Basic Life Skills No-One Has Anymore

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hawkeye52

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i can fix comps, cook myself basic meals, general house maintanence (cooking,cleaning etc) and anything else i can try and learn to do with a little help from my good old friend the internet
 

tkioz

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mrpenguinismyhomeboy said:
well maybe sharpening a knife isn't a basic life skill. I mean, I'm sure if it was basic then we wouldn't be able to live without it, but that guy clearly does.

I really hate when people go on about shit like this. The older generation acts as though they've always had the right idea and can't grasp the fact that:

1. Not everybody grew up like them
2. That not everyone has to act like they do
3. Not everybody has the same values as they do.

And they get SO SHOCKED whenever anyone doesn't know how to do things that they think everyone should know how to do BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO GOT IT RIGHT LOOK AT ALL THESE STUPID KIDS BEING SO DUMB. WHEN I WAS A KID I DID THINGS LIKE THIS BUT THEY DON'T THIS IS SO OFFENSIVE TO ME AND THEY MUST ALL BE STUPID.

Honestly, know one gives a fuck. Jesus christ.

why am I so angry? I'm usually not.
The rage is strong in this one. As for being in the older generation... I turn 30 next month... I don't consider myself that old. Nor do I look "down" on people who don't know this stuff, it's shocking to me because this stuff is so bloody easy, it's not rocket science people, it's called basic for a reason, it takes very little time to learn how to do this stuff, yet so few people are taught or know how to do it.

When I moved out of home I was 19, I did okay, did my own washing, fixed things around the house, did my own cooking, all by myself, yet when I visited friends of the same they were scraping by one week out of every two because they didn't know how to cook for themselves, so they'd eat well the first week after getting paid on fastfood, frozen food (which is deceptively expensive, it doesn't look it but it is), etc. the next week they'd make do with stale bread and baked bean, they'd have ratty clothes with holes in them, etc.

I finally got so fed up with it one week I asked a mate how much money he had left, he said $15, we went to the corner store and I got enough food for him to last a week after I was done cooking. Sure it was mostly rice and pasta, but damn, it's not hard to cook for one person.

This is all easy, basic stuff I learnt at the knee of my grandparents, it's not hard, that's exactly why it's so mind boggling that no-one knows this stuff!
 

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The name of this topic seems like something that could be made into a Cracked article. Well, I do know how to prep a fish for cooking, but I can't sew for crap.
 

someotherguy

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Certain things have become unnecessary to know as time wears on. And, theres a guide for everything now.
 

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RAKtheUndead said:
aseelt said:
How about handwriting?

There was an article on Gizmodo (I think) that stated some young Chinese people forgot how to write certain characters.
In a language with several hundred characters used for common words, and thousands in total, I'm not surprised. The Japanese have similar problems with kanji.

TestECull said:
Oh trust me it will be. Top Gear has been able to get a hold of an automatic Liana, Lacetti and Cee'd for the odd star that just can't drive a stick. That alone says they're coming, so get ready. 20 years from now even you'll be seeing a sea of PRNDLs in new car lots.....
Those cars aren't made for new drivers, who in a lot of cases - particularly young males, who are often gung-ho about their driving - want a manual rather than an automatic, if only because you can't drive manual cars on an automatic licence. Those automatics are made for old biddies who have forgotten how to drive properly.

Dags90 said:
I don't even know how to pump my own gas. Is that a "basic skill" that I'm terrible for not knowing?
Yes. Yes, it is. It's a very simple mechanism, with a trigger on the pump handle which accepts different level of pressure for different flow rates. It's not difficult to figure out.

Anyway, there are a lot of people on this thread with far superior survival skills to me, and I feel somewhat ashamed. A lot of the skills that I've specialised in are really rather pathetic in comparison - computer skills, primarily. I'd much rather that society valued mechanical skills over the ability to use a computer, because they seem like skills you could have pride in, rather than shame. Of course, nobody is ever going to call upon my ability to use extremely obscure computer operating systems either.
You've just gotten trolled terribly.
 

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RAKtheUndead said:
FieryTrainwreck said:
The phenomena illustrated by the OP is one of several "awesome" byproducts of the baby boomers, which the world is very slowly starting to recognize as one of the worst generations in the history of everything.
Generation Y are worse. I mean, the baby boomers were bad, but Generation Y are just morons. We're going to fuck up the world big time. One of my mottos is "Don't trust anybody under 30." That's for a good reason.
My point is that the baby boomers fucked up their kids.

The "Greatest Generation" were a bunch of scrappers and badasses. They survived legitimate hardship, and they busted ass to make the world a better place for their children.

The boomers took that better world for granted. They became spoiled and entitled, spent well beyond their collective means, failed to back any of it up with honest labor, and are currently foisting the whole mess on Gen Y.

Don't trust anyone under 30? Fuck everyone under 64.
 

