Say I go to a bar, or a club, actively looking for someone interesting. These places are intended to house a large group of people are not really acclimated to conversation. The most I ever get from places like that is a hook up.
An online site would be more like a singles event. With one added perk, you know as well as everyone else knows that everyone there is actually looking for and interested in a relationship. All you can know at a singles event is that everyone showed up there alone.
It also allows you to skip the hassle of finding out the sexual orientation, broad likes and dislikes, and various other hurdles along the path to a relationship. It adds a lot of much needed help to people in an increasingly insular society.
I used one, when work was taking upwards of 90% of my waking time. I lost touch with many of my friends, worked seven days a week. I could hardly interact enough within my own social circle let alone branch out to meet new people.
Which is what it is about, you make it sound like you think people are dating through their computers. What does it matter how you meet, or if you first talk through a chatroom, email, or over the phone. It is the same process, and the same outcome. Eventually you date, or you don't get along well enough and you don't.
Ziadaine said:
I was told by many friends "Yeah use a dating site, there's plenty of women there!"
My idea of a girlfriend is not a women who has a child/pregnant to a drug using neglectful father who will return later in the future to claim his child, nor do I have any interest in women who's profile looks like this:
"yo im [name], in from da newy, i like hangn wif ma mates n going out clubn."
So after 2 weeks I deleted my account and gave it the finger.
Sure there is a lot of exactly that. I found tons of it. Along with deluded, and fairly crazy people.
However keep in mind that these are the same people you are going to meet wherever you go. You might only get a break if you start hanging out at groups devoted to some hobby or another of your's.