Yes, because pansexuality as a defined sexuality was just thrown up by the tumblr crowd, not built up over decades, you know to help describe people who are attracted to basically anyone, regardless of parts. Except thats what pansexuality is, that's how pansexuality works, it means gender and gender identity aren't the target of attraction.dirtysteve said:Just because it's used in a different way to invalidate different people, doesn't mean they way I used it is wrong. Maybe a better example would be the famous Tumblr chart, with nonsense such as 'Aliosexual' which means you don't 'feel' any other sexuality fits you.
It's nonsense, more labels invented to either make someone feel special, or far more often, used to brow-beat others as insensitive and phobic.
A man, or boy, that is attract to women and trans women(some, or all trans women) would be considered by most reasonable people to be heterosexual/straight.chuckman1 said:Unrelated:
Is there a term for someone who likes women and finds some trans women attractive?
Straight?
Eh, I always just assumed that he just did that because he knew how much it bothered them and it being fucking hilarious to him, not because he was interested in boning them(though my knowledge of Deadpool is only the first two years he was in print, so maybe more shit happened). And he's pretty much always gravitated towards women, even when he got transported back to the original run of Spider-ManMetalix Knightmare said:Well if nothing else, it IS true of him in the comics. He and Cable had some VERY homoerotic overtones, and Deadpool is attracted to Thor. A hole's a goal with the guy when you get right down to it.Karadalis said:And this is important why?
I was not aware that deadpools sexuality was such a major point of his character in any way or form besides the ocasional sex joke.
I just wish people could stop making such a huge stink about who has what type of sexuality in this day and age. All it does is needlesly categorize people into collectives and create us vs them scenarios... you know.. like gender studies.
Pretty much the only time Deadpool regretted sleeping with someone was when he slept with a female version of himself from an alternate universe. That was weird even by his standards.
Well keep in mind that a lot of bisexual people won't date any trans, intersex, or even agender person, because even bisexuals tend to cling to the gender binary. That's why pansexual and panromantic labels exist, as a panromantic myself, I can say with some confidence that the difference is buried in the gender binary. I don't hold much stock in the concept of the gender binary, even though I present so stereotypically feminine it's actually angered feminists before. Still to put it simply, someone's physical sex won't bother someone who is pan, same as a bisexual, but at the same time their gender identity is a non-issue too, unlike with most bisexual people.Lightknight said:I think pansexual is a kind of silly denotation that doesn't need to be made in contrast with bisexual (to me it would be a silly as there being a term specifically for heterosexuals that are willing to date brunettes). But other than that it's true to the character so no biggy.
Sure, and a lot of black/white people won't date white/black people. Creating a specific term for it would then imply that everyone simply under the generic header of "heterosexual" is then racist in their dating choices. So I'm not seeing the need to create specific terms for the additional subsets of the group you are or are not willing to fuck. These lables are really getting out of hand when they go the route of clarifying all subsets too.KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Well keep in mind that a lot of bisexual people won't date any trans, intersex, or even agender person, because even bisexuals tend to cling to the gender binary. That's why pansexual and panromantic labels exist, as a panromantic myself, I can say with some confidence that the difference is buried in the gender binary. I don't hold much stock in the concept of the gender binary, even though I present so stereotypically feminine it's actually angered feminists before. Still to put it simply, someone's physical sex won't bother someone who is pan, same as a bisexual, but at the same time their gender identity is a non-issue too, unlike with most bisexual people.Lightknight said:I think pansexual is a kind of silly denotation that doesn't need to be made in contrast with bisexual (to me it would be a silly as there being a term specifically for heterosexuals that are willing to date brunettes). But other than that it's true to the character so no biggy.
Really it seems to be more the other way around, with people complaining about political correctness gone mad.Coruptin said:I can hear the complaints now
"Oh, so you're portraying (x)sexuals to be schizophrenic psychos like Deadpool? YOU (x)IST PIGS!"
Oh come on, you know he's going to get complaints from both. The world we live in now is a damned if you do, damned if don't in every scenario. The good news though is at some point the people bitching are just going to become such white noise that artists will finally be able to ignore them again and produce genuine art again.erttheking said:Really it seems to be more the other way around, with people complaining about political correctness gone mad.Coruptin said:I can hear the complaints now
"Oh, so you're portraying (x)sexuals to be schizophrenic psychos like Deadpool? YOU (x)IST PIGS!"
If it turns out he gets complaints about political correctness gone mad AND being XIst...then I'm just fucking done with geek culture. Our squabbling has just gone from petty to downright pathetic.
Keep in mind that pansexual is a fairly old term as sexuality terms go, at least anymore. Besides that having a racial preference for dating isn't that unusual, neither is having an age range preference for that matter. Still pansexual is far from clarifying all subsets, it's actually a term/label for people who basically don't count physical sex, or gender identity in relation to their attraction. It might sound unreasonable to have such labels to you, but for people like me whom it has a meaningful definition to identify ones feelings, it's not that unreasonable. Having a way to define one's self correctly is kind of important, at least on a personal level.Lightknight said:Sure, and a lot of black/white people won't date white/black people. Creating a specific term for it would then imply that everyone simply under the generic header of "heterosexual" is then racist in their dating choices. So I'm not seeing the need to create specific terms for the additional subsets of the group you are or are not willing to fuck. Theselableslabels are really getting out of hand when they go the route of clarifying all subsets too.
