Basic Life Skills No-One Has Anymore

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Shilkanni

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I don't think it's mostly the parents, I bet in a lot of cases we were shown stuff but didn't pay attention.

To be honest I had never heard of mending socks like it was a basic life skill. I'd like to think I am a little environmentally conscious but unfortunately it's hard to care when I make enough money in 1hr to buy a 5pack of socks.
 

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oranger said:
Jebus people, wtf are most of you gonna do when the zombie apocalypse hits? How will you take care of yourselves when the stores aren't being refilled? You realize there's at best a two day supply in any given store for its region? Less in some cases...
Zombie apocalypse aside, what happens when you start seeing cutoffs in local services, like department stores, due to major economic shifts? What are you going to do?
If we hit a zombie apocalypse i'd find you and make you do it all
 

NorthernTrooper

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I think in the greater scheme of things, the one true life skill our generation has lost is the ability to be independent.

No, I don't mean those weekends were your parents left for something or other and you lived off of mac and cheese, I mean the ability to do mostly everything yourself.
 

Vilcus

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Being a tailor, and learning how to sew never interested me. However I do know how to use a whetstone (known to most as a sharpening stone), and I am a very proficient cook. I'm not an expert by any stretch of the imagination, but I can outpace most people when it comes to making a quality meal.

The problem is that parents aren't expected to pass these skills down. In fact they're encouraged not to so that the schools can teach their kids everything. The problem is that these skills aren't taught in any required classes, which is where the flaw in our society becomes apparent. Not knowing how to sharpen knives, and how to cook a decent meal is actually quite distressing (in my mind), because if you can't cook properly, then you won't be able to survive on your own for very long.

I never learned how to sew because my hands are too big, so it's impossible for me to thread a needle effectively. In fact I find it quite frustrating, so I just left the sewing to my mother, who learned it from her adoptive parents (we don't know who here biological parents were, because she never knew them to begin with).

In short, I agree, it worries me that people aren't growing up with basic survival, and domestic skills. However, it isn't up to us what people do and do not learn, and what may seem simple to us, could quite possibly be an impossible task for someone else. I mean, how many people do you know who could perform surgery?
 

Ham_authority95

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People don't learn/do the things you mentioned for the same reason our parents don't teach how to skin an animal anymore.

Under normal circumstances, a person can along fine without those skills in today's society.
 

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mrpenguinismyhomeboy said:
well maybe sharpening a knife isn't a basic life skill. I mean, I'm sure if it was basic then we wouldn't be able to live without it, but that guy clearly does.

I really hate when people go on about shit like this. The older generation acts as though they've always had the right idea and can't grasp the fact that:

1. Not everybody grew up like them
2. That not everyone has to act like they do
3. Not everybody has the same values as they do.

And they get SO SHOCKED whenever anyone doesn't know how to do things that they think everyone should know how to do BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO GOT IT RIGHT LOOK AT ALL THESE STUPID KIDS BEING SO DUMB. WHEN I WAS A KID I DID THINGS LIKE THIS BUT THEY DON'T THIS IS SO OFFENSIVE TO ME AND THEY MUST ALL BE STUPID.

Honestly, know one gives a fuck. Jesus christ.

why am I so angry? I'm usually not.
This is also my answer, except without all the unbridled rage.
 

HijiriOni

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Letters are those A B C things aren't they?

I'm actually surprised by most peoples lack of reading and comprehension, and this isn't just my generation. Most people fail these skill sets.
 

Dags90

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I don't even know how to pump my own gas. Is that a "basic skill" that I'm terrible for not knowing? Of course, it's illegal to pump your own gas where I live, so even if I knew how to, it's not a skill I'd use regularly.
 

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The phenomena illustrated by the OP is one of several "awesome" byproducts of the baby boomers, which the world is very slowly starting to recognize as one of the worst generations in the history of everything.
 

bubba145

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i can sharpen a knife can cook. but we don't have a sharpener outside of a non cooking sharpener.
 

Dags90

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RAKtheUndead said:
Yes. Yes, it is. It's a very simple mechanism, with a trigger on the pump handle which accepts different level of pressure for different flow rates. It's not difficult to figure out.
I'm sure I could learn how to pump my own gas, and I think that generally applies to anyone learning what people are calling "basic life skills". I've simply never been put in a position where I've needed to know or needed to learn. I've seen a few people who don't know how to properly order gasoline because they're so used to self service.

With that in mind, the complaint should revolve around people not being put in these situations or needing to know this stuff. To me that just sounds silly. Complaining that people don't need to know something just sounds like, "I can't believe people don't need to know DOS!"
 

