Any pointers on how to get on in life after a difficult breakup?

[monkeymo4d]

A bucket of chicken makes the pain go away

 

[Smooth Operator]

You do what you always did without her, now turned up to 11.
- excessive drinking
- excessive partying
- excessive frolicking

Then when you get all worn out you notice your life is just as good without the ball and chain, and then you can again run the fields of gold.

P.S. About that "ah it's no big deal", that is only applicable if your ignorance hat is made of pure titanium and coated with led.
Betrayals cut deep, unless you possess an absurd amount of indifference hanging around will eat up your sanity.

 

[Kungfu_Teddybear]

Wait, you caught your girlfriend in bed with another girl and you didn't ask to join in?

Alcohol my friend, preferably a strong whiskey. If you've passed the point of getting back together then cut all contact. Facebook, phone numbers etc etc. Keep yourself occupied, work, studies, hobbies etc etc.

And I have no more to give.

 

[White Lightning]

Do lots of cocaine

Ok thats probably bad advice, sleep with her best friend.

Or maybe not.

I know, play lots and lots of Skyrim. Its foolproof!

If that fails, cocaine.

No, no, no, you've got it all wrong! You play Skyrim WHILE using her best friends Cocaine.

 

[Strazdas]

First off, i dont suggest any alcoholic drink. This will only make it more miserable.
Secondly, what exactly is the reason of your breaking up? Your jealousy of your companion recieving bodily pleasure that you were never able to give her (since you are not female)? Do you also break up with people if they eat different food than you?

I think this was a case of betrayal of trust, rather than jealousy. While I myself am not a polygamous person, I believe that these kind of relationship's can work out, if both members are okay with it. But here it was a simple case of cheating. Maybe they could have talked it over, but of course every relationship has their own rules, and maybe this was a fatal blow that the OP couldn't forgive. I believe I would have not been able to forgive her either.

Since we dont know the whole story, any of those could be true. however from the information he gave us "walked in one them doing the thing", it sounds a lot like jealousy.