It just seems like they're saying, "He's bisexual, and that is even if the people are X". It seems to single out "X" as abnormal aberrant subclasses that one wouldn't normally assume to fall into the category when bisexual just means you find both sexes attractive. Sexuality is not typically assigned to gender so much as sex. So a person being transsexual should inherently still be considered within the realm of the standard binary sexes even if the gender/sex combination is more complex. It's not like transsexuals take on the appearance of a third sex. They present as one or the other and sometimes an amalgamation of the two but not a third and distinct sex that would make them not contained within the set of bisexual interests.KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Keep in mind that pansexual is a fairly old term as sexuality terms go, at least anymore. Besides that having a racial preference for dating isn't that unusual, neither is having an age range preference for that matter. Still pansexual is far from clarifying all subsets, it's actually a term/label for people who basically don't count physical sex, or gender identity in relation to their attraction. It might sound unreasonable to have such labels to you, but for people like me whom it has a meaningful definition to identify ones feelings, it's not that unreasonable. Having a way to define one's self correctly is kind of important, at least on a personal level.Lightknight said:Sure, and a lot of black/white people won't date white/black people. Creating a specific term for it would then imply that everyone simply under the generic header of "heterosexual" is then racist in their dating choices. So I'm not seeing the need to create specific terms for the additional subsets of the group you are or are not willing to fuck. Theselableslabels are really getting out of hand when they go the route of clarifying all subsets too.
When time is limited it is more important to convey a message than it is to convey the message formally. Fortunately, lable doesn't have any definition and therefore should never be taken as meaning anything other than label.[/Edit/Side note: I didn't correct your spelling to be mean Lightknight, I did it because every time I spell labels, I misspell it and it drives me batty. So I'm trying to get into the habit of spelling it right every time now.
First off, transsexual really only applies to people who have had, or are actively seeking a sex change operation, so that's a bit narrow of a term when dealing with everyone who qualifies as transgender. I know quite a lot of trans folk who are non-binary, because identifying differently than your sex assigned at birth tends to add fluidity to one's gender identity. A lot of people who consider them selves bisexual will still never date a woman who has, or had, a penis. For that matter the opposite is true concerning a man who has, or had a vagina. Being able to tell someone you're pansexual, or panromantic is at least a direct way of identifying to them that their plumbing and identity don't matter in terms of interest. Regardless of weather the interest is sexual, romantic, or both.Lightknight said:It just seems like they're saying, "He's bisexual, and that is even if the people are X". It seems to single out "X" as abnormal aberrant subclasses that one wouldn't normally assume to fall into the category when bisexual just means you find both sexes attractive. Sexuality is not typically assigned to gender so much as sex. So a person being transsexual should inherently still be considered within the realm of the standard binary sexes even if the gender/sex combination is more complex. It's not like transsexuals take on the appearance of a third sex. They present as one or the other and sometimes an amalgamation of the two but not a third and distinct sex that would make them not contained within the set of bisexual interests.KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Keep in mind that pansexual is a fairly old term as sexuality terms go, at least anymore. Besides that having a racial preference for dating isn't that unusual, neither is having an age range preference for that matter. Still pansexual is far from clarifying all subsets, it's actually a term/label for people who basically don't count physical sex, or gender identity in relation to their attraction. It might sound unreasonable to have such labels to you, but for people like me whom it has a meaningful definition to identify ones feelings, it's not that unreasonable. Having a way to define one's self correctly is kind of important, at least on a personal level.Lightknight said:Sure, and a lot of black/white people won't date white/black people. Creating a specific term for it would then imply that everyone simply under the generic header of "heterosexual" is then racist in their dating choices. So I'm not seeing the need to create specific terms for the additional subsets of the group you are or are not willing to fuck. Theselableslabels are really getting out of hand when they go the route of clarifying all subsets too.
It is far more normal to differentiate based on subsets when a person mostly meets the overall category except the one being discussed. So I don't think Pansexual makes sense but a term for a bisexual that isn't interested in transsexuals would be viable. The assumption should be made that pansexuals fall within the binary sex category both physically and with the one they identify as.
I understand but lable still gets a red underline in my spell checker, where label doesn't.Lightknight said:When time is limited it is more important to convey a message than it is to convey the message formally. Fortunately, lable doesn't have any definition and therefore should never be taken as meaning anything other than label.KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:Edit/Side note: I didn't correct your spelling to be mean Lightknight, I did it because every time I spell labels, I misspell it and it drives me batty. So I'm trying to get into the habit of spelling it right every time now.
OH I can see him hitting on a man. Played straight or for laughs is the question. And because it is Deadpool, either way is kinda in charcter for him.WinterWyvern said:In the comics, Deadpool swings both ways.
But I can bet that, for all the noise the movie producers are making.... we will NOT see Deadpool hit on a man in it.
For as long as art has existed, it has always existed alongside criticism-- social, moral, artistic, etcetera. The freedom of the artist has never been stronger than in the last fifty or so years, in Western Europe at any rate, and it is relatively strong today. The notion that artists are somehow prevented from expressing themselves to a greater extent than in some mythical past, and that critics need to shut up to bring them that missing freedom, is romantic nonsense. "Genuine art" is created alongside criticism throughout history, that's clear.Lightknight said:Oh come on, you know he's going to get complaints from both. The world we live in now is a damned if you do, damned if don't in every scenario. The good news though is at some point the people bitching are just going to become such white noise that artists will finally be able to ignore them again and produce genuine art again.