hazabaza1 said:
But we have vastly different opinions on how to treat people in relationships and I'm close enough to getting banned that this is a conversation I want to avoid.
Well, just because we have differing opinions doesn't mean that you need to say anything ban-worthy. Like I said, if I get the impression that someone is uncomfortable with what I'm doing, I back off.
On the other hand, if you feel you would like to reply in more detail, you can PM me. Just please keep it civil. I enjoy chatting. I don't much enjoy arguing.