So now your argument is that more debates devolve into fruitless bickering than not? That's not something I disagree with. I quite agree that more of the arguments that I see devolve than those that don't. However, I can still posit that we don't really notice how many debates end in only a few responses. The debates I see are likely only seen because they go on for longer than agreements. Some people, once proven wrong, won't even respond and so an argument that looks like it was nothing but bickering and just cuts off could also be a situation where that has happened.RJ 17 said:Then you do the footwork for me: scour this site alone (just to keep things easy on yourself) and come back with the numbers on how many "discussions" actually end with an amicable agreement on one side or the other vs those that end up being two people with bullhorns shouting at one another until they just stop.
Quite simply: prove today's comic wrong. That is your homework assignment for the day.
However, our brains are hard wired to a sort of fight or flight response when confronted with being wrong:
https://hbr.org/2013/02/break-your-addiction-to-being/
From this article, I'd say my success has been when I succeed in listening with empathy. It isn't all the time, but I do try.
Regarding collecting that data somehow proving the comic wrong, it's not synonymous with today's comic. Today's comic is just discussing what it's like to see your artwork be made part of an argument between two loud groups. It isn't saying that all debates devolve into anything. It is calling anyone who argues over their work idiots, which is awfully presumptive if not arrogant of the author. But as with most things they say and do I assume it's a joke. Because that's what they do for a living and they're good at it.
It's a magical place full of high quality Oculus Rift cosplay porn and answers to all of your questions just waiting to be asked for.If only for a moment I wish I could live in the same enchanted internet world as you.
Thanks for making me feel bad for smiling.Oh you don't have to worry about me, my friend, I've long since given up trying to change people's minds on the internet. The other pic I could have posted instead of the one I went with was a little more offensive, containing the caption "Arguing over the internet is like competing in the Special Olympics: even if you win, you're still retarded."
I think I'd be willing to differentiate between arguing and debating. Perhaps the distinction between arguing and debating could be made regarding whether or not either side is willing to learn or accept that they're wrong. That being said, I have been in a heated debate that I would clearly call an argument but that eventually turned into a meaningful discussion after I figured out a novel way to describe the information I had and it clicked for them.
Aww, shucks. You're pretty good at treating me a like a human being too...As for the discussion we're currently having, I'm not saying that I never meet someone worth having a discussion with on the internet - this conversation is proof of that - but I stand by the notion that such conversations are the exception rather than the rule.