Aspects about yourself that you simply hate

[Aesir23]

I would have to say to say it's the fact that I'm pretty socially inept when it comes to face-to-face interaction. The Social Anxiety certainly doesn't help but I usually end up saying/doing something idiotic and embarrassing myself immensely. It was one of the root causes for being bullied in middle school.

After that it's the low self esteem but that's traced back to the social ineptitude.

The thing I hate most though is the fact that I'm a horrible procrastinator, it seems to be something I'm having incredible difficulty pushing past and it caused me quite a bit of trouble while I was going to school.

 

[King of Asgaard]

I'm a massive coward when it comes to voicing my opinions, or making decisions.
I'm very passive, unless something is completely unacceptable, I tend to go along with it.
I have a low self-esteem, and, combined with my cowardice and lack of a spine, am unable to ask out anyone of the opposite gender, even though I want to.
And finally, I cannot endeavour to fix the above.

 

[Gypsybob]

I'm 5'5". FML, I can;t even do anything about that.

 

[Elgnirp100]

It would be quicker to list everything about me that I don't hate...

 

[Gabanuka]

Physically? My nose

Mentally? God I dont know, its all a big clusterfuck really. Easier to focus my hate on the nose.

Edit: Thats actually hilarious if you read it as Moleman.

 

[Kevlar Eater]

Let's see:

- Very low self-esteem
- Fear of making a mistake (since perfection is basically expected nowadays)
- Hesitant to talk to people, and my speech goes to shit if I were to talk to a female unless done so professionally

A whole lot of other things. With enough alcohol in me, those things will go away (learned that from experience yesterday)

 

[Hawkeye 131]

1) I'm VERY slow to trust people if at all
2) I do not like to be touched... even by close friends and family
3) I tend to hold grudges and if I don't I'll never forget an incident/accident etc...
4) I hate large crowds and heavily populated public areas
5) I ended my closest friendship and haven't spoken to him (not once) in 2+ years, it's still a little awkward around our mutual group of close friends and has had a PROFOUND impact on me (some positive, some negative)
6) Though I mostly look on the "bright" side I do realized that the world is a very fucked up place and sometimes have the desire to do absolutely nothing about it, "Just sit back and watch it burn."
7) I have a "rocky" relationship with my father because he grew up without one and has no idea what it's like to be constantly second guessed
8) I've never had a stable and active relationship
9) I always speak my mind and am 100% honest even if it gets me in trouble
10) I have a HUGH personal "bubble" a.k.a. "Personal space", if you invade that even inadvertly your treading very dangerous waters
11) If anyone ever crosses/betrays/lies to me there is next to nothing they can do to get back across the "bridge" with me if ever
11) An invasion of my privacy is a one way ticket across the above mentioned "border"
12) I do not instantly respect authority, and am very cautious around people I've never met

"Respect is a funny thing, most people assume they deserve it. The truth is respect is earned." - Commander Shepard

 

[Shock and Awe]

I'm lazy about things I know I have to do, but when it comes to it I often say "fuck it". Oddly this mostly only happens when it only benefits me.

 

[undeadexistentialist]

It's been said, but hey these are my flaws I'm talking about, so lazy is a big one. I have extreme difficulty with motivation and have little or no life-aspirations which only makes it harder.

I suppose my biggest issue, though, is my problem with writing. This is particularly relevant as it's been occurring to me in the past few days again, and I can't write what I want to. If I have a dream, it's to produce just one big, popular, fantasy epic; I want to tell a Grand Story. But every time I try, I have this idea, I stick to it for days, weeks, months if I'm lucky, but eventually the result is the same; the idea dies, I lose interest in it and start again with a whole new one. This has been going on since I was a child, and no matter what I do I just can't break it.

 

[karcentric]

I hate that I'm so blunt when I talk to people, if someone looks silly, I'll tell them straight up.

 

[Starik20X6]

I get attached to girls too easily, leading to more hurt than I have any right to feel when things go pear-shaped.

I'm very critical of my own work, and don't see what I produce as anything noteworthy despite being told otherwise.

I'm not good at starting discussions or conversations; I get the feeling nobody really gives a toss what I have to say.

A lot of the time, I'm just not willing to put the time and effort into things that I simply don't enjoy.

^ This. To the point where I won't care if I fail something because I didn't care about it to begin with. This mentality has cost me a couple of grand worth of failed courses.

 

[bulbasaur765]

I hate my shyness and lack of initiating conversations; whenever I'm "hanging out" with friends I spend most of the time isolating myself from the group and making the day even worse for everybody.

Also my height (5'5)

 

[Tilted_Logic]

Unmotivated. Mostly when it comes to things that don't have a specific timeline. I don't know how many months I've wasted simply saying "I can do it tomorrow."

And generally, how my friendships with good people tend to turn out. I'm a crappy friend. I'm not anti-social, but I just don't feel compelled to message my friends unless I've got something interesting to tell them. It generally means it becomes a one sided effort, which isn't fair to them. I don't hate my friends by any means, I just... I don't know why I'm like this. I'm just happy to be alone and don't often feel the urge to start up conversations..

..Lost some good friends because of it..

 

[Xdeser2]

My self esteem is a problem that I cant seem to find the answer to either, Unrequited love, those sorts of things.

Other than that, im for the most part an introvert, but the only one that seems to have a problem with that is myself, I get worked up thinking "Oh man, I havent hung out with the guys for a while, they are going to be pissed!" and I get greeted with the same old stuff as before and go back to just chillin alone for a while.

So its basicly a problem with accepting myself

 

[AngloDoom]

Issues in relationships tend to stay with me long after I'm gone, and plague me for far too long then they should. An ex broke up with me after almost two years because she said she suddenly realised she could go out with someone more attractive than I am. The same girl had whittled my confidence down regarding my looks in certain ways before (suggesting I'm a 'four out of ten') probably because her previous boyfriend was a male model.

Almost two years after that event, I still feel wretched about how I look. I've always known I'm not particularly attractive and I used to feel like I wasn't particularly ugly, I always got by on politeness and charm. Now I hate seeing photos of myself, I avoid looking into mirrors as much as possible, and when someone gives me the odd compliment about my appearance I have help but feel as if they're lying. I've been constantly on/off exercising since that relationship ended, 'on' when I suddenly get sick of how I feel again and 'off' when I gain a bit of confidence, and I found myself trying to lose weight and tone up when I'm 5ft"11 and weighed 11st (154lbs).

I never used to be like this, and it just gets to me knowing that once someone is that close to me that they can seriously affect me in such a way. It's made me a lot warier of relationships (which isn't a bad thing considering my previous experiences with far too many crazy-ladies) but it just shocks me because I would have said I have very high confidence in almost every other situation.

Blah. It's almost a bit sad that this is the first time I've really 'discussed' the issue and it was online, rather than with a supportive group of friends I have. It's just a weird thing to admit to when you're the 'cocky, confident, loud' one of the group.

 

[Friendly Lich]

I hate my body, I'm somewhat fit but I can never build muscle despite always going to the gym and working out intensely.

I think too much about things that are depressing I wish I could just enjoy myself.

I look at porn too much. Also I think I'm becoming a nymphomaniac.

I'm always trying to find flaws in myself and have I hard time focusing on my strengths.

 

[Sandjube]

I am stubborn to a fault, I am not good looking by any means, and I am the procrastinator to end all procrastinators.