SillyBear said:
If a girl likes you she likes you. Unless you do something incredibly outrageous that turns her off, you'll be fine. Don't listen to people who think they know what a perfect first date is, because there is no such thing. They are armchair experts who probably don't have a girlfriend to begin with.
Sort of. I mean there are a shitload of possibilities for first dates that could work, it really depends on you and the person you want to date. I only give suggestions because it gives someone an idea on how to think of something fun and interesting to do on a first date.
Still, there are a few key tips that DO work.
-Do something that tells her something about you. As a gamer, taking a girl to an arcade is a great idea. Obviously not all girls go for that, but if you're interested in that kind of girl, then she might not like the fact that you're a gamer regardless of what you do for dates. Shit, just doing something like going to an arcade, then asking here "Where to next?" lets her make her own suggestions about what to do.
-Doing something original, or at least not typical makes you stand out. Girls, especially the attractive ones, tend to be more receptive to someone who stands out, or does things that could be considered out of the box.
-Don't plan for a long evening out. First dates are just testing the waters. If you choose to do so, then you could easily find something to do on the fly.
One thing's for sure. For first dates, there are a few don'ts.
Movie: It might work for high school dates, because, like, dating is like, soOOOoo cool! For anyone else, it's just not a good idea. The point of a first date is to get to know the person. You're testing the waters. What's the point of spending an hour or two fixated to a giant screen when you won't be talking to each other?
Romance: Ugh... Nothing says trying too hard than being too romantic. Adding small bits of romance to a first date isn't bad (in fact it can probably work) , but focusing mainly on romance on a first date just won't work. You're not really romantically involved yet. Being too romantic makes it seem like you're trying to force things.
If you have trouble maintaining a conversation with someone (like me, seriously what the fuck do you talk about?), then take her out to something that is engaging. For example, playing pool, you can focus on your shot, which gives you time to think a little. When you get a conversation to click, then the rest just falls into place really.
, and any ideas for a first date 
