Bingo, so it's only harassment if the harasser isn't attractive. That phenomenon has been known with females for some time now, the "awesome he's totally checking me out" and "omg what a creep" reactions are amusing at best. That sorta complicates things doesn't it?8bitOwl said:Nope.
The reason you're imagining you would "appreciate that" is because you are imagining a pretty lady harassing you.
Please imagine this lady sexually harassing you:
http://img4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20140501150431/walkingdead/images/3/3d/Wat.jpeg
If that lady hit on me I would probably laugh because of the sheer randomness of such a situation, but don't you think for one second it would turn me a way from the competition or the drive to win. That's what I'm there for. But apparently the same thought process doesn't work with females, if a few words is all it takes to drive her out of the competition then people will do it (1 less person to compete against).
Which brings us back to gaming tournaments - it's the females who need to be kindly accepted and welcomed, it's the females who need the red carpet rolled out for them, it's the females people need to be polite around.
Competition is called competition because it's first and foremost COMPETITIVE and then everything else follows. If females continue to stay away from them (for whatever reason) the notion will remain that they are simply not capable of competition.
There was a rather silly thing in EVO where they had a female-only competition for Street Fighther to encourage more women to come to tournaments. Females were still allowed to join the full-blown all-gender competition (i.e. against males), but males weren't allowed in the female-only bracket.
All that did was drive the notion that even the winners of the female competition weren't "really champions" because they would get destroyed in the all-gender bracket by males. People weren't saying that out loud, but they were certainly thinking it.
Don't tell me about "real women", show me women actually making an effort to put in countless hours training and rising to the top (or at least coming close?). Lets see lots of them everywhere doing it repeatedly. Then I'll believe you.