Are you a "nice guy"?
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HaHahahahaha....SgtFoley said:
ok ok. Are any of them attractive?
EDIT: Ok ok I'm just being stupid, I've actually also rejected girls before but one was because I did not find her attractive at all and the other was a slut and I didn't want to get any STD/STIs.
I'm also one of the nice guys who got the girl. It's my first relationship, my girlfriend is super-cute, and it's been going rather smoothly for the past 2 1/2 years.
A platonic friend I'd known for a couple years pushed me into her once, told me to "give her a hug, you dope." That's where it started, yup.
A platonic friend I'd known for a couple years pushed me into her once, told me to "give her a hug, you dope." That's where it started, yup.
Tell that to Jaime Lannister... HahahaSgtFoley said:
Oh see the poster above you, he's one of the guys I was originally talking about.
No wonder nice guys can't get anywhere, by all the descriptions sofar they seem to be baby munching demon spawn only wearing human skin, I wouldn't date something like that either.
Sorry, it was very subtle and silly, but I was just referring to your name. 'frostychick', ^_^FrostyChick said:Well best to be direct now, than crush your hopes later.Kurokami said:That's cold!FrostyChick said:Nope, I'm not a "nice guy".
As for what women find attractive in men, well I don't find anything attractive in men.
Yay me for being super helpful!
I mean wouldn't you rather be told the hot chick is a lesbian straight away than get to know her, develop a crush on her only to find out she's genetically programmed to not be interested in you?
I agree. Many make the mistake to equate "Being nice" with "Being insecure, wimpy and indecisive". Be nice, but don't be a vag. Self-confidence is key. And I don't think you can go into a friendship in the same way you would a possible relationship.Fiendish Panda said:I'm a girl, and I like nice guys. I don't get this thing of 'girls only like jerks' - say what? I hate jerks because, well, they're JERKS! Really, any nice guys out there thinking they'll get more attention from girls by being an asshole, don't. Just no. You can be a nice guy and have confidence/be assertive at the same time. Those assholes out there aren't being confident and assertive, they're being arrogant and acting like dickheads
Jaime Who?? JAIME WHO??!!!GestaltEsper said:
http://www.lmgtfy.com/?q=Jaime+Lannister
Check it out and watch the series. It's da bomb!
Well being female, I guess I could put my opinion in. However, this is just MY opinion. I am not speaking for any other females here.
Women are very much attracted to confidence. They can also be attracted to dominance, authority and status. I am too. To me, I equate that to masculinity.
We want a man who is a nice guy, but who oozes confidence, who can protect us. From the way you dress, to how you hold yourself and talk.
I guess it it primal. You know, a big strong man who will look after us and protect us.
You don't have to be perfect or anything, I am just talking about something many women fantasize about. The charming knight who saves the princess.
First impressions always count. Show you are confidant and assertive (that does NOT mean being a jerk), women will love that. Just remember to be yourself. We don't like posers. Oh yes, and we like men who dress well.
Women are very much attracted to confidence. They can also be attracted to dominance, authority and status. I am too. To me, I equate that to masculinity.
We want a man who is a nice guy, but who oozes confidence, who can protect us. From the way you dress, to how you hold yourself and talk.
I guess it it primal. You know, a big strong man who will look after us and protect us.
You don't have to be perfect or anything, I am just talking about something many women fantasize about. The charming knight who saves the princess.
First impressions always count. Show you are confidant and assertive (that does NOT mean being a jerk), women will love that. Just remember to be yourself. We don't like posers. Oh yes, and we like men who dress well.
RAKtheUndead said:
If you are in a place where you can't even love yourself, how can you expect things to get better? Trust me, I know how you feel. But you have to look positively towards the future, not dwell on everything that has gone wrong. Life can seriously suck. But we have to try to make the best of it. It s hard, but I am still fighting too. I hope you find yourself again, and I wish you luck.
I recently spent some time with a woman who'd gotten divorced, I found it really embarassing how she kept saying how much of a better person I was than her ex, like I completely didn't know how to respond. I felt especially guilty as, while I wasn't callous enough to only be interested in the sex, I didn't really see any long-term future. It wasn't anything overly chivalrous or altruistic either, simple things that I took for granted like helping her bring her stuff in from the car or referencing a story she told earlier in a joke to show I was listening, stuff that's just from how my parents raised me.
Er back on topic, I think someone summed it up earlier perfectly by saying "it's better to be a Good man than a Nice Guy". You don't have to be a cocky asshole to get woman (though they do quite well it seems too), but you do have to be a man, not some whiny boy complaining how "woman are all bitches, because they won't go out with me".
Er back on topic, I think someone summed it up earlier perfectly by saying "it's better to be a Good man than a Nice Guy". You don't have to be a cocky asshole to get woman (though they do quite well it seems too), but you do have to be a man, not some whiny boy complaining how "woman are all bitches, because they won't go out with me".
Well I don't lie to people and I'm selfless towards people I like. I'm very nice. But I'm also confident now and masculine once someone's allowed me to pass that barrier.
But. I left my last GF just a few weeks ago, and my previous ex just said she liked me. I then kissed my ex and then she said "I'm not ready for a relationship but I like you" and it's like "NNNNNNGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH FFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUU-"
But. I left my last GF just a few weeks ago, and my previous ex just said she liked me. I then kissed my ex and then she said "I'm not ready for a relationship but I like you" and it's like "NNNNNNGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH FFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUU-"