Xangba said:
That line right there I have issues with. That is literally like saying "I like everything about you except your face." And that most certainly is a ***** thing.
Why? Looks matter, at least for a significant portion of people.
You can condone that. A lot of people will condone hanging out on a game forum. There are very few things that aren't seen as a negative by someone.
Xangba said:
Anyway, it's never been about being felt owed anything (well some people think that way, but you have idiots with everything) it's about how a woman can complain about never finding a guy that supports her, or "treats her right" ect, ect, when the guy who has been friend-zoned has done nothing but that. You're putting the blame entirely on the guy who, most of the time, just does nothing except be a nice guy to the woman and develops romantic feelings.
Which is exactly the problem.
You want someone to hate you? Be mean to them.
You want someone to be friends with you? Be nice to them.
You want someone to love you? Be romantic to them.
You got exactly what you've asked for. You should've asked in a different way.
Also, if I say I'm looking for a purple car, and you have a broken purple car that doesn't work anymore in your backyard, that doesn't qualify. Or maybe you have one with 2 seats and I need one with 4 seats. A girl can say she's looking for a guy that threats her right. But that's not the only thing. She isn't just looking for
a guy. She's looking for the kinda guy she likes, but one that also threats her right.
A girl doesn't dream of "marrying a decent guy". She wants a guy she loves who is a decent guy. If 'being a decent guy' is your most outstanding feature, you need to work on yourself.
Xangba said:
So TL;DR version is that the guy generally doesn't ***** and call the woman a ***** for the friend-zone, what you hear more often is wondering why a woman will complain about never finding a decent guy when they apparently have one sitting in the friend zone.
You must be new here on the internet.
There are a LOT of "nice guy" rants floating around. Really, it isn't funny. It's just... sad.