I'm completely fine with referring to people as the gender they want to represent themselves as. But to me, if you have a Y chromosome, regardless of how many X's are involved in the rest of it, you are a male (thereby taking care of X0/XXX/XXY). I'm a scientist, I go by the definitions of biology and not your mental psychology. You may be a male who is really/mentally a female, but your body was created as a males (and vice versa). You've altered the natural state of your body biology to change genders (through drugs, surgery, etc). Perhaps one of these days they will change the standards of what makes a 'male' or 'female' on the biological level (such as xy-fems and xx-males), but until then (to me) a Y chromosome makes a male.
I'm certainly not going to bring it up or make an issue of it, and it never leaves my head unless someone directly asks me. I will think of the person in the terms that they desire. But I know deep down inside, that that person is really of the opposite. And amazingly enough, I'm capable of knowing something and having it not affect my decisions or actions in any manner.
I don't know if I agree with the "You are what you choose to be. You are what you are. Someone calls themselves a female it doesnt matter about the biology, they are who they are in their head. The mind is what matters." argument. Just because I'm a superhero in my mind doesn't mean I can do anything special in the real world. And just because I'm a nice guy in my mind doesn't mean I'm not a homocidal sociopath in the real world. You're not just who you are in your head- you're what you are in the real world. And thus, to me, it comes to an argument of chromosomes versus genitalia.
Regardless. I'll call you what you want to be called, and treat you as that gender, despite how I personally feel on the matter. And that's all that matters. Giving you the respect and simple human dignity you deserve. I don't have to agree with what you say.
I'm certainly not going to bring it up or make an issue of it, and it never leaves my head unless someone directly asks me. I will think of the person in the terms that they desire. But I know deep down inside, that that person is really of the opposite. And amazingly enough, I'm capable of knowing something and having it not affect my decisions or actions in any manner.
I don't know if I agree with the "You are what you choose to be. You are what you are. Someone calls themselves a female it doesnt matter about the biology, they are who they are in their head. The mind is what matters." argument. Just because I'm a superhero in my mind doesn't mean I can do anything special in the real world. And just because I'm a nice guy in my mind doesn't mean I'm not a homocidal sociopath in the real world. You're not just who you are in your head- you're what you are in the real world. And thus, to me, it comes to an argument of chromosomes versus genitalia.
Regardless. I'll call you what you want to be called, and treat you as that gender, despite how I personally feel on the matter. And that's all that matters. Giving you the respect and simple human dignity you deserve. I don't have to agree with what you say.