you are not easy. Just lustful it seems, with a dash of mental toughness that allowed you to get over a woman quickly. And there's nothing wrong with that.

Go for the girl without worry, but you may want to put a bit of perspective in. If you honestly believe you are already in love, though, you may have another problem.

 

[TheSeventhLoneWolf]

All love ends in seperation, so make the most of the duration you can hold.

I wouldn't call yourself easy, you're just a bit lovestruck - In my own opinion.

 

[Kuchinawa212]

Nahhhhh the person that wasn't right stepped out and someone else stepped in. No problem about that =D