Been a big fan of the Escapist site for quite awhile now, and while this may be my first (and last) post, this is a topic I that I feel has got to be addressed... for the good of all gamers.
Simply put... being a Female Gamer, or GamerGrrl, or what have you... does -not- make you special.
Now before you boot up flame.exe, or start throwing the "S" word around, I do not harbor any ill-will towards females. As a male, its genetically written into my code to have a certain interest in the "fairer" sex.
But for years now, there has been entirely too much attention placed on gender/game-nomics. In the beginning, girls were derided, and scorned. They were the focus of ridicule, unwanted sexual advances, and the awe of boobie-obsessed basement dwellers.
Now, in the "gaming age" of "female empowerment", girls are 'equal'. Except... theyre really not, are they? Through a combination of passive aggressive Hear Me Roar gender advertising, and the decendants of the aforementioned net-crushes, females have yet another new, unique, and wholly overblown (not to mention unequal) gaming niche.
This has to stop peeps. :'(
People who go out of their way to advertsise their gender, are contributing to the problem. If you are a 80 Troll Hunter named "Femalegamer"... then youre not lobbying for equality. Youre making your gender a part of who you are. Youre infliciting it on people. Its like having a gamerhandle of "RepublicanGamer"... It sets an aggressive, unpleasant tone right off the bat. When youre in a game, no one should give a shit about your gender, right? Isnt that the meaning of equality? It doesnt matter if youre a girl. What matters is how you play.
And males, we need to seriously curb the girl-crush thing that pervades every single forum Ive ever seen. Posting about girls, real or fantasy, with the slavering devotion of a 14 year old, only sets the whole gender back. Going out of your way to help, assist, or be around a gamer who you suspect, or can confirm, to be female, is bad. As in, rolled up newspaper bad. Bad gamer! Bad!
Even gaming mags, and the beloved Escapist, are guilty of contributing to the gender divide issue. Making columns for GamerGrrls might seem like a good idea, and I could see how this would encourage nascent female gamers to be more active, but you cannot claim to have blinders on, with regards to social standards, and then elevate the opinions of any one genders opinions, with that genders own webpage, feature, or what have you. You cannot have your cake and eat it too.
Ok, rant is over. You all now have my permission to label me as a chauvinist, and my further permission to grossly misconstrue my ever statement to suit your warped opinion of my plea. Also, you may now throw in a smattering of "tl:dr" (although you clearly did.)
But for those who read through, and understand, (key word, that.) I summarize by saying this impassioned plea wasnt meant to hurt anyones feelings, nor to aggrivate the already foolishly inflamed idea that women gamers are somehow better, worse, more interesting, less interesting, inherently clever or "spunky", or incompetant and weak.
This post is meant to say... Youre a female gamer? Who cares? Dont break sheep pls.
Myth
Simply put... being a Female Gamer, or GamerGrrl, or what have you... does -not- make you special.
Now before you boot up flame.exe, or start throwing the "S" word around, I do not harbor any ill-will towards females. As a male, its genetically written into my code to have a certain interest in the "fairer" sex.
But for years now, there has been entirely too much attention placed on gender/game-nomics. In the beginning, girls were derided, and scorned. They were the focus of ridicule, unwanted sexual advances, and the awe of boobie-obsessed basement dwellers.
Now, in the "gaming age" of "female empowerment", girls are 'equal'. Except... theyre really not, are they? Through a combination of passive aggressive Hear Me Roar gender advertising, and the decendants of the aforementioned net-crushes, females have yet another new, unique, and wholly overblown (not to mention unequal) gaming niche.
This has to stop peeps. :'(
People who go out of their way to advertsise their gender, are contributing to the problem. If you are a 80 Troll Hunter named "Femalegamer"... then youre not lobbying for equality. Youre making your gender a part of who you are. Youre infliciting it on people. Its like having a gamerhandle of "RepublicanGamer"... It sets an aggressive, unpleasant tone right off the bat. When youre in a game, no one should give a shit about your gender, right? Isnt that the meaning of equality? It doesnt matter if youre a girl. What matters is how you play.
And males, we need to seriously curb the girl-crush thing that pervades every single forum Ive ever seen. Posting about girls, real or fantasy, with the slavering devotion of a 14 year old, only sets the whole gender back. Going out of your way to help, assist, or be around a gamer who you suspect, or can confirm, to be female, is bad. As in, rolled up newspaper bad. Bad gamer! Bad!
Even gaming mags, and the beloved Escapist, are guilty of contributing to the gender divide issue. Making columns for GamerGrrls might seem like a good idea, and I could see how this would encourage nascent female gamers to be more active, but you cannot claim to have blinders on, with regards to social standards, and then elevate the opinions of any one genders opinions, with that genders own webpage, feature, or what have you. You cannot have your cake and eat it too.
Ok, rant is over. You all now have my permission to label me as a chauvinist, and my further permission to grossly misconstrue my ever statement to suit your warped opinion of my plea. Also, you may now throw in a smattering of "tl:dr" (although you clearly did.)
But for those who read through, and understand, (key word, that.) I summarize by saying this impassioned plea wasnt meant to hurt anyones feelings, nor to aggrivate the already foolishly inflamed idea that women gamers are somehow better, worse, more interesting, less interesting, inherently clever or "spunky", or incompetant and weak.
This post is meant to say... Youre a female gamer? Who cares? Dont break sheep pls.
Myth