Just a heads up, don't take me too seriously. I'm just rambling.
I'm honestly curious, can you describe what it was that made you not interested in these men as partners, but still make you care about them a lot as friends? It's just hard for me to imagine, that's all.
Well, what kind of person are you? Do you have many friends? If so, I can see how that'd work. But I have at most 4 people I'd consider friends at any given time, which means I need a lot of attention from each of them. If a woman doesn't like me enough to want a relationship, she probably doesn't like me enough to dedicate a lot of time and energy to me, or at least that's my experience so far. I may very well be proven wrong.Lilani said:I've had two friends I had to turn down, and about neither of them did I think they couldn't be valuable as partners. What I thought was I didn't see them as potential partners FOR ME. Believe it or not, just because you think you're compatible with someone doesn't mean they are automatically going to feel the same.
Not every single woman I encounter, but certainly every woman I developed a friendship with(again, so far). That's because in a partner I care more about brains than looks, which is also what I look for in friends.That doesn't mean they don't think you should be with ANYBODY, they just for whateve reason aren't into you that way. That isn't your fault, and that isn't THEIR fault.
Not everybody is compatible. For example, do you feel romantically inclined to every single woman you encounter? No? Then why expect that of somebody else?
I'm honestly curious, can you describe what it was that made you not interested in these men as partners, but still make you care about them a lot as friends? It's just hard for me to imagine, that's all.