Wouldn't they... be pretty much the same thing?TeeBs said:Chicks with dicks? or Dudes with Boobs?tellmeimaninja said:Can't sympathize with you there. I'm trisexual.
It's just part of being in the HMARS, you see.
Either way im down.
Your section about me made me laugh I must admit. To clarify yeah I do have a sex drive, and masturbation is far from occasional heh but I don't desire it from another person, at all. It's not that I find sex with someone disgusting or wrong its just that I don't feel the desire for someone else sexuallyOwyn_Merrilin said:Regardless, I think that the fact that the OP has admitted to enjoying the occasional wank shows that he's not completely free of the sex drive -- although it doesn't mean in itself that he isn't genuinely uninterested in getting it from another person.DocAscii said:That boded very poorly when I tried to date the daughter, and she didn't realize that a heterosexual single man asking a heterosexual single woman to dinner is "usually" a date. It wasn't until I tried to arrange a second date, and used the term date, that she defined the terms of our encounter. That was embarassing. It took some doing to clear the matter up with my friend, but we're all on good terms again.
I am in my early 20's right now, and believe me the hornymobile is well and truly here but I still dont feel the need to have sex with someone to make my life complete/enjoy my life anymore than I already do.Shuichi_boy said:Think you're asexual?
Wait. Might take a few years, but wait.
You won't be forever.
I was too until my early 20's. Then I got run over by the hornymobile. And onwards the hornymobile went, its driver giving me neither a glance backwards nor a jaunty wave of the hand.
At the time I wasn't quite sure what happened to me, other than that it was quickly becoming clear that the carefully constructed persona I had crafted for myself was beginning to crumble into little bits.
Some people feel pretty much sexual the instant puberty hits. For many others, it takes time. It's only in extremely, exceptionally rare cases that it persists throughout a person's lifetime.
No you're not doing it wrong at all, I know how uni can be a really tough time (i've just finished there myself) and I also know what girls can be like at uni.J03bot said:I wouldn't say I'm asexual, per se, just that I'm a hopeless romantic.
Whilst I can appreciate the attractiveness of pretty much any human being, some part of me is looking at them as a potential partner, rather than just for sex. At university, this isn't always a winning strategy...
Not that I'm ruling out sex, it seems like a good idea. It's just that it seems like a relationship-affirming thing for me, rather than a one-night stand thing.
...I've turned down sex before, for reasons along those lines. Am I doing it wrong?
Yeah, this is pretty much true. Humans want to do it.Sark said:This may seem a little callous. Humans are sexual creatures, deal with it.
You're not asexual if you find females attractive.Karim Saad said:I don't mind being asexual. I usually find women attractive until I get to know them and then I lose interest. I can't seem to be jealous of the so-so physical chemistry of couples that surround me. I wouldn't want to be in their place.
The right one would change many things, obviously.
You sir, are smart.Irridium said:I say good for you. I'm not asexual myself, but I'd rather have a relationship built on me liking the person with sex on the side rather then a relationship built on sex.
If that makes sense, I think I worded that weirdly...
I also find this over-sexualized society annoying as well. It paints an unrealistic picture for kids to shoot for, and causes much more harm than good.
No, the face and body structures are different.Treblaine said:Wouldn't they... be pretty much the same thing?TeeBs said:Chicks with dicks? or Dudes with Boobs?tellmeimaninja said:Can't sympathize with you there. I'm trisexual.
It's just part of being in the HMARS, you see.
Either way im down.
Call it celibate if you'd like. Celibacy is not desiring to have sex out of a moral objection to it, either from a religious experience or your own volition. It doesn't make you asexual or homosexual, it means you're denying your body from seeking out its naturally-occurring wants.Karim Saad said:Ah. Just celibate, then?Bruin said:You're not asexual if you find females attractive.
I guess I oscillate between the two. I can be long periods without thinking about sex. It's like it disappears. Yes, even the self-stuff.
I don't really know about homosexuality in the animal kingdom, but in humans I believe homosexuality (and bisexuality, and asexuality, and whateversexuality) is caused by a combination of biological and sociological factors. I figure that some people are more likely to act in a certain way and in certain cultures those actions are consider "X" (X being a sexuality other than hetero-), thus these people begin to relate themselves with that certain sexuality. This causes them to act even more like that sexuality thus strengthening the association in their mind. Like the OP for instance, he says that he "discovered" that he was asexual, but I believe that he became asexual. I guess he has a low sex drive or the way that he grew up made him less interested in sex, so when he didn't feel sexually aroused in a while he figured that he was asexual and when nothing contradicted this, the association built in his mind to the point that he was asexual.Requx said:I never got other sexualitys. Like I'm perfectly fine with gay people and bi-people and tranny peoples...as people. But I still never got how or what good an organism that doesnt sustain its own race is. If every dog was gay...what would happen, there would be no more dogs.
Would anybody care to explain?