Hey leave him alone, we all have power fantasies about beating up idiot middle schoolers.SmashLovesTitanQuest said:I'm suing you OP because the edge in your post actually caused me bodily harm.
I can respect that, I didn't realize you were talking about an 8th grader, those are annoying.Nathaniel Grey said:3. I could care less about the slurs. I call people fag and gay all the time. What bothered me was that my friend had no defensive mechanism on how to handle this type of situation so I decided to handle it for him.
Hah.Nathaniel Grey said:Let me clarify some things.
I notice a lot of escapists are really anti-violence, or at least non-violent, which is why I was interested in seeing how you all would handle that situation. This wasn't a post to show off. I just want to get the escapist perspective.
1. The kid ain't gay. And I ain't gay.
2. I made the story descriptive, "aura", "david and goliath" only to give you a better understanding of what the three of us felt at the time. Which was the fact that I was getting ready to beat the shit out of this kid.
3. I could care less about the slurs. I call people fag and gay all the time. What bothered me was that my friend had no defensive mechanism on how to handle this type of situation so I decided to handle it for him.
4. A lot of you seem to think that your adult responses would work on a 8th grader and they wouldn't. Saying "So" or making a smart-alicky comment, especially when neither of us is gay, does nothing to help the situation. It would have only gave that kid more fuel.
*5. What the heck would be wrong with laying a middle schooler out?
By day you're Zachary Amaranth, moderately gay person with an interest in video games. But by night you're Super Gay! I would like to think it comes with a really well put together costume. You can fly around the city righting wrongs and standing up for homosexuals everywhere. Presumably your powers would come from the testing of that "gay bomb" the Pentagon was working on.Zachary Amaranth said:I wonder how one becomes super gay. I'm only moderately gay. Is there a program, or a serum I take? Do I have to be bitten by a radioactive homosexual? Cosmic gays?
Wouldn't have ended it for the kid though, and that's why the OP confronted the bully in the first place. If he just brushed it off the kid would continue to be victimized at school. Now the bully may think twice about it.geK0 said:After being told he wants to touch my dick I'd just respond with "well whatever, I don't judge" and I figure the guy would call me a "fag" and that would be the end of it.
I'd probably have just laughed if some kid said that to me.Nathaniel Grey said:"You shouldn't be talking with him he's super gay. He's trying to touch your dick."
THANK YOU! FINALLY! Someone understands!Fappy said:Wouldn't have ended it for the kid though, and that's why the OP confronted the bully in the first place. If he just brushed it off the kid would continue to be victimized at school. Now the bully may think twice about it.geK0 said:After being told he wants to touch my dick I'd just respond with "well whatever, I don't judge" and I figure the guy would call me a "fag" and that would be the end of it.
1. It is relevant because many have suggested that I say something effeminate. Neither me or my friend are gay so saying something effeminate in order to prove a point is foolish. The kid is in 8th grade, he wouldn't even understand that.zen5887 said:Hah.
1. Irrelevant?
2. I'm guessing/hoping your major isn't creative writing? And wow, is getting ready to beat up a child really something you want to be bragging about?
3. Calling people fag and gay is awful and childish and you should stop. You said you are in college? Are you sure?
4. Are you studying education or child psychology?
5. Hmm.. What's wrong with an adult physically attacking a child? Ohh I don't know, probably everything.
EDIT: It would be great if you could elaborate what "fight school" is. I'm genuinely curious.
Faggy and gay stuff? Wow, really? Are you sure you're in college?Nathaniel Grey said:snip
My bad. I've just been calling it fighting class for so long it simply rolls off the tongue. It's karate.zen5887 said:Are you sure you don't see an issue with a college aged person attacking a middle schooler? I'm not positive how old that makes that kid where you are, but in Australia an 8th grader is 13 or 14 years old. You're saying it's okay to punch, kick, and choke a kid who probably hasn't hit puberty because he is talking shit. That's pretty messed up man. For a lot of reasons.
I still don't know what fight class is, by the way.
That is the entire point. I gave him options. The same options I have. The same options you have. When you see someone and your first instinct is to be a dick the fact that he might pummel you into the ground is enough to make you stay quiet. You can go around and say whatever the hell you feel like saying but understand that the repercussions might be a punch to the face. The fact that I chose to not hit him is a testament to the type of person I am. But if I found myself in a situation where I thought the best solution was for the kid to get hit. I'll hit him. Look I understand how you feel to a degree. You probably don't think there is ever an appropriate time to use the word fag and gay(in reference to a person) or to be hitting people, but there is a certain balance I try to maintain when making choices. Sometimes a snide remark is the best thing. But not all the time.Baffle said:^_~Nathaniel Grey said:3. I see people do "faggy" and "gay" stuff all the time and I call it as I see it.
I have to assume you'd be okay with having the shit kicked out of you on that basis, because you're coming across as a slightly older version of the little bully.