So i'm bored and this popped up in my head.
Now when i was growing up, sex was ( and still is ) taboo, my parents never talked about it. While i did know what sex was, i had no idea how sex worked. I didn't really have sex ed at school, so the most i learned was from pornography. And when i started bein sexually active, it was mostly trial an error.
Now it is my understanding that when people are taught about sex ( wether at school or home), it's mostly generalities about sex. Like the different sexual organs, how to put on a condom, what the pill is for, how to avoid diseases, how to avoid getting pregnant,( if you are lucky what is a clitoris and where is the g-spot) etc..
But when it comes to how to have sex( the actual game mechanics if you will)well that you have to figure out on your own ( dark souls style).While i am aware that not everyone does it the same way, or like the same things, some general " do to sex" guidelines would have been appreciated. But i was left shooting in the dark, learning from mistakes and experience. And i'm wondering does it have to be this way?
Now i'm not asking to have teachers have sex in class to show teenagers how to do it, but does sex really need to be learned by trial and error?
Discuss.
Now when i was growing up, sex was ( and still is ) taboo, my parents never talked about it. While i did know what sex was, i had no idea how sex worked. I didn't really have sex ed at school, so the most i learned was from pornography. And when i started bein sexually active, it was mostly trial an error.
Now it is my understanding that when people are taught about sex ( wether at school or home), it's mostly generalities about sex. Like the different sexual organs, how to put on a condom, what the pill is for, how to avoid diseases, how to avoid getting pregnant,( if you are lucky what is a clitoris and where is the g-spot) etc..
But when it comes to how to have sex( the actual game mechanics if you will)well that you have to figure out on your own ( dark souls style).While i am aware that not everyone does it the same way, or like the same things, some general " do to sex" guidelines would have been appreciated. But i was left shooting in the dark, learning from mistakes and experience. And i'm wondering does it have to be this way?
Now i'm not asking to have teachers have sex in class to show teenagers how to do it, but does sex really need to be learned by trial and error?
Discuss.