Do's/Dont's of Dating a girl in your Classes

[LockHeart]

Well I dated a girl who I was sharing halls with, it was brilliant while it lasted, but since we broke up it's just been unbearably awkward...

You just have to weigh up the pros against the possible cons, but definately, absolutely do not get a house together!

 

[Pimppeter2]

Just don't do it. Date girls from other schools, then the douchbags around you won't be gossiping about you all the time.

Wrong, it only makes it worse. But ,maybe that's because my girlfriends in college...

Well I'm only talking about my experiences, which relate to high school. I promise to revive this thread and share my new found knowledge

Ps: When did you change your Avatar? The new one looks sick!

I should probably clarify I'm still in high school too.
PS: I think I changed it about two weeks ago, but I haven't had time to do a lot of posting so it's not super well circulated yet.

The amount of awesomeness that is you humbles me.

PS: Looks sweet.

 

[artemkin]

Might as well. You'll never find out what would happen if you don't

 

[Irridium]

i wouldn't, but thats just me.

Although if all you want is sex, go for it.

 

[DoW Lowen]

A lot of married couples tarted off as college/university class mates. If you're worried about what other people think about you and that's why you don't want to date, then I'd get over that before I'd start dating in the first place.

 

[mattseffect]

A lot of married couples tarted off as college/university class mates. If you're worried about what other people think about you and that's why you don't want to date, then I'd get over that before I'd start dating in the first place.

I honestly don't care what they'd think, nor could I imagine what they would. People hook up in university (at least mine) all the time and it wouldn't exactly be worth talking about. I think I'm going to go with 'get to know for now' and then 'ask out by the end of the term'. Seems fairly reasonable because:

a) If she doesn't piss me off by then she must be worth something
b) If she does piss me off by then, I wouldn't have wasted time/energy
c) minimizes awkward potential

 

[goatzilla8463]

I go to an all boys' school so I don't see my girlfriend at school.

But I guess that it just means that there would be a lot more snogging at break and huggles.

 

[Nickolai77]

Well, it seems that most people are saying (quite rightly) don't date someone whom you live with or share a class with, because of the potential awkwardness after a break up.

Valid point, but to males who are not so charismatic/good looking/extroverted this advise can be rather restrictive. It means your limited to girls you meet from other courses or at student societies; and beggars can't be chooses.

To those males who have little difficulty getting girlfriends, follow the rule "Don't date room-mates and class-mates". To those who are not so confident, i would not be so picky.

 

[CaptainCrunch]

Have you tried paying attention to the coursework? That's what I did when I broke up with "some gal from one of my classes." Two-fold benefit - you're giving her the cold shoulder, and simultaneously ensuring a better grade in the class.

Remember, the rumor mill is unlikely to affect you once you go on to a career. (Unless you did something particularly funny / embarrassing, with videos on the internet.) Who cares what some ex says about you? Just do what you're there to do, and give her a giant middle finger with your unhindered success.

 

[Ren3004]

DON'T offer to do homework for the girl you like.

-snip-

if you want to get to know a girl and offer to do her homework just to get her to like you, she won't see you as anything else but a way to get her work done without having to do anything

Being asked to do homework was actually the last drop that made me stop liking a girl in high school.

OT: it may work, give it a shot. I'm a bit biased since most of the girls I liked were in my class (and the ones who weren't were either unrealistic targets or turned out to be a *****).

 

[Erana]

Depends. What is your varna?
(Whoo, jokes based on my asian religions course!)

 

[sdafdfhrye3245]

I recommend that you don't punch her. Most people don't like that.

Damn it you should have told me earlier now I'm suspended from school

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

Just make sure it's a class that you don't like anyways. That way, if you do break up, you still hate the class, and if you don't, you suddenly like it; it's a win-win.

That's.... actually a pretty damn good plan. Kudos to you, my friend.