Are you a "nice guy"?

FrostyChick

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Kurokami said:
FrostyChick said:
I feel so stupid now. >.>

I guess it doesn't help that my last name is Frost.
Is your first name Emma? Cause that would be awesome.

It was kind of a roundabout/stupid joke that could easily be misinterpreted so don't feel bad. =]
Thankfully not, it's bad enough being a girl on a gaming site, but a girl with a comic book inspired name? No thanks. >.>
(my name is on my profile anyway)
 

SckizoBoy

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If you are in a place where you can't even love yourself, how can you expect things to get better? Trust me, I know how you feel. But you have to look positively towards the future, not dwell on everything that has gone wrong. Life can seriously suck. But we have to try to make the best of it. It s hard, but I am still fighting too. I hope you find yourself again, and I wish you luck. :)
I find myself in a similar position to yourself. I often feel shitty because it is difficult to understand the concept that someone may be attracted to me (or that's the feeling that I get). However, I can be quite a confident individual, brimming with wit, eloquence, humour and intellect that impresses but doesn't overwhelm. Unfortunately, it fights a sometimes losing battle against the frequent episodes when I struggle to justify how I am a man let alone a human, ruminating on shit that I couldn't've prevented and denying myself everything that's good about me.

That said, I'm trying, and it's fucking hard, because I know that the one woman I wish happiness for may never find it. And if I go back to her, which I want, I'm sort of dooming my own future as well as hers. I would genuinely cry tears of joy if she managed to find a boyfriend who could make her laugh. (Then, I'd proceed to wonder how to stop being single... *sigh*)
 

Kurokami

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FrostyChick said:
Kurokami said:
FrostyChick said:
I feel so stupid now. >.>

I guess it doesn't help that my last name is Frost.
Is your first name Emma? Cause that would be awesome.

It was kind of a roundabout/stupid joke that could easily be misinterpreted so don't feel bad. =]
Thankfully not, it's bad enough being a girl on a gaming site, but a girl with a comic book inspired name? No thanks. >.>
(my name is on my profile anyway)
Haha, damn! She's one of my favorite characters as well.

Either way I've derailed this conversation enough, good day to you! =]
 

Mr Fixit

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I'm either a "nice guy" or a complete & total ASS. No middle ground for me. Don't over think the "lets be friends" thing & move on, trust me its better for everyone that way.
 

shadow_Fox81

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yes to the point its a fault.

and you always finish last (figuritivley most nice guys are quite spritely)

but most people who arn't overly kind call me an asshole with a superiority complex because i held the door open for them.

i guess its subjective (sigh)
 

WingedIncubus

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I'm a "jerk" now and proud of it, proud of what I have become. "Jerk" is such a misnomer, it's just being fun, honest, bold, fearless a little rough, and unpredictable. You don't need to be a gangbanger or a thug to tease girls, approach them to start conversation and get to know what makes them tick, leeringly look at their TnA brazenly, give them sexy "I'd so have you" eye contact, give them drama, challenge them, and even completely ignore those babes who tusk around expecting everyone to check them out.

They're just a pair of tits with a heart and a brain, not some angel princess or goddess like you see in your Anime crap. They don't have anything so special that we have to put them on a pedestal and bend and kneel, and what they do have, other women can give easier and cheaper. They're just girls. They're human, just like you and me. They're emotional, just like you and me. They go to toilets like you and me. They make mistakes like you and me. They can be cruel, selfish bitches with sick porn-like fetishes and fantasies like me (but maybe not you). But they are the one who choose. Women do the choosing. So it all depends on what you've got to offer so they choose up.

Where's the fun in being a spineless sycophant? I'm a narcissistic and a selfish man, but I am self-aware of it. I see virtue in selfishness, I prefer to rule in my Hell than serve in another's Heaven; with my rules, my quirks, my whims. Life is about finding your fun and happiness, your passions, and live it to the fullest before you decay and die. Chicks come and go, and they are everywhere by the thousands, the millions, the billions.

When you learn to have fun and relax, confidence comes in. Confidence is all about self-love, believing in your core values, and accepting that the only important person in this world is you, and you live only once.

"Nice guys" are weak-ass dudes, it's being nice based on fear of displeasing and disappointing others. I know, I have been one in high school. Being "nice" for others' sake, a doormat, and not to make waves in case you get the shit beaten out by other guys, your friends get mad, or the poor "princess" will get offended. None of this happens if you show from the start that you have a spine. Have the thought even occurred that she might like being offended, that she likes a man when he is bold and daring? If one doesn't ask, he'll never get and he'll never know he can get.
 

retyopy

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I'm nice becuase I want to be liked. I'm not actaully a nice person. I'm just afraid of being alone and unloved. But on the inside, I'm sad and evil. : )
 

RomanceIsDead

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WingedIncubus said:
I'm a "jerk" now and proud of it, proud of what I have become. "Jerk" is such a misnomer, it's just being fun, honest, bold, fearless a little rough, and unpredictable. You don't need to be a gangbanger or a thug to tease girls, approach them to start conversation and get to know what makes them tick, leeringly look at their TnA brazenly, give them sexy "I'd so have you" eye contact, give them drama, challenge them, and even completely ignore those babes who tusk around expecting everyone to check them out.

They're just a pair of tits with a heart and a brain, not some angel princess or goddess like you see in your Anime crap. They don't have anything so special that we have to put them on a pedestal and bend and kneel, and what they do have, other women can give easier and cheaper. They're just girls. They're human, just like you and me. They're emotional, just like you and me. They go to toilets like you and me. They make mistakes like you and me. They can be cruel, selfish bitches with sick porn-like fetishes and fantasies like me (but maybe not you). But they are the one who choose. Women do the choosing. So it all depends on what you've got to offer so they choose up.

