You may not have quoted me directly, but I do feel you were somewhat responding to things I said, so I'm offering a reply.
darkfox85 said:
Comparatively speaking and with all human actions take into consideration on a spectrum with abstract concepts of "wussy" and "manly" acting as the extremes, gaming is undeniably on the former thanks to its escapist, roll-playing, and passive nature.
The only question is how much validation you give to the words "wussy" and "manly." I give none.
This may just be semantics on my part, but these two statements are self-contradictory. (note that I edited out the weight part, which is a fair perspective)
Its frustrating reading people dismiss games' inherent wussiness on the basic of games needing imagination and providing stimulation. It's like watching someone dismiss cars as a means of transportation by virtue that cars drive you places.
I admit, bringing up the stimulation aspect of games was kind of a non-sequitor, but (very vaguely) it was kind of my point. My argument is that wussiness is not inherent to the medium. There is such a wide spectrum and understanding of what makes a game, to start out with that kind of generalization is simply wrong in my opinion. It seems to me that you come from a vantage point where gameplay is somewhat like book reading, that is, largely in the imaginative realm and it's fine if you wish to come at games from that angle. For me personally though, that is not an inherent quality of games, but rather of your perspective. As far as not being the real thing goes, I have to argue from the viewpoint that gaming can largely be associated with practice.
To give an example of a game not so easily drawn into this type of argument, I propose a flight simulator. This could very easily be interpreted as training, as indeed real pilots go through simulator practice. And training, I would argue, is in fact a well-esteemed manly aspect (men respect it) known as the art of preparation.
That picture of the weathered space marine? Is that wussy? Yes. Yes it is. Very much so. To a staggering and knee-slapping degree.
I don't intend to start comparing different games 'wussiness value' (though I might be inclined to dictate some on a personal level), but I certainly feel that your view of the picture being wussy as highly contentious. I'm not entirely sure the angle you're coming from there, so I'll leave with the expectation that you defend that viewpoint with reason so that someone may fairly argue against it. I assume you're talking about the Gears marine in Terminate421's first post on this thread.