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That no matter who it is, or what your talking about, you've somehow pissed the other person off? I mean, everytime im talking to someone, i allways "Think" that i mess it up, it's all a little strange...
Am i insaine?
 

MassiveGeek

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I don't know.

I myself used to be very paranoid about messing up, you know, saying something really wrong or doing wrong. I'm pretty much over it now, except when the hormones kick in a bit extra, I might fall back on the trail.
 

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Anime-Addicted said:
That no matter who it is, or what your talking about, you've somehow pissed the other person off? I mean, everytime im talking to someone, i allways "Think" that i mess it up, it's all a little strange...
Am i insaine?
Nope, but you might be a bit self-conscious/insecure.

Trust me: the less you worry about thinking you're making an ass out of yourself, the better off you'll be.

[sub]Nothing good comes from over-analyzing either.[/sub]
 

Disaster Button

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Anime-Addicted said:
That no matter who it is, or what your talking about, you've somehow pissed the other person off? I mean, everytime im talking to someone, i allways "Think" that i mess it up, it's all a little strange...
Am i insaine?
Your hardly insane. Maybe just a bit insecure or socially nervous.

Whenever I talk to someone I always find myself thinking of what is "expected" of me to say rather than what I would say normally. I don't feel this way with everyone though, only certain people and I always leave those situations feeling like I've betrayed myself and like an idiot. Its always why I find myself acting differently around different people and I find it hard to carry my regular sense of self to places where I'm unsure or nervous. I'm not as bad as I used to be but its still happening to often for me. I know I shouldn't act this way and I'm always more comfortable when I'm acting like myself and know that's the right thing to do but its something I have no control over and its horrible because I always feel like I come off as some immature person trying to be "cool" when that's not what I want at all, I just don't cope well in social situations.

...Maybe I'm not the person to answer this.
 

Frotality

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i used to worry, now i just accept the fact that i lack the ability to ever open my mouth and not negatively effect the other person's opinion of me. i have this horrible tendency to say what i think, it really alienates all those people who apparently except some stock response, because political speech (as in, the ability to have conversations where you discuss nothing, say pretty much nothing, and just droll on in an endless loop of pointlessness all for its own sake) seems to be what everyone expects of me, and when i dont deliver they just move on to someone else.

your probably just insecure about your ability to speak, but never discount the possibility that your just speaking to some really thick heads unable to process any answer they dont expect.
 

Lilani

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While I worked at Disney World, this guy got really mad at me because I couldn't give him a receipt for his popcorn. Not wouldn't, couldn't.

See, at the outdoor popcorn and ice cream stands, we don't give out receipts for cash transactions. That's just how it is--we can't change that even if we wanted to. It makes things faster and saves a lot of paper, considering 99% of people who use cash don't care about the receipt anyway--especially if it's just for popcorn and a coke.

After I took the guy's order and gave him his change, I voided an item that I had accidentally rung up a few transitions ago, and needed to take care of before I forgot. Now void transactions do produce receipts, and we're required to keep them. So I finished his order, gave him his change, then did the void--in that order. After that I gave him his popcorn he asked for a receipt, and I told him we don't give them out for cash transactions.

Then he just looks at me, as though I'd just told him the popcorn was flavored with mud. He asked me to repeat myself, and I did. We don't get receipts for cash. He asks me why, and I said because it expedites things and is generally much more convenient on both ends. So he sets his popcorn down, reaches into his pocket, and pulls out a receipt. He points to it and says, "These people gave me a receipt."

So I took a look at it. It was from the Main Street Bakery, an indoor food and beverage location that wasn't related to my department in the least. And I explain that to him, and clarify that it's only the outdoor stands that don't do receipts for cash. He gives me that look again, and mentions the receipt I put away after I took his order.

I realized how confusing that must have been on his end, so I explained to him what it was. Now he's looking at me all skeptically, as though I'm trying to trick him and he's not buying it. I tell him "I'll show you the receipt if you want," and I start reaching for the receipt bag. But he just waves his hand and says, "Just forget it" and walks away.

After that I couldn't help but stare for a moment. I thought, did that seriously just happen? Did that guy really just walk away thinking I was trying to jip him out of his receipt? But he did. The woman who was behind him this whole time stepped up, kind of chuckled and said "People can be crazy, huh?" And I said yeah. They can be.
 

ComicsAreWeird

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Anime-Addicted said:
That no matter who it is, or what your talking about, you've somehow pissed the other person off? I mean, everytime im talking to someone, i allways "Think" that i mess it up, it's all a little strange...
Am i insaine?
No...no sure you´re notOHMYGOD!STOP LOOKING AT ME LIKE THAT!PLEASE DONT´T KILL ME!
 

Blemontea

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Im facing this dilemma when im talking with the girl i like, i feel like i did something to get her period going or something. She doesn't seem happy around me that's for sure.
 

Gaz6231

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Blemontea said:
Im facing this dilemma when im talking with the girl i like, i feel like i did something to get her period going or something. She doesn't seem happy around me that's for sure.
Maybe she got mad at you because you're the type of person who assumes that any negative emotions in a woman are period-related :p

Anime-Addicted said:
That's just normal paranoia, everybody gets that.
 

Trivun

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I sometimes feel that way, but usually it passes fairly quickly. No, you aren't insane, it's just a natural response to certain elements of the other person's tone and body language. Remember, only about 8% of what you say is words, the rest is body language and tone, so it's perfectly natural for someone to mistake your intent when you speak to them and cause you to feel (erroneously or not) that you've accidentally offended them...

I think that statistic is right, at least. We had to learn it all as part the customer service training when I got my job at a supermarket. Silly thing is, I don't even work in customer service, but I still have to know this because my job is still on the shop floor so people still ask me questions. Honestly, people expect me to be psychic half the time... :p
 

Nigh Invulnerable

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Anime-Addicted said:
That no matter who it is, or what your talking about, you've somehow pissed the other person off? I mean, everytime im talking to someone, i allways "Think" that i mess it up, it's all a little strange...
Am i insaine?
I hate you.


Just kidding.
 

Amethyst Wind

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The manager at my last job. Before we'd even spoken a word to each other (*her* manager interviewed me) there was something of a negative vibe between us. The working relationship was not smooth, ended with her talking to me in a completely disrespectful manner and me telling her to stuff it and quitting.
 

Neko Pounce

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lvl9000_woot said:
TheGreatCoolEnergy said:
lvl9000_woot said:
Yes. Very insane.
What is sanity? Having the same sickness as your neighbour?
No.

OT: I have a poem for you:
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Roses are red

Violets are blue

I'm schizophrenic

and so am I
My step-dads a alcholic schizophrenic.
Bad luck.