Where's the fun in being a spineless sycophant? I'm a narcissistic and a selfish man, but I am self-aware of it. I see virtue in selfishness, I prefer to rule in my Hell than serve in another's Heaven; with my rules, my quirks, my whims. Life is about finding your fun and happiness, your passions, and live it to the fullest before you decay and die. Chicks come and go, and they are everywhere by the thousands, the millions, the billions.

When you learn to have fun and relax, confidence comes in. Confidence is all about self-love, believing in your core values, and accepting that the only important person in this world is you, and you live only once.

"Nice guys" are weak-ass dudes, it's being nice based on fear of displeasing and disappointing others. I know, I have been one in high school. Being "nice" for others' sake, a doormat, and not to make waves in case you get the shit beaten out by other guys, your friends get mad, or the poor "princess" will get offended. None of this happens if you show from the start that you have a spine. Have the thought even occurred that she might like being offended, that she likes a man when he is bold and daring? If one doesn't ask, he'll never get and he'll never know he can get.
A real man--can live his entire life without sex and without a girlfriend. He is, through all of this--still objective and confident.

Anyone who needs a partner to feel satisfied in life is weak.
 

GestaltEsper

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RomanceIsDead said:
WingedIncubus said:
I'm a "jerk" now and proud of it, proud of what I have become. "Jerk" is such a misnomer, it's just being fun, honest, bold, fearless a little rough, and unpredictable. You don't need to be a gangbanger or a thug to tease girls, approach them to start conversation and get to know what makes them tick, leeringly look at their TnA brazenly, give them sexy "I'd so have you" eye contact, give them drama, challenge them, and even completely ignore those babes who tusk around expecting everyone to check them out.

They're just a pair of tits with a heart and a brain, not some angel princess or goddess like you see in your Anime crap. They don't have anything so special that we have to put them on a pedestal and bend and kneel, and what they do have, other women can give easier and cheaper. They're just girls. They're human, just like you and me. They're emotional, just like you and me. They go to toilets like you and me. They make mistakes like you and me. They can be cruel, selfish bitches with sick porn-like fetishes and fantasies like me (but maybe not you). But they are the one who choose. Women do the choosing. So it all depends on what you've got to offer so they choose up.

Where's the fun in being a spineless sycophant? I'm a narcissistic and a selfish man, but I am self-aware of it. I see virtue in selfishness, I prefer to rule in my Hell than serve in another's Heaven; with my rules, my quirks, my whims. Life is about finding your fun and happiness, your passions, and live it to the fullest before you decay and die. Chicks come and go, and they are everywhere by the thousands, the millions, the billions.

When you learn to have fun and relax, confidence comes in. Confidence is all about self-love, believing in your core values, and accepting that the only important person in this world is you, and you live only once.

"Nice guys" are weak-ass dudes, it's being nice based on fear of displeasing and disappointing others. I know, I have been one in high school. Being "nice" for others' sake, a doormat, and not to make waves in case you get the shit beaten out by other guys, your friends get mad, or the poor "princess" will get offended. None of this happens if you show from the start that you have a spine. Have the thought even occurred that she might like being offended, that she likes a man when he is bold and daring? If one doesn't ask, he'll never get and he'll never know he can get.
A real man--can live his entire life without sex and without a girlfriend. He is, through all of this--still objective and confident.

Anyone who needs a partner to feel satisfied in life is weak.
An inspiring sentiment. Gotta admit I was worried when this popped back up but I'm pleasantly surprised.
 

rutger5000

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I'm a nice guy but I don't pay the price for it for I'm also an honest guy. If I would want to date a girl I would ask her, if she says no then I would forget about it.
I'm pretty much like KaosuHamoni, but I don't act arseholeish to people that are being arseholse. And I'm a mix of being confident and selfdoubting.
 

DonMartin

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..I really dont want to look through all these pages to see if it was already posted, but I usually post this comic whenever I see a thread with the words "nice guy" or "friend zone" in them. This was the comic that made me stop considering myself a "nice guy" and even made me stop trying to categorize myself. I think a lot of people would feel better if they only did this. Not just "nice guys" who are basically like the narrator of this comic, but also self-proclaimed "jerks", (really, guys? Really? Come on.) self-proclaimed cynics, self-proclaimed "sarcastic fuckers", self-diagnozed Asperger's Sufferers (and other mental illnesses that really only affect about or less than 1% of the earth's population) and self-proclaimed narcissists.



Note: This was not aimed directly at any person in this thread, including OP. Just read this and ask youself if youve ever thought the same thing.
 

GestaltEsper

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DonMartin said:
..I really dont want to look through all these pages to see if it was already posted, but I usually post this comic whenever I see a thread with the words "nice guy" or "friend zone" in them. This was the comic that made me stop considering myself a "nice guy" and even made me stop trying to categorize myself. I think a lot of people would feel better if they only did this. Not just "nice guys" who are basically like the narrator of this comic, but also self-proclaimed "jerks", (really, guys? Really? Come on.) self-proclaimed cynics, self-proclaimed "sarcastic fuckers", self-diagnozed Asperger's Sufferers (and other mental illnesses that really only affect about or less than 1% of the earth's population) and self-proclaimed narcissists.



Note: This was not aimed directly at any person in this thread, including OP. Just read this and ask youself if youve ever thought the same thing.
OP already linked it.
...Still funny though.
 

Raika

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I'm about as far from a nice guy as you can be. I'm a snide, bitchy, crass, foulmouthed woman. I'm also single. Guess why.