Phasmal said:
joe-h2o said:
Phasmal said:
deadish said:
So those of you dreaming of how awesome it will be to have your girlfriends play games with you ... you are in for a rude surprise. If there are game ever made to cater to them, chances are you will fucking hate them.
Being a girlfriend who plays games I beg to differ.
Also, just wanted to point out MMO's are very popular with women too.
Don't assume that all women want the same thing or that we want the games industry to exclusively target to us. All we would like is for them to maybe tone down the sexist bullshit that still gets a pass.
This is one of the biggest disconnects for me, that despite all the evidence to contrary there is still a prevailing attitude that "women don't play games". Without addressing that misconception first, the over-sexualisation of female game characters is a lost cause! (although it doesn't mean both issues can't be tackled simultaneously).
Indeed. The misconception that women will only play something if you pinkify it to eye-searing level is one that gets right on my nerves. I try to be a loud-and-proud female gamer, in the hopes that people will realise we exist but it doesn't seem to be working. Honestly...
And then when you are loud and proud people holler than you're trying to be an attention hog or just doing it so guys will like you. It's a fucking no-win situation.
And if you point out to a guy that "yes, I like sims and final fantasy, but I also like Mass Effect and Fallout and just about anything you do" then they spout off that "you're the first I've met, so that doesn't disprove anything I said."
I swear it's like they're trying so damn hard not to believe it's true. It often makes me feel like I'm a little kid again wanting to play with the so-called "boy toys" and getting harassed for it. But it will get better, just gotta keep reminding myself of that.
As to the original topic as many people have pointed out I doubt it's deliberate. But while everyone tries to boil it down to one problem I think it's a whole shit storm of them.
Some of it's because Devs are mostly male, so they are either hesitant if not outright afraid to portray women because they don't know how.
It's the prevailing belief that even if there are more female gamers they only play casual games and therefore won't care about the next fantasy RPG.
It's money and time put in to have a seperate female main character. I'm certain on Mass Effect alone Bioware could have saved millions, billions if they'd only had a male shepard. (though that doesn't explain why there aren't just more games with a female lead).
It's a whole LOT of things.
But with time it will get solved as long as we call devs and fellow players out on their shit without getting overly upset about thing that doesn't really matter. Priorities people!