Are you talking about the Kinsey scale? What does that have to do with the percentage of people belonging to each group?Talal Provides said:
Bi-sexuality.
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ok...Talal Provides said:
1-when i look at a man my feelings are neutral. I dont feel attracted to him.But i dont feel repulsed. Why should i? Is that required to be considered "100% heterossexual" by your standards?
2-How could you possibly know that "i want to show how manly and not a fag" i am? Do you know me? Can you quote me on that? Please do not make such assumptions.
3-Think before using the word "fag".You could use the word "gay" or "homossexual".Some people may be offended.
Do YOU understand?
to the above: it isnt that they do not understand your point, plenty of us understand and dont AGREE.Talal Provides said:
to the below: thanks. I didnt know it was something to be congratulated on.
I'm all for social equality of sexual orientations and everything, but somehow I'm not surprised that some smartass shitheads eventually would start to discriminate against the fucking heterosexuals. I'm not surprised, but still, I'm baffled. This is exactly why still so many people disregard other sexual orientations because there's always those overzealous idiots that fuck things up. Those people are as useful for the different sexual orientations acceptance as PETA is useful for the credibility of vegetarian people.
Image macros are basically ban-bait on the forums, bro. I'd edit that post.Darth Brownie said:[http://img266.imageshack.us/i/memesyoubisexualiamdisa.jpg/]
Well, for a while I was pretty sure I was bi, re-thinking about it for a few months I've gone into a very hazy area of attraction sexually, emotionally and/or socially to either gender, I just say that I'm gay to make it alot simpler. And in effect I am, just not in the same way as first impression shows... whatever, it's hard to put into words xD
But yeah, anyone who stereotypes or discriminates people based on sexuality is ignorant and deserves to be shown the truth.
Meh, I'm probably a Kinsey 9 or 8.
I hate to break it to all you supposedly 100% 'straight' guys, but maybe you see yourselves as a Kinsey 0, but I'll bet 99% of the guys I see with wedding bands on their fingers getting BJs in the video booths at the adult bookstores would say the same thing.
Just sayin, tons and tons and TONS of '100% straight' guys are out there getting the occasional beej or ass from other guys.
Now as to the OT - To call them Greedy is laughable, it's not like they are collecting harems or anything... and if they were? KUDOS to them! My only worry about bisexual people is that eventually they wind up hurting SOMEONE, and almost ALWAYS unintentionally. Having been burned by a guy heading on Kinsey 4 or so (in my estimation) he eventually married and we lost touch, and it broke my heart, but I can't blame HIM for that. *shrug*
I hate to break it to all you supposedly 100% 'straight' guys, but maybe you see yourselves as a Kinsey 0, but I'll bet 99% of the guys I see with wedding bands on their fingers getting BJs in the video booths at the adult bookstores would say the same thing.
Just sayin, tons and tons and TONS of '100% straight' guys are out there getting the occasional beej or ass from other guys.
Now as to the OT - To call them Greedy is laughable, it's not like they are collecting harems or anything... and if they were? KUDOS to them! My only worry about bisexual people is that eventually they wind up hurting SOMEONE, and almost ALWAYS unintentionally. Having been burned by a guy heading on Kinsey 4 or so (in my estimation) he eventually married and we lost touch, and it broke my heart, but I can't blame HIM for that. *shrug*
Its just the thought process, I guess.ravensheart18 said:
I mean, if you go out with a straight girl, there's the chance she'll cheat on you with another guy.
With a Bi girl, that chance of her cheating on you is literally doubled.
I dunno. I guess I'm just paranoid.
Um... you DO know that leaves a WHOLE lot of other sexual options in there, right? I know plenty of 'heteroflexible' guys who don't kiss... And even a few guys who'll HAPPILY kiss another guy, but it wouldn't go any further than that (which confuses the everliving fuck out of me)Spacelord said:
No, sorry. I know that the LGBT community likes to think this, but I'm no rarity, and I can assure that I'm a 100% straight male.Talal Provides said:
Please don't read this as I have anything against it at all; I'm no homophobe. I fully support all sexual preferences.
