JoshTheREfan said:
Do you want to hear something cringewothy that happened to me? Here is the sequence of events in order.
1. Me and a cute girl are chatting it up and walking to our respective homes after school
2. Said cute girl says something along the lines of "Hey it's REALLY hot out here! Can I chill in your house for a bit? Maybe get something to drink? ; )" in a flirtatious manner
3. I say "Sure of course!" bring her to my house (which is parent-free for at least another hour and a half), give her a cup of cold water, and then send her on her merry way. All the while I have an oblivious smile on my face while she looks dazed and disappointed.
4. I don't realize what has happened until it's too late.
You wanna know the worst part? This happened multiple times. The same way. With 3 different girls. By the time I'd figured out what had happened the girl had either moved away or transferred schools.
The first moral of this story is that fellas shouldn't be borderline retarded when a girl is coming onto them. The second is that it would be awesome if ladies would outright say "Hey! let's do the horizontal tango!"
Oh God, I know how that is. The one girl that I really liked in high school, who happened to be my best friend's sister, would use any chance I would hang out with my friend in order to hang out with me. One time this involved hanging at my house, parentless, for over 2 hours. She would always sit practically on my arm, would make comments about the things we were doing adding a slight sexual tone to it, and even kept her hand on my thigh slowly moving it. I realized what she was doing almost immediately, but being an awkward, virginal, "nice guy", I would ignore it out of me being chivalrous and not knowing what to do (especially the latter). By the time I figured it out, the parents were home and she had knocked the very obvious flirting off. This ended up being our relationship throughout the whole freshman year. No, nothing ever happened, but knowing how she ended up being, I'm kinda glad, you know, the whole "don't stick your dick in crazy" thing (although we are good friends now, her time in high-school was... interesting).
I have a lot of these crazy stupid things that I've done, and I frequently will hurt myself over them. The sheer amount of them in my short life is mind boggling. However, the worst one I can think of is the time I pretended to be my own girlfriend on the internet.
As a project for a paper in school, I went to my favorite forums at the time (on GameFAQs, for those interested) and signed up for a new account, and created an account and announced myself as a new member of these forums, as a female user, in order to see exactly what this was like. I was too immature at the time for this undertaking. Not only did I do the intro WAY too horribly, but then when I got angry at the reception I received (go on, guess) I hopped on with my main account to defend myself. What did I do or say? Instead of being the "nice guy" and defending or even saying anything like "yo, she's my sister, cut some slack", I had to claim I knew she was a girl because she was my girlfriend. While this worked and we lived with this arrangement for a while, when the event in the above paragraph happened and I thought I was getting a real girlfriend, I announced the truth. Permanent exile for me is an understatement. I don't go back to that board any more.