Susan Arendt said:
ShredHead said:
Susan Arendt said:
Or....suck it up and deal with the fact that the people who put a roof over your head don't want to get a 360?
Your dad is enjoying the Wii -- first off, celebrate that fact. You and your dad can relate over games, something a large portion of this community will never get to do. Yes, you would more than likely enjoy a 360, but if your dad doesn't feel comfortable with the controller, who are you to try and force him to change? He deserves to be able to enjoy games the way he wants to enjoy them, not the way you think he should.
It does seem fair that if you can buy it yourself, you should be allowed to have one, but ultimately, that's up to your parents. Gaming isn't a right, it's a privilege. Your parents don't have to let you have any game systems at all. Is it frustrating for you? Absolutely. Welcome to being a teenager. Sometimes it's unfair.
Isn't that kinda irrelevant being as he was asking for a solution rather than for someone to insult him?
But that
is a solution. Simply accepting that he may not get what he wants because it's ultimately out of his control is a solution to the situation. Does it suck that it's out of his control? Well, sure. It's very frustrating, but the bottom line is, if his mom doesn't want more than one console in the house, she's not being unreasonable, she's simply doing her job.
What may be pertinent is discovering exactly why she doesn't want more than one console in the house. It could be any number of things -- she doesn't want the added expense, she's afraid it'll affect the OP's grades, she simply doesn't want clutter. Some of her concerns may be something that can be addressed, and some may not be.
No, her job is not to make sure everything goes her way, her job is to raise her child well, letting him use his own resources to attain something that he wants is not really that bad of a thing.
It's not a solution, it is merely a "deal with it", I don't see how you can say that solves anything, it doesn't change the situation at all.
Finally, all of your arguments for why he shouldn't have it can be easily refuted, he said he could use his own money, if gaming were to affect his grades, wouldn't the Wii do that anyway, and an Xbox doesn't create clutter, it's not a big thing. So why, if you can't come up with a viable reason not to get it, should she be able to?
I admit that it is most likely out of his hands, but there's no need to be so condescending about it.