Don't talk out of your ass. I can't conceive the act of making out with a dude, let alone having sex with one, without instantly feeling that if I were in such a situation I'd feel like I was being raped. Most of my friends say and feel exactly the same. So don't make stupid assumptions about people and not expect they won't be mad, because when the situation is reversed more often than not gay/bisexual people flip out, and rightly so. So don't be a ****.wolfchylde said:Meh, I'm probably a Kinsey 9 or 8.
I hate to break it to all you supposedly 100% 'straight' guys, but maybe you see yourselves as a Kinsey 0, but I'll bet 99% of the guys I see with wedding bands on their fingers getting BJs in the video booths at the adult bookstores would say the same thing.
Just sayin, tons and tons and TONS of '100% straight' guys are out there getting the occasional beej or ass from other guys.
Now as to the OT - To call them Greedy is laughable, it's not like they are collecting harems or anything... and if they were? KUDOS to them! My only worry about bisexual people is that eventually they wind up hurting SOMEONE, and almost ALWAYS unintentionally. Having been burned by a guy heading on Kinsey 4 or so (in my estimation) he eventually married and we lost touch, and it broke my heart, but I can't blame HIM for that. *shrug*
I'm bisexual. Last thing anyone would have expected for me to come out and say. I like dudes and I like girls and I enjoy being able to flirt with both and freak out my friends by hitting on them as well.
That chart is so wrong, I don't even know where to start... Outside of that, I agree with everything else you say.Arawn.Chernobog said:An "Exclusively Heterosexual" individual is just as rare as an "exclusively homosexual" one.
Go Kinsey Scale.
A lot of people touting to be "strict straights" are actually 1s or 2s.
Being Bisexual (3) is just as valid as any other stance on sexual behaviour between X and Y genders (see wut I did thar?), as long as we're talking consensual adults I have nothing against it.
PS: I wouldn't consider being in non-monogamous relationships or having "sex-for-it's-own-sake" to be "greedy", if an adult does it with other consenting adults it's their own business, regardless of sexual orientation, and should most definitely perform and take pleasure in it. It's sad that typically those with little motivation and considerably envy tend to consider such acts as "greed".
Does amphoteric mean what I think it means? Because if it does your post is hilarious.Amphoteric said:
EDIT: I looked it up and it does mean what I think it means. Thank you year 12 chemistry for making sex-threads funny.
OT: I have my own theory about sexuality. I think that everyone can be attracted to everyone else on both physical and psychological levels, but these attractions or repulsions do not equate to sexual attraction or not. Rather, if you are attracted to somebody enough (whether physically, psychologically or a combination of both) then you will develop sexual feelings towards that person, where the amount of initial attraction needed is based upon what I call teh 'sex threshold'. Now obviously there are other factors like whether someone has been raised (not necessarily in an explicit manner) to find only women sexually attractive (meaning that, while they'd still find men sexually attractive, they'd have developed a mentla block so that they don't experience that attraction on a consciously recognisable level).
Obviously this is just a theory, and the only evidence I have is that the more attractive members of a group tend to be more popular by virtue of their looks (I went to an all boys school, so it was boys finding other boys more popular), which I basically took to mean that men, whether they are straight or not, can recognise and be attracted by physically endearing traits in others, regardless of sex.
But yeah, just a theory, don't go asking "Where's your proof!?" because I don't have anything concrete, just my own deductions from my own experience with social groups.
That raises the question of how that'd work in practice, you know? In my admittedly rather limited experience there's a certain gradation of intimacy as time progresses, you know first you kiss, then you go further from there. You can't go up to a guy in a bar and go like "hey wanna go out back and blow eachother?"...wolfchylde said:
Wait, no, actually I think you totally could.
Thing is all the men I do find attractive are way, way out of my league. Case in point:
This is some BULLSHIT
And since my standards for the ladies are a lot more realistic I'm afraid I'm going to have to stick with girls. I think I'll live though!
