I'm a "jerk" now and proud of it, proud of what I have become. "Jerk" is such a misnomer, it's just being fun, honest, bold, fearless a little rough, and unpredictable. You don't need to be a gangbanger or a thug to tease girls, approach them to start conversation and get to know what makes them tick, leeringly look at their TnA brazenly, give them sexy "I'd so have you" eye contact, give them drama, challenge them, and even completely ignore those babes who tusk around expecting everyone to check them out.
They're just a pair of tits with a heart and a brain, not some angel princess or goddess like you see in your Anime crap. They don't have anything so special that we have to put them on a pedestal and bend and kneel, and what they do have, other women can give easier and cheaper. They're just girls. They're human, just like you and me. They're emotional, just like you and me. They go to toilets like you and me. They make mistakes like you and me. They can be cruel, selfish bitches with sick porn-like fetishes and fantasies like me (but maybe not you). But they are the one who choose. Women do the choosing. So it all depends on what you've got to offer so they choose up.
Where's the fun in being a spineless sycophant? I'm a narcissistic and a selfish man, but I am self-aware of it. I see virtue in selfishness, I prefer to rule in my Hell than serve in another's Heaven; with my rules, my quirks, my whims. Life is about finding your fun and happiness, your passions, and live it to the fullest before you decay and die. Chicks come and go, and they are everywhere by the thousands, the millions, the billions.
When you learn to have fun and relax, confidence comes in. Confidence is all about self-love, believing in your core values, and accepting that the only important person in this world is you, and you live only once.
"Nice guys" are weak-ass dudes, it's being nice based on fear of displeasing and disappointing others. I know, I have been one in high school. Being "nice" for others' sake, a doormat, and not to make waves in case you get the shit beaten out by other guys, your friends get mad, or the poor "princess" will get offended. None of this happens if you show from the start that you have a spine. Have the thought even occurred that she might like being offended, that she likes a man when he is bold and daring? If one doesn't ask, he'll never get and he'll never know he can get.