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RAKtheUndead said:
FieryTrainwreck said:
The phenomena illustrated by the OP is one of several "awesome" byproducts of the baby boomers, which the world is very slowly starting to recognize as one of the worst generations in the history of everything.
Generation Y are worse. I mean, the baby boomers were bad, but Generation Y are just morons. We're going to fuck up the world big time. One of my mottos is "Don't trust anybody under 30." That's for a good reason.
It's funny how every previous generation has though exactly the same thing about the one following it.

Though I can't talk, I hate gen Y as well. And I'm 20.

TestECull said:
Pull in, roll window down, when attendant walks up say something like "Fill 'er up, 87 octane please" and shut engine off. When it's full, hand money to attendant, get change/card back, thank them and out ya go.


Simple enough and I've never even seen a full service gas station, let alone used one.
87 Octane! That'd just about kill my engine!

I put 91 octane in it once and it ran like a lawnmower.

I'm not in favor of automatics myself, I think they are horrid. Besides, most of my friends who bought auto cars when they got their licenses don't seem to be as aware as drivers and have crashed their cars. Either that or they've blown their autos up because they don't realize they need to be serviced.
 

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TestECull said:
Dags90 said:
I've seen a few people who don't know how to properly order gasoline because they're so used to self service.
Pull in, roll window down, when attendant walks up say something like "Fill 'er up, 87 octane please" and shut engine off. When it's full, hand money to attendant, get change/card back, thank them and out ya go.


Simple enough and I've never even seen a full service gas station, let alone used one.
Sad thing is where I live now there aren't any full service stations around, where I use to live had a few, I never had any trouble using them, nor because I'm lazy, I hate it because the smell of petrol, even a little bit gives me a headache, the same with a lot of "chemical" smells, I once had a room mate who used body spray all the bloody time and I was constantly getting headaches thanks too it, I can't stand the smell of most perfumes or aftershaves either... it's odd.
 

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The way I see it, the fact that so many people are so ignorant of so many of these 'basic' skills shows how superfluous a lot of them have become.

For instance, I'm not sure how valuable knife-sharpening is these days. I've had my set of kitchen knives for eight years or so and have never felt the need to sharpen them. The day I do, I'll have got enough use out of them to justify (to myself at least) buying a new set.

Cooking? Personally I'm a pretty good cook. In my experience, most people from my kind of background (lower middle-class) can make at least a couple of things they like to eat, and if you can do that, then it's no great difficulty to follow a recipe to make something else once in a while.

For the OP, can you split logs? Do you know when they're seasoned enough to burn? Can you get a fire going from scratch? Hunt, kill, skin game? If you can, great. But I wouldn't get high-and-mighty about it - these are skills that, barring apocalypse, are optional in the century we live in.
 

tkioz

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gh0ti said:
For the OP, can you split logs? Do you know when they're seasoned enough to burn? Can you get a fire going from scratch? Hunt, kill, skin game? If you can, great. But I wouldn't get high-and-mighty about it - these are skills that, barring apocalypse, are optional in the century we live in.
From the start to finish.
Yes I can split a log.
Yes I know what wood will burn and what wont.
Yes I can start a fire without man made tools (i.e lighter/etc), though it's a massive pain to do so)
Yes I can hunt, with firearms, I learned how to make a rudimentary bow as well when I was a teenager and on a bowhunting kick, I can also make basic snares and traps with supplies found in the bush.
I can kill animals effectively without much pain on their part with my hands (snapping the neck of a rabbit for example)
I can butcher and skin (pluck where applicable) a great many animals, to date I've done rabbit, fox, kangaroo, emu, wild pig, sheep, cow, alpaca (don't ask), chickens, ducks, and likely a few others I can't think of.

I don't consider any of the above skills to be anything other then a product of how I grew up and my interests at various times of my life, with the exception of splitting a log none of the above is what I'd consider "basic", they are things that are useful to know if you live outside a major city as I do, but they aren't things everyone who runs a house should know!

As I've said before knife sharpness is a safety issue, a blunt knife is more dangerous to you then a sharp one.
 

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TestECull said:
Funkysandwich said:
87 Octane! That'd just about kill my engine!

I put 91 octane in it once and it ran like a lawnmower.
You must have a pretty nice sports car if you need to put 93 in it to get it to run right. Hell where I live 91 is the highest grade you can get. 87 - 89 - 91, if it can't run on those three you're pretty much SOL.
The minimum octane rating sold in the United Kingdom and Ireland is 95 RON - sold in just about every service station in the country. Our octane rating is different to yours - you use AKI instead of RON, but our 95 RON is your 91 AKI. He still probably wouldn't be able to run his engine on 87 AKI fuel. I know that European and Japanese cars disagree with it, at the least. More modern Australian machines probably do as well.[/quote]

I have a '79 Datsun 200B, as displayed in my profile pic. It's no sports car, but I have modified the engine so that it has a higher compression ratio. That basically means there is less place for the fuel to combust in, meaning that a lower octane fuel will damage the engine. I always use 98 RON petrol as that gets the most power and the best mileage.

