Not with anyone currently, but being drug to a churchy "singles dance" tomorrow. I dread that I'll open the door and there will be 100 Ned Flanders clones looking at us. Maybe someone else will have been drug along by their friend or coworker and I can meet with one of these nice heathens, I mean weirdos, I mean people.
We should set up a "meet and greet" thread for folks. Prolly's been done already, and I'm too lazy to check right now. Must get up and move my fat lonely ass.
The_Oracle said:
Even though I don't have a Significant Other in my life, there is someone I fancy; the only problem is I have to take my time and wait for the best moment to tell her how I feel, so as not to ruin it.
The ways of the hearts of nonsynthetic mortal fleshbags are odd indeed. BEEP BOOP BOP.
No. Don't wait. Just do it. There will never be a "perfect moment". A choir of angels will never descend with trumpet fanfare. There will never be a shower of sakura petals unless you happen to meet at the right season at the right time and you live in Japan. If she feels the same way about you, she will appreciate your confidence, and if she doesn't, fugghetaboutit.
My coworker does this to me, drives me nuts (she's the one dragging me to this spring dance, btw) She texts me, saying "I like this guy and I wanna ask him out for coffee, how should I do it?" I just want to shake her and say "You just DO IT! You just say, 'Hey, would you like to get a cup of coffee sometime?'" even though it's conversation with a purpose, it's just conversation.
There is never a right time than the present. It's a gift...that's why its called a present. Ugh,can't believe I just posted that slew of cliches and sayings. I think there's a special level in hell for that.
