Am I easy?

[Yureina]

Gonna agree with a fair number of posters in this thread and say not to worry about it. Sometimes you find someone else within a month. Sometimes you are waiting a decade. It's just how things turn out.

 

[garfoldsomeoneelse]

Depends how much being on the rebound has affected your emotions.

Otherwise, if it's nice to be with this new girl then don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

A thousand times, this. Just make sure that your newfound feelings for this girl aren't subject to change based on your recovery from the last breakup.

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

I think you just got lucky.

 

[derdeutschmachine]

All men are easy. But its not wrong... puss is puss. If someone dumps your ass the best thing to do is go and fuck something else to get your mind off the original puss. Also you're way to young to know what love really is. Seriously, I dateded my first puss for 3 years; biggest mistake of my life, and I was older than you at that point. Get out there and experience life before you settle for "love". There is a lot to find out in the world, go and enjoy your youth before you find someone you can settle down with.

 

[whaleswiththumbs]

You sir, have perfect timing.

He also has amazing luck.

OT: Don't fret. Just go with it. Really, its fine, atleast it was a month ago and not like 1 hour ago. cause that would be just stupid. If you like the girl, go for it. But i'd be alittle uncertaint if you should call it "love" for alittle bit.. Not hating on the idea of love-at-first-sight, or w.e, just ease into it.

 

[Boba Frag]

I'd say be careful, man. You may just still be rebounding without realising it. Take is easy sure and see how things go, but for your sanity I'd advise you take things at an easy pace.

Good timing can only be superficial after all.
I guess you need to ask yourself whether you're truly over the last girl or not yet. Like, you need to ask yourself whether you'd be cool about seeing her go out with another guy.

 

[Mcface]

Easy question:
One month ago my girlfriend dumped me.
We had been together for a year and a half and I loved her deeply.
Now however I have met a new girl. Whom I not have a relationship with.. yet.
I am however madly in love with her, we have more in common than anyone else I know.
She is beutiful, smart, funny and so on. But I feel like a douche for liking someone so short time after comming out from a relationship, even though I was dumped.
Am I just easy? or did I just meet a wonderful girl just after being dumped?

I don't think you are in love with them..

 

[Aedrial]

As has been said before, there really is no time span required inbetween relationships, it's really only jealous people that have issues with it. Competition makes everyone a little... tetchy.

 

[MelasZepheos_v1legacy]

You're not easy, you might be over glamorising your feelings as a way to subconsciously make up for the pain of being dumped, but you're not easy.

I'm not saying you are, just that you might be.

Anyway, hope it works out for you. Good luck buddy.

 

[micky]

your just a lucky guy

 

[Calatar]

It's a crush, yet stronger than average. as allready stated I know for sure that this is more than lust. I am not one who easily confuse his feelings.

Feelings about pretty ladies can get cloudy without you even realizing it. It most certainly is a crush. If you're like me, then crushes for you are not fully based in lust, but there is still an undercurrent of that sort of attraction which draws you. You can't help that.

If you can fully justify to yourself the reasons you like this girl without mentioning any physical attributes, then you might have a case for starting a new relationship. Just as importantly though: why did the previous relationship end?

 

[Treefingers]

Nah, go for it mate.

I personally in the past have spent far too much time dwelling on lost relationships and girls i couldn't have. The sooner you move on, as you have, the better.

I wish you all the best with this new girl.

 

[mrpenguinismyhomeboy]

You have good rever-something or other I forget what its called but it means you "bounce back" (recover) from things very quickly.

 

[Anticitizen_Two]

Well, you're not easy. You're just very lucky.

 

[Luke5515]

Aren't all guys easy? I'd jump on a chance to have a realationship with someone who I had things in common with and if she was

She is beutiful, smart, funny and so on.

If that makes me easy, then I must be a manwhore.
A want to be manwhore at least.

 

[Ildecia]

you aren't easy... moreso quick on a rebound.

you found someone else and (i am guessing here) have a better connection that with your first relationship. There's nothing wrong with that; you're human after all

 

[Socius]

Aren't all guys easy? I'd jump on a chance to have a realationship with someone who I had things in common with and if she was

She is beutiful, smart, funny and so on.

If that makes me easy, then I must be a manwhore.
A want to be manwhore at least.

(8) you don't have to be... a giggolo!

 

[berault]

Some things just happen for a reason, man. Maybe things ended with the last girlfriend because this one is more compatible?

 

[Xanadu84]

No ones saying it? Okay...

I know that this might sound harsh, but the fact is this. You're not easy. You're 17. This happens.

 

[Not G. Ivingname]

Sometimes you just get lucky. These things happen occasionally, believe it or not.

[sub] Except to me. [/sub]

(Pats on the back and gives a cookie) It will be okay.