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i do not know how to sew very well, granted i know vaguely what you are supposed to do.

Especially when it comes to food i feel that people see no need when there is a bk around the corner and if they want to eat in all they have to do is reheat like a hot pocket or something. it is the age of instent gratification, if something doesn't work then just by another
 

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I knew how to stip, clean and oil then reassemble an M16 from age 15, does that count as a skill? A self taught one, but a skill all the same, like when i learned the basics in explosives and how to make things like napalm and chlorine gass, it's very easy, being a military nut growing up can expose you to alot of neat things.
 

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My parents (or at least my dad) taught me how to cook, although I'm not the best at sharpening knives. I can mend small holes in clothing and apply patches to larger ones, but I generally reserve such garments for yard work or hiking and neither I nor either of my parents can darn socks, although I can so well enough to occasionally make my own clothes, so I could probably just look it up if I ever needed to. Honestly, though: Who has the time to mend socks these days?
 

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Ultratwinkie said:
Dango said:
The skill I'm lacking is the ability to not feel guilty. I feel guilty really easily.
you know every time you search the web, resources are wasted that could have gone to help starving children in africa or power the equipment in hospitals.

you can feel guilty now.
ok now thats kinda sick, your on the computer too, dont go depressing people, if you care so much go fly over there and help them, or give em your pc :p
away from that, I always wish that my dad taught me something like hunting or something, but its banned in n. ireland, YOU CANT EVEN HAVE A HUNTING KNIFE! in america they can carry a rifle over their back! the closest thing i got is a keyring :p
 

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OtherSideofSky said:
My parents (or at least my dad) taught me how to cook, although I'm not the best at sharpening knives. I can mend small holes in clothing and apply patches to larger ones, but I generally reserve such garments for yard work or hiking and neither I nor either of my parents can darn socks, although I can so well enough to occasionally make my own clothes, so I could probably just look it up if I ever needed to. Honestly, though: Who has the time to mend socks these days?
Well when I said "fix a sock" I meant it because it's actually perhaps the easiest garment you can fix, they usually split along a seem, or need a patch, once you know how to fix a sock you can pretty much fix anything else, with a little up-scaling, kind of like needing to know how to turn on a computer before you start learning how to send an email.
 

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tkioz said:
Was it because I was raised by my grandparents, people from a generation who valued those skills?

How many people here lack those skills and why do you think they are vanishing?
More to the point, said grandparents bother to teach these skills, whereas modern parents couldn't be bothered. They're too busy making us teach them, for the third or fourth time, how to send an email to teach us knitting.

But then, I kind of like that about them. It forces us to learn things the hard way.

I know how to do basic little repair jobs with clothes and patch things. It's not something you couldn't teach yourself anyway, it'd just take longer that way. As for cooking, no problem there either.

In the Western world, only spoiled rich people never learn how to cook (and to be fair, with their money, they don't need the skill so much). But in the early 20s right now, a lot of people haven't learned the basic jobs of life, because they've had others do it for them. (Why else would they be making Facebook status messages quoting bad music all day?)

Check again when they're 25 or 30 and they will know all of it, and probably be more realistic and hard-working, because they learned it all the hard way. Which isn't necessarily the wrong way (on the contrary, it's a way of despoiling these very people), though it does cause skill leakage and forgotten ideas over the generations.
 

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RAKtheUndead said:
FieryTrainwreck said:
The phenomena illustrated by the OP is one of several "awesome" byproducts of the baby boomers, which the world is very slowly starting to recognize as one of the worst generations in the history of everything.
Generation Y are worse. I mean, the baby boomers were bad, but Generation Y are just morons. We're going to fuck up the world big time. One of my mottos is "Don't trust anybody under 30." That's for a good reason.
Speaking as a Generation Xer caught in between our greedy, useless Boomer parents (whom I'd like to pulp into Soylent Green as a fix for Social Security) and our shallow, materialistic, intellectually and morally bankrupt Milliennial younger siblings and children, I'm kind of wondering if a massive genocide (tell the Boomers there's a Tea Party rally, tell the kids they'll be on a reality show, then gas the whole lot of 'em) followed by all the women currently in their thirties press-ganged into spending the rest of their reproductive years repopulating might not be such a bad idea.

Note: Survivors of previous action, either because they're Boomers who aren't complete assholes or Millennials who have rebelled against their generation's sloth, get to be part of this new world Generation X order. But the rulers are all between 31 and 45.
 

Sronpop

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I was too busy playing video games to learn any of practical real life skills. Although I do have pretty awesome video games skills.

I would like to be able to make a fire from scratch, that would be awesome.