From a social acceptability standpoint: I don't understand the smugness that often gets directed at bisexuality. If someone tells me they are bisexual, then my immediate thought isn't "oh right yeah, because it's trendy, how hip of you *smug* *smug* *smug*." Perhaps I'm not hanging out in the right crowd or something, but if somebody tells me they're attracted to both men and women I assume it's because they're attracted to both men and women, and move on. Also, whenever anybody accuses bisexuals of being "less likely to form working relationships" because they're obviously going to be attracted to everybody, I wonder if that person has moved out of the 1950's in all of their other opinions. I believe I qualify as a 2 on the Kinsey Scale, but that doesn't mean that when I'm in a relationship I'm eyeing up all of the other men and some of the women I encounter. :/
From a biological standpoint: I don't know if I agree with the "everybody is a little bit bisexual" argument. I certainly don't disagree with it, but I do think there are people who are 100% heterosexual, male or female, just as there are people who are 100% asexual. I also don't think that anybody who states they are 100% heterosexual ought to be judged, either. It's no better or worse than coming down on somebody for saying they're homosexual or bisexual.
From a biological standpoint: I don't know if I agree with the "everybody is a little bit bisexual" argument. I certainly don't disagree with it, but I do think there are people who are 100% heterosexual, male or female, just as there are people who are 100% asexual. I also don't think that anybody who states they are 100% heterosexual ought to be judged, either. It's no better or worse than coming down on somebody for saying they're homosexual or bisexual.
I think the only factor "blocking" someone is how open minded they are.
Potentially, everyone is compatible, but a person's opinion will stop them. It's possible to change your opinion and become more or less open minded about the idea.
There's also some research that suggests a person's chemical buildup can affect what sexuality you start with, but I don't think this stops you from opening to other possibilities.
Potentially, everyone is compatible, but a person's opinion will stop them. It's possible to change your opinion and become more or less open minded about the idea.
There's also some research that suggests a person's chemical buildup can affect what sexuality you start with, but I don't think this stops you from opening to other possibilities.
I'm not talking out my ass at all kiddo, I'm talking from REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE. Perhaps if you peeked outside that comfy hilarious worldview you'd see things aren't nearly as cut and dry as you make them out to be.GrungyMunchy said:Don't talk out of your ass. I can't conceive the act of making out with a dude, let alone having sex with one, without instantly feeling that if I were in such a situation I'd feel like I was being raped. Most of my friends say and feel exactly the same. So don't make stupid assumptions about people and not expect they won't be mad, because when the situation is reversed more often than not gay/bisexual people flip out, and rightly so. So don't be a ****.wolfchylde said:Meh, I'm probably a Kinsey 9 or 8.
I hate to break it to all you supposedly 100% 'straight' guys, but maybe you see yourselves as a Kinsey 0, but I'll bet 99% of the guys I see with wedding bands on their fingers getting BJs in the video booths at the adult bookstores would say the same thing.
Just sayin, tons and tons and TONS of '100% straight' guys are out there getting the occasional beej or ass from other guys.
Now as to the OT - To call them Greedy is laughable, it's not like they are collecting harems or anything... and if they were? KUDOS to them! My only worry about bisexual people is that eventually they wind up hurting SOMEONE, and almost ALWAYS unintentionally. Having been burned by a guy heading on Kinsey 4 or so (in my estimation) he eventually married and we lost touch, and it broke my heart, but I can't blame HIM for that. *shrug*
Methinks you protest a WEE too much, perhaps you're defensive because you don't want to face any reality where you might be wrong? You hide in your own self-delusion and you talk as if you know EVERYTHING about yourself, or your friends (yeah cuz that's a subject that comes up all the time, right? Don't make me laugh), and you think you know everything that goes on around you.
Eventually you'll realize that even assuming you are '100% straight', my statement still stands. People say 'oh percentages!' when the vast majority of people who're anywhere from Kinsey 1-3 will VEHEMENTLY claim they are Kinsey 0's
Don't be **** bro, try some reading comprehension, it works wonders.