can i be called a pervert??

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Xyliss

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Nothing wrong with it provided you don't do anything to them (which from the sounds of it you didn't) Buuuut you can see where she's coming from, and to be honest with you most people would have the same reaction...so if I were you I'd try and stop doing it to avoid the torches and pitchforks
 

aseelt

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It's a little bit weird. But then I suppose the rules are different for girls.

Still, I wouldn't let a stranger (girl or boy) sleep in the same bed as my kids.
 

MentalMyles

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its a bit of a trick question. its innocent but its a bit of a pickle to try to explain to other people. as long as the parents knew this as well as your own then I don't think there's any harm done. Personally, its just a matter of trust at the end of the day.
 

GrinningManiac

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Nope, but if I were you I'd do everything to stop them doing that. I'd find it uncomfortable (both socially and Physically)
 

SPARTANXIII

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Can you be called a pervert/paedophile:

Have you touched them inappropriately: NO
Have you THOUGHT about touching them inappropriately: NO
Do you seem like an individ....you get the idea.

Provided you don't do anything to them, how you be considered a pervert.

Go and say to her that you'd do nothing of the sort, that you are an upstanding individual and that it's the children's idea. If she doesn't come to understand, just turn the other cheek.
 

Timmons

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Of course not,, they're the ones "battering" you... if it were the other way round it would be a tad wrong
 

HijiriOni

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Don't forget the fact that little kids will crawl into your bed with or without your permission and you if actually want to sleep, you'll let them.
 
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I see no problem with it...
...unless you're a 40 year old man dressed in a suit to be disguised as a 19 year old, because being around little children in intimacy makes you feel young...
I seem to have gone off topic a bit, so yeah, you're not a pervert.
 

kikon9

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No, not really. As for that person who says it's bad, she needs to remember that most people aren't pedophiles.
 

Canid117

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No I'm pretty sure you are fine as long as you didn't do anything though I would have slept on the floor.
 

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DemonicVixen said:
Having just been on the thread about sexuality, im curious as to if your worried about sharing a bed with someone of the same sex... What about sharing the bed with a young child or even 2 whom you are babysitting.

Im 19, but last year i used to babysit my neighbour's 2 kids a lot. The oldest was 11 and the youngest was 7yrs old. Both used to like sleeping beside me in my room, and my mum would be in her room. Obviously i never laid a hand on them nor had any intention seeing as i treat and love them like brother and sister to me, not only that but to be honest, i hated sleeping beside them because id often end up battered and thrown off the bed before morning, but the kids insisted on me sleeping beside them.
However one of the girl's friends lives in the same street and her mum thinks its inappropriate and you can tell from her attitude that she seems to think im some sort of pervert.

Can you honestly call someone a pervert for this??
Certainly not, but you know how things grow out of control. What was once a well-intentioned fear is borderline panic. You sleeping beside a kid is almost the same level of sin as molesting them because it's "unwholesome."
 

Gudrests

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No your not a pervert....it might look a little bit better if you had a GF who showed her face...ya know like LOOK HE TOUCHED ME NOT THEM kinda thing...i mean as long as someone dosent walk in and your in an...awjkuard possition...and keep away from the twister for a while...
 

Spacelord

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You're not a pervert, but acquiescing to the request of especially the 11 year old is not age appropriate. Kids are gonna have to grow up eventually. I mean, of course it's fine to sleep in the same bed as a kid if they really wanted you to - it's probably quite comforting to them. But sooner or later, like drinking from a bottle or sleeping with a nightlight, it starts to look really weird. You should probably quit, for their sakes and yours.
 

Double A

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No, you're not a pervert for that. Or a pedo. I sometimes slept in the same bed as my mom and dad when I got scared as a kid, that wasn't weird.
 

Nouw

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No. I'm forced to sleep with my 8 year-old brother in the same bed and I've gotten used to it. It's greater a bigger bond.

Sounds like someone jumping to conclusions. Can't blame her though...

Double A said:
No, you're not a pervert for that. Or a pedo. I sometimes slept in the same bed as my mom and dad when I got scared as a kid, that wasn't weird.
Who didn't to be honest?