QuietlyListening said:
Orphan81 said:
First, I don't know if it's your intention, but your tone sounds condescending and it's pretty damn irritating. But that aside...
Yes, women's jobs are typically valued less than men's jobs (an often overlooked part of the wage gap). However, women have been shown to suffer discrimination in both salary negotiations (http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/07/29/AR2007072900827.htm) as well as in percieved competence during hiring (http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/unofficial-prognosis/2012/09/23/study-shows-gender-bias-in-science-is-real-heres-why-it-matters/). To say that these issues don't exist or are just a myth is patently false.
The really harmful thing is to chalk all of this up to a simple divergence of "interests", especially when the fields in question actually display bias against or even outright hostility towards women. How one is perceived in the world by others and oneself, taken over time, has a tremendous influence over final outcomes. Or to put it a slightly different way, we tend to become what people expect us to be.
Your first link doesn't work, and second off, if I came off as condescending that wasn't the intention, it was to be informative. I'm a graduate student in Sociology, so I take actual data very seriously. That being said, if you found me irritating, that's on you, not on me.
Now If you actually bothered to read my responses, I never said sexism doesn't exist. In fact, several times, I said it does exist. It's just not actually to the degree that extreme feminists are making it out to be. It's just like racism still exists too, but I think we can agree we've come further in recent years then from what it was say 20 years ago or even 10 (Current Police deciding they like to shoot Black guys more than normal not withstanding)... each generation is progressively less sexist and less racist than the last... and Millenials in particular show the lowest degree's of sexism and racism.
That doesn't mean these things don't exist of course...again several times I stated they do. But some individuals are distorting facts or cherry picking their data...
Honestly, think about it. If sexism existed to the degree it's being reported on...if it was really as bad as it's being said in certain circles (and AGAIN THIS ISN'T SAYING IT DOESN'T EXIST! I KNOW IT DOES!) wouldn't we be seeing rampant reports of increased rape, increased sexual harassment compared to say 10 or 20 years ago even?
Let's further go to your argument further down where we have reports that Videogames increase agression and violence (We have reports saying they don't do that too). Violent Videogames have existed since the 80's...look at the trends of crime, aggression, and violence in society... particularly among those who grew up playing these games..
Across the board, figures for violence, and sexual misconduct are going DOWN. Despite the claims our society is more sexist than ever, despite the claims of being more violent than ever, our current society is more peaceful than it's ever been.
The point is, the world just does NOT reflect what some of these extremists are saying. Now that doesn't mean we still don't have sexism and racism, and we still shouldn't be aware of it... But I'll tell you this... Going after videogames is not going after where the real problems are...and honestly that's why I have a problem with it.
Trying to say it's all videogames fault, and they're supporting some sexist rape culture narrative that's making things worse, is doing a genuine disservice to where the real problems are coming and originating from. It's literally just away for some of these individuals to make Money. That's all.
No one is saying we can't have more women in videogames, or more minorities, that's fine. But what we are saying, is that we don't want every game to be Depression Quest and "Gone Home". And that is literally what some of these articles, particularly the one's released in August are arguing. They want to change the market place completely.
Now I'm not a fan of the million and one Call of Duty games. I'm not a fan of FPS culture either...but I understand that I don't have to play those games...and the existence of those games doesn't make Society worse, and it doesn't make people into killers. I also understand that I have a choice to not engage in those games at all... I can instead play my Zombie Apocalpyse simulators, and my Dark Souls and Street Fighters and really get into those communities...
But someone's going to come along and tell me "The Witch" in L4D is sexist, and Zoey and Rochelle aren't ugly enough, or are to pretty, or are too weak looking...or looking for anything else when I just want to shut the hell up and shoot Zombies (And yes I think the Witch is sexy, and there is NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.)
The point is, I don't care that "Gone Home" and "Depression Quest" exist either... They're great to exist along with how many other Indie games are out there... Hell I love 2 indie games in particular, Skull Girls and 1 Finger Death Punch... but I don't want to see Call of Duty go under, because that would make a ton of people sad, and it would be for no good fucking reason. I don't want to see Dark Souls go under, or Mortal Kombat either... and I don't want to see Indie Games go under either...they can all exist along side of one another...
So when I argue that Sexism isn't as bad as these extremists are making it out to be...that's not me saying I'm dismissing all claims of Sexism.. Its me defending my love of the Hobby as a Gamer, and me as an Academic saying there are better and much more valuable places to focus attention on, then the damn Videogames.
Finally, I do have one last question for you. To you truly believe, that their should be an equal representation of men and women in every occupation out there, in every single hobby? I want to know, do you think we should always have the same distribution of men and women who enjoy Hunting&Fishing? That enjoy Knitting&Crocheting? That are Firearm Enthusiasts? That are Primary School Teachers? In Sports? Do you believe Society should be equal 50/50 in population in every hobby and vocation?