You're wrong for thinking that because you don't really seem to understand the point of games.
First of all, you always play to win (http://www.sirlin.net/ptw)
Second of all, every win/loss means something.
You have a basketball team and you meet for friendlies every day or whatever. So you lose, big deal right, there's always next time. Well, you don't have to be angry or upset about it but you still fucking lost. If you don't feel motivated to win really hard, raise the stakes, set you goal to something higher or maybe just play a different game lol.
You can't play a game without a 'playing to win' mindset that gives winning an importance, and if you do so you aren't really playing and instead perhaps just enjoying the spectacle.
First of all, you always play to win (http://www.sirlin.net/ptw)
Second of all, every win/loss means something.
You have a basketball team and you meet for friendlies every day or whatever. So you lose, big deal right, there's always next time. Well, you don't have to be angry or upset about it but you still fucking lost. If you don't feel motivated to win really hard, raise the stakes, set you goal to something higher or maybe just play a different game lol.
You can't play a game without a 'playing to win' mindset that gives winning an importance, and if you do so you aren't really playing and instead perhaps just enjoying the spectacle.