And yes, I did the work myself. Does that count as a basic life skill?
 

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TehCookie said:
dariuskyne said:
to correct people who keep saying that farming isn't hard...

-snip-.
I'm not sure if the person meant commercial farming, they could mean having their own little garden in their yard. Growing a few cucumbers, tomatoes and lettuce does not require much skill, but some people still can't do it.
I kinda figured that was the case, and why i posted the minor rant so that there was a little distinction between farming, and gardening
 

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tkioz said:
What's happened to the world? People have grown up in the current generation, a generation I'm part of, without learning basic skills, what happened? Was it tech? Was it parents simply not passing them down? Or something else?

I'm talking about the ability to fix hole in a pair of socks for the love of god or fry an egg!

For example I was invited over to dinner at a friends house a while back, long story short I showed up early and offered to help him cook, he asked me to cut up some meat, the problem was all his knives were as dull as a politician, I asked where his steel was and he had no clue what I meant, I finally got across I was after a sharpening stone, which he didn't have, nor did he have a clue how to use it... nor did any of the other guests at the dinner all mid 20s...

I mean what the heck? I learnt how to sharpen a knife when I was 10, around the same time I learn how to mend clothes, cook basic food (before moving onto more advanced stuff), etc.

Was it because I was raised by my grandparents, people from a generation who valued those skills?

How many people here lack those skills and why do you think they are vanishing?

There's a sense of shame we get from the shallower parts of pop culture for a make-do-and-mend, hobbyist mentality. I mean, that's pretty much the identifier for the 'nerd' in Hollywood films - they've repaired their clothes/glasses/shoes/car/whatever themselves, and they have a hobby which requires a certain amount of work. The idea that we are fed by everything from most chart music to most popular films to most adverts to most chick lit, subliminally, is that poor people are dirty and strange, and of course if you have to repair something you are unnecessarily serious, probably boring, and definitely poor, dirty and strange.

Punk was meant to blow those stereotypes and damaging associations away, but then punk as a movement became too tribal and middle-class actually pretty damn quickly, and we're living with the materialistic, capitalist, greedy hangover from the '80s and '90s. Worse than that, we're still drinking the same swill.

Declaration of Interest: I brew my own beer and make some of my own furniture (badly).

EDIT: In response to the "Use of resources" argument for feeling bad for using your computer - visit www.freerice.com once after every computer session and play it until you feel better. If I ever manage to get financially set for life, that site will become my life's main focus (sad, yeah, but it's an easy way to help and I know lots of words/latin roots of words).
 

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Dango said:
The skill I'm lacking is the ability to not feel guilty. I feel guilty really easily. Although this is also kind of good, as it means I rarely let people do things for me. I don't know why this is though, maybe it's because I was pretty much raised by a babysitter that was incredibly kind but also very poor.

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i feel your pain dango. dmaned empathy genes
 

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tkioz said:
My Mum died when I was 12. My Dad, while a great guy, was not one of cooking your dinner or washing your clothes. So, from about then on I have been doing it all myself.

In first year of college I lived with a guy that did not know how to use the grill.
 

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Fuckit!
This thread just reminded me I have to pick up a new whetstone after work. The ole "good" one lies under the sink of the appartment I just moved from and some of the kitchen knives are in dire need of sharpening.

OT: I blame the parents. If you don't know things liek this yerself, at least force the kids to watch Ray Mears and suchlike (not much sewing on them shows, but can't have it all).
 

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tkioz said:
What's happened to the world? People have grown up in the current generation, a generation I'm part of, without learning basic skills, what happened? Was it tech? Was it parents simply not passing them down? Or something else?

I'm talking about the ability to fix hole in a pair of socks for the love of god or fry an egg!

For example I was invited over to dinner at a friends house a while back, long story short I showed up early and offered to help him cook, he asked me to cut up some meat, the problem was all his knives were as dull as a politician, I asked where his steel was and he had no clue what I meant, I finally got across I was after a sharpening stone, which he didn't have, nor did he have a clue how to use it... nor did any of the other guests at the dinner all mid 20s...

I mean what the heck? I learnt how to sharpen a knife when I was 10, around the same time I learn how to mend clothes, cook basic food (before moving onto more advanced stuff), etc.

Was it because I was raised by my grandparents, people from a generation who valued those skills?

How many people here lack those skills and why do you think they are vanishing?
I can cook damn well, can't say we have a sharpening stone though, nor do we need any. They're disappearing because there's not much need for them though, I guess. (the skills, not rocks)
 

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Problem I find with the kitchen aspects is that my mum doesn't like people in the kitchen when she's cooking so you can't really observe what to do or help out. Still manage to teach myself a little when they're gone though.

Still for most basic skills I'd say I'm alright but room for improvement (god that sounded like a report card...)