Why exactly was Daddy go bot suspended but not the people blatantly insulting him for his differing views? Way to go, escapist, keep up that biased moderating style.
Being sweet, showing you care, not acting like a jerk definitely helps in a relationship. However, no woman wants to feel as though you're not seeing them like a human, and no one wants a man who acts like a minstrel or a servant. Buy her a rose once in a while on your way home from work and tell her you love her, then say you had a long day and retreat to your man cave. Make her dinner once in a while. Consider what she likes when picking the date locations. Remember what's most important to her and attempt to abide by it. These are the things that help me. Also remember that relationships are a two way street, if she's not making any kind of effort or sacrifice in the relationship and you're making them all, then there's something very wrong.
Also, to a degree, I agree with what Daddy go bot, said. Woman like a man who can act LIKE a man. A man who can lead and take charge at a moments notice. That doesn't mean that relationships aren't about two people making decisions together as equals. It means she usually wants to feel like you can be tenacious in difficult situations, grabbing the bull by the horns. She wants to feel like you can protect her as well and aren't only good for being a doormat. She wants to know you can be a leader. She wants you to have CONFIDENCE in yourself. Confidence is oh so important. Every woman is different, but this remains true for most of them in my experience.
Most importantly, get to know her. Understand who she is and what she values. Never compromise your own values for the sake of pleasing her, but also be willing to adapt if you're willing to go the distance.
) and we ended up going out and still are 2 years later.
