Pretty much the same thing but since i myself am Bi only a few of my friends know of it because they were okay with it but i still prefer not letting some of my others know simply because they hate gays and i can't understand why.CoverYourHead said:
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An "Exclusively Heterosexual" individual is just as rare as an "exclusively homosexual" one.
Go Kinsey Scale.
A lot of people touting to be "strict straights" are actually 1s or 2s.
Being Bisexual (3) is just as valid as any other stance on sexual behaviour between X and Y genders (see wut I did thar?), as long as we're talking consensual adults I have nothing against it.
PS: I wouldn't consider being in non-monogamous relationships or having "sex-for-it's-own-sake" to be "greedy", if an adult does it with other consenting adults it's their own business, regardless of sexual orientation, and should most definitely perform and take pleasure in it. It's sad that typically those with little motivation and considerably envy tend to consider such acts as "greed".
Go Kinsey Scale.
A lot of people touting to be "strict straights" are actually 1s or 2s.
Being Bisexual (3) is just as valid as any other stance on sexual behaviour between X and Y genders (see wut I did thar?), as long as we're talking consensual adults I have nothing against it.
PS: I wouldn't consider being in non-monogamous relationships or having "sex-for-it's-own-sake" to be "greedy", if an adult does it with other consenting adults it's their own business, regardless of sexual orientation, and should most definitely perform and take pleasure in it. It's sad that typically those with little motivation and considerably envy tend to consider such acts as "greed".
I think the issue comes from the notion that bi's are insatiable, that we cant be monogamous or faithful because its like a sexual overload or something. Honestly, all types of sexuality can have that problem. Anyone can be greedy. Sleeping with many men, many women, often at the same time. Just because Bi's can be attracted to both men and women doesn't mean its a 24 hour love fest.
Bisexuals aren't greedy. They like people from both camps, what's wrong with that?
I believe homosexuals or lesbians are the more greedy ones. Most of the lesbian relationships (no gay relationships) I know of are pretty...strange, if anything. One of them has both parties completely obsessed over each other and arguments have gone off about jealousy, but they love each other at least. Another I know of is COMPLETELY fucked up. One of them claims they're suicidal, depressed and bipolar (the first is possibly true). A lot of them are really attention seeking. It's, like, 'Look at me, I'm in a same sex relationship!'
Not trying to sound like I'm homophobic. Some of my best friends are bisexual. It's just that whoever says that bisexuals are greedy are wrong.
I believe homosexuals or lesbians are the more greedy ones. Most of the lesbian relationships (no gay relationships) I know of are pretty...strange, if anything. One of them has both parties completely obsessed over each other and arguments have gone off about jealousy, but they love each other at least. Another I know of is COMPLETELY fucked up. One of them claims they're suicidal, depressed and bipolar (the first is possibly true). A lot of them are really attention seeking. It's, like, 'Look at me, I'm in a same sex relationship!'
Not trying to sound like I'm homophobic. Some of my best friends are bisexual. It's just that whoever says that bisexuals are greedy are wrong.
In my experience, both personally and from other bisexuals, the sex thing isn't as you describe it. Rather, bisexuals feel the ability to connect on the kind of personal, intimate level that heterosexuals and homosexuals find with their partners, just with both sexes. Really, it isn't just "Man, I'm so horny... I'd sleep with a guy OR a girl right now." It's just the ability to be emotionally and physically attracted to people of both genders.treeboy027 said:
That's my two cents anyway.
Yup, it's part of the spectrum. I don't have a problem with it.
Of course, not having a place on the spectrum is kind of off putting, but that's how it is.
Of course, not having a place on the spectrum is kind of off putting, but that's how it is.
Many of my girl friends are bisexual, including my girlfriend, all to varying degrees, so I am a subscriber to the 'spectrum belief'.
My girlfriend is bisexual, and I mean actually, not in an attention-seeking way. I have no fear that she'll cheat on me, because oddly enough, bisexuals are every bit as capable of monogamy as people of any other sexuality. It's up to the individual.
I totally do not think anything about it, neither do i care. Let'em love whoever, whatever and how many they want.
I really don't understand what everyone is talking about. "Greed"? It's not like anyone that's not heterosexual cheats on who they are with. It's just who you're attracted to, it doesn't really pertain to the rest of your personality.
I'm pan-sexual btw
I'm pan-sexual btw
Do you like, say blonds and red-heads? If so, do you feel the need to cheat on a blond partner with a red-head, just because of the hair color?Doctor Glocktor said:
It's kind of like that. Being attracted to both doesn't mean that you can't be monogamous.
