I'm going to give you the same words of wisdom that was given me when I was in your situation, not too long ago.runningtable said:
"Bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks"
In all seriousness, I know what you are going through. I've been in love with a girl for around 3-4 years now, broke up with my old girlfriend to be with her about a year ago. Thought things would be cool, but a few months later she told me she really wasn't interested in me anymore, despite leading me on for over 2 years. She's been giving me the progressively colder shoulder every day.
At first, I was crushed, much like you are probably feeling right now. I tried to deny it, fight it. It was quite a sad scene, truthfully, I basically just let her walk all over me trying to get her back. When that didn't work, I tried being understanding. "Letting her have her space" and "understand what she was going through". That just made me more miserable; I felt like it was my fault all this had happened.
So you know what I did? I got angry. I realized, "You know what? Screw her!" I gave her attention, my love, everything I could give and she tossed it like it was yesterdays fish. Maybe making myself the victim isn't the right thing to do, but I'll be damned if I spoil my limited time on this Earth because of her.
So give it a try! Think about her, and just remember everything you didn't like about her. Might take a few minutes, but think hard. You'll be surprised how many things you can come up with. A little while of that, and suddenly she isn't nearly as great as you thought she was. It helps you move on.
