(As we all know) Women are not new to gaming.

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Vastly more important EDIT: This thread has started some fights. It's mostly been a place for some rational discussion and relaying personal experiance, but it's also started 1-2 notable fights. Please note that all this original post did was provide some facts and personal experience to make it clear that girls have been here for quite a while, and their opinion should always count. That's literally it, and I've seen little evidence that anyone really disagrees with that. Play nice, kids.

EDIT: I acknowledge we all know women aren't new to this hobby. Or most of us know that. I also acknowledge you're all obscenely talented, beautiful and/or handsome people. Because you are. But I think our ratios of the gaming population are a bit...obscured. This is also in response to recent sexist video posted on these nifty little forums.


Nor are they a rare minority: http://www.themarysue.com/gaming-statistics/

http://www.theesa.com/facts/index.asp (read number 6)

A special on a woman in Game's journalism playing since age 6: http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MindMoodNews/story?id=6873270&page=1#.UCwZ046jJlI

http://www.g4tv.com/thefeed/blog/post/713502/esas-gamer-study-average-player-37-42-percent-of-gamers-female/

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Now, before the outcry of 'casuals don't count', The majority of those women are playing the kind of games this cite typically associates gaming with. 40% of gamers online are female, and to add to that, you need to consider the fact that women have A LOT of incentive to lie about their gender online nowadays, so it may be more.

I'm making this as something of a response thread to this: http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/9.385133-From-The-Kitchen-To-The-Controller-Girl-Gamers-Exposed

Though in general, I've gotten a bit sick of the trend of accusing women of 'recently invading' the gaming community. I grew up surrounded by female gamers, and half the gamers I know offline are women. My favorite TF2 server is hosted by a women who codes custom Source maps as a source of income, and I've been slaughtered by/have slaughtered female steam friends for about a year now. One of my best friends is a girl who knows more Final Fantasy Secrets then I ever will, and I once watched an old Girlfriend get to the second dungeon in Ocarina of Time in two hours.

The reaction the Escapist had to the linked thread has given me a lot of hope; almost everyone was repulsed by the video's implications.

I'm not talking down to anyone, more so making this to share some facts and personal experience. I realize not everyone is fortunate enough to grow up with the nerdy chicks I have had the pleasure of being around. But women who play and make games are not rare and they aren't new, and they shouldn't be accused of trying to seduce men by playing Mario.

By the same logic, Men have started watching My Little Pony to impress women. I think a web comic made that comparison recently somewhere around here...hm.

For discussions sake: Did your gender 'matter' when you revealed yourself to be a gamer? As a kid did you feel peer pressured to liking one thing but not another? I've heard many female gamers say they're met with strange reactions.

I personally think that what we enjoy is largely determined by what's marketed to us, but we can easily defy that.

(Again: see the guys watching My Little Pony. And several female gamers playing certain modern games that were more marketed to men and boys [not all are marketed like that, but some are]). People enjoy what they enjoy, as far as I'm concerned. And I think most people here agree, but has society been receptive of that idea?

Okay, talk amongst ya selves.
 

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Oh definitely.

I recently found a picture of myself when I was about three or four playing on what I think was a SNES with my uncle. I've been playing ever since.

I sure as hell wasn't doing it for men's attention. .____.

I don't really know any female gamers, which is a little depressing, but that said, I don't really know many male gamers so...
 

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Of course, women are not new to gaming. I've been gaming since I was four and played the sega megadrive. I was never doing it to get attention from men. I never met any female gamers until I was about 12, but only 2. I'm not in contact with them anymore though sadly, so now I know none. But all the male gamers I've met have treated me exactly the same as everyone else, they never thought differently of my gaming abilities just because I was a female, in fact there have been times where I knew more about a game than them and we would sit in a circle while I took down a boss for one of them. Those were some great times. I know that there are girls who genuinely do it to get men's attention, and those girls are annoying as hell.

Though one thing that bothers me is the females reaction to gaming females. There have been many occasions where girls have not wanted to talk to me just because when asked I told them about my gaming hobby. (Sorry that was off topic there) So it's been easier for me to be friends with guys than girls.
 

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My only problem is booth babes and their ilk, girl gamers are fine, aside from sometimes being the worst fucking fan boys (Oh irony) why would I ever even think they were new? But booth babes? Please, they probably don't even know the genre of a game they're promoting, just eye candy, I find it offensive.

That and girls that are all "OH I'M A GAMER" and then I'm like "Oh cool.. what do you play?" and they respond with something like "I PLAY ZELDA ON MY WII."... THAT DOES NOT MAKE YOU A GAMER, THAT MEANS YOU'VE PLAYED A FRACTION OF GAMES.

-Long exhale.- But that includes male "gamers" who only play CoD on their 360 with brofriends, they aren't gamers in my eyes either.
 

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SecretNegative said:
How awesome?

No one except insecure trolls on 4chan and youtube are actually having a problem with this, who are you actually aiming this to? There aren't a whole lot of people on the escapist having a problem with women.
I know dat. :]

I'm not aiming it at most people here, just lending some facts to counter the psuedo-science in that now VERY popular thread. And some people did agree with the video, or at least said it made good points or referenced real science.

...it didn't.

Like I said, not talking down to peeps, just posting actual facts for the sake of information.
 

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Another girl gamer thread? Really?

Yes, there are plenty of girl gamers. No, they don't publicize it to random folks online much because a lot of gamers are juvenile idiots, and they don't want to be harassed.

Also, they probably aren't as competitive or into multiplayer as the guys, which may result in the skewed impression that girls don't like games. Games these days are pretty well designed to the point where a large proportion of the market can enjoy them. For instance, not only are girls playing, but so are older folks and people across a range of professions, such as doctors, dentists, politicians, soldiers. It's a credit to the industry that they can design games which appeal to a wide range of people.
 

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Padwolf said:
Though one thing that bothers me is the females reaction to gaming females. There have been many occasions where girls have not wanted to talk to me just because when asked I told them about my gaming hobby. (Sorry that was off topic there) So it's been easier for me to be friends with guys than girls.
I keep hearing about that strange reaction, it doesn't make much sense to me.

I also find that a lot of girls aren't as open about the hobby. You might have known more female gamers than you realized, who knows.


OpticalJunction said:
Another girl gamer thread? Really?
I added some flattering bold text in an attempt to explain myself. I baked it myself~
 

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Overusedname said:
I keep hearing about that strange reaction, it doesn't make much sense to me.

I also find that a lot of girls aren't as open about the hobby. You might have known more female gamers than you realized, who knows.
Yeah, I possibly did. It's a shame that they aren't more open about the hobby. It doesn't make much sense to me either. It really is a strange reaction to have to someone.
 

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Gaming since before I can remember. I must have been about... four?
Started out on the megadrive, never looked back.

It does bother me when people act like gaming is something I picked up a few minutes ago and try to explain it to me (I get these type of guys talk to me in game shops- I always considered myself to look like a geeky girl but apparently not). Most recent example was when I was trying to choose between two games (ended up getting both, shut up it was my birthday) when some dude comes up and explains the games to me. Still, he was just trying to be polite so I didn't snap or anything, just kind of politely went `Um... Yeah... Yeah, I know.`

I love to be loud and proud about my love of games - it was always `my thing` when I was growing up, but I hate being called an attention whore, I don't want attention. Just the same recognition dudes get and I'm happy.
Lucky for me that I have a boyfriend I can talk games with endlessly.

I'd love for the asshole population to go down and people maybe being more chill about female gamers, but I'll always be here. Dicks can tell me I shouldn't be playing, but me and gaming will continue on with our forbidden love! *dramatic music*
=P
 

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*Kicks and punches her way through a wall*

SUP

Been playing since I was 3 in 1984, I get really angry with some boys telling me that I'm invading their hobby. So please don't do that. Also I have been called 'lesbian' and suchlike from guys for liking games (mostly in school). So it's no wonder some girls kept it a secret.

I spent £345 on games last month (I fully accept I have a problem.)

Water Tribe out.

 

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I don't really have anything to say about this topic. The statistics say they exist, the logic says they exist, and the girl gamers themselves say they exist. What's left to discuss? WHAT?

On an unrelated note I got my little sister into gaming recently and am trying to find easy, but great games for her to play. I've been playing so long that I routinely underestimate her difficulty with some games. Any suggestions?

EDIT: She's already beaten OoT and Luigi's mansion with help from me, but she's really struggling with Super Mario Sunshine (the platform levels). I hesitate to give too much help lest she never gets any better.
 

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T0ad 0f Truth said:
I don't really have anything to say about this topic. The statistics say they exist, the logic says they exist, and the girl gamers themselves say they exist. What's left to discuss? WHAT?

On an unrelated note I got my little sister into gaming recently and am trying to find easy, but great games for her to play. I've playing so long that I routinely underestimate her difficulty with some games. Any suggestions?
Hm... introducing people is always hard.
Portal is good as it has a good difficulty curve.
I'd recommend this video for you to watch, it might help you get a better idea: http://penny-arcade.com/patv/episode/sharing-our-medium
After all you know your sister better than us, hopefully that video might help you.
 

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Elate said:
My only problem is booth babes and their ilk, girl gamers are fine, aside from sometimes being the worst fucking fan boys (Oh irony) why would I ever even think they were new? But booth babes? Please, they probably don't even know the genre of a game they're promoting, just eye candy, I find it offensive.

That and girls that are all "OH I'M A GAMER" and then I'm like "Oh cool.. what do you play?" and they respond with something like "I PLAY ZELDA ON MY WII."... THAT DOES NOT MAKE YOU A GAMER, THAT MEANS YOU'VE PLAYED A FRACTION OF GAMES.

-Long exhale.- But that includes male "gamers" who only play CoD on their 360 with brofriends, they aren't gamers in my eyes either.
Out of curiosity to you consider people to have played Zelda on the Wii to be less of a gamer by default? Or is it if they have ONLY played Zelda on their Wii.
 

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Phasmal said:
T0ad 0f Truth said:
I don't really have anything to say about this topic. The statistics say they exist, the logic says they exist, and the girl gamers themselves say they exist. What's left to discuss? WHAT?

On an unrelated note I got my little sister into gaming recently and am trying to find easy, but great games for her to play. I've playing so long that I routinely underestimate her difficulty with some games. Any suggestions?
Hm... introducing people is always hard.
Portal is good as it has a good difficulty curve.
I'd recommend this video for you to watch, it might help you get a better idea: http://penny-arcade.com/patv/episode/sharing-our-medium
After all you know your sister better than us, hopefully that video might help you.
That video emphasizes patience, mentoring, and understanding... Well fuck :/

Katamari it is then.

Seriously though, it was helpful. Thank you. :)
 

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T0ad 0f Truth said:
On an unrelated note I got my little sister into gaming recently and am trying to find easy, but great games for her to play. I've been playing so long that I routinely underestimate her difficulty with some games. Any suggestions?

EDIT: She's already beaten OoT and Luigi's mansion with help from me, but she's really struggling with Super Mario Sunshine (the platform levels). I hesitate to give too much help lest she never gets any better.
You've exposed your kin to the evils of the Fluddless segments?

By the gods.


But yes, Katamari sounds like she'd love it. I also Recommend Majora's mask, since she beat Ocarina. Majora has one hell of a world and an immersive story.

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Water Tribe out.

I love your entrance as much as your exit.

One of the best gifs online.

Well, I'm quite partial to this one:

 

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yes, women have been playing games for as long as men.

Although the 40% statistic feels a bit wierd to me. I think it just involves what is a gamer. If we are talking about phone or facebook games, then i would say that number FEELS (key word) low as nearly every woman i know plays games to SOME extent.

That said, if we are talking about games like Left for Dead, MMOs, or such 40% FEELS a bit high.

But like i said, i think the "weirdness" has to do with what i consider a gamer. I feel that my motivation behind the defintion is more based upon my age than my gender.
 

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How about this?

We're all human. In this, we are different and the same at the same time.

So, can we just drop every single stereotype off of a cliff and into a roaring volcano, please? I'm getting sick and tired of the debate. Women can do anything their male counterparts can.

AUUUUUGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Captcha: lets roll.

Yes, Captcha. I'm all for that at this point.
 

Moonlight Butterfly

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Except here is the problem when people rail against the video game industry or "communities"(as in not being specific but just being general to further their agenda). The starting point of logic is often a logical fallacy or assumption that the video game industry and culture was somehow built by men to keep women out. Like a conspiracy.
I have never seen anyone say that. It's a total strawman.

I think we can both agree a lot of games are geared towards men even in subtle ways. A dominant gender demographic is a self perpetuating problem. Women don't want to read car magazines because they are presented like porno mags, Men don't want to get into tv sewing programs because it's presented by middle aged women in wooly sweaters. Yet there is definitely members of both genders who enjoy those things.

Hell look at how much flak the bronies get.

I don't think making something appeal to both demographics is hard or even that damaging creatively.

All most feminists are asking is that some female characters aren't sexed up or weakened for the benefit of a male audience. As for sexual harassment I shouldn't really have to explain why that's bad.

I don't mind a guy calling me a noob but when he calls me a whore or asks to see my tits on webcam